Sister Wang is a bitter mother, she gave birth to an only daughter in her early years, and the daughter is already married. However, when giving birth to the child, the daughter left the world because of amniotic fluid embolism, and the child did not survive.
Losing their only dependence, Sister Wang and his wife were devastated, but life still had to go on. She thought of having another child, so she went to the hospital to do IVF. Sister Wang is 52 years old, which is of course very difficult.
Sister Wang and her husband decided that if they could get pregnant by embryo transfer, they would have to give birth to a boy and never give birth to a daughter again. Others think that having another boy at such an old age will not be able to move at that time. When my son got married, he couldn't afford to buy a house. However, the couple was still very determined to have a son, and eventually, the son was born by caesarean section.
Whenever I see the couple come out with their sons, people around them feel that these two people are a bit unable to open up, and they still find so much pressure on themselves at such an old age. However, only they themselves know how much damage their daughter's departure has caused to their hearts.
Having a daughter is good, the pressure of having a daughter is small, and "having a daughter is enough" is already a new concept for many parents, but we can't just see the little benefits of having a daughter. There is no need to buy a house to give birth to a daughter, there is no need to have a mother-in-law contradiction when giving birth to a daughter, and the disadvantages of having a daughter are compared with these two benefits, but they are more numerous.
Parents who have daughters should worry more about raising their daughters.
When the daughter was a child, she was well-behaved and obedient, and she was better to carry than her son, but the cultivation of the daughter needed to be more painstaking. In the school, the parents of the boys can be light and the parents of the girls are more angry. As children grow older and adolescents fall in love early, the damage to girls will be even greater.
Parents should pay attention to the dynamics of their children's thoughts, and they should also strengthen the cultivation of girls' awareness of protecting themselves. After the daughter grows up, in the married life, the woman is also a vulnerable group. Therefore, the parents who adopt their sons are more and more relaxed, while the parents who adopt their daughters are more and more worried.
The daughter who is married far away is worried about her parents, and she is also the eternal concern of her parents.
The need to buy a house to give birth to a daughter is the greatest comfort in the hearts of parents in this era of high housing prices. However, if you don't buy a house when you have a daughter, your daughter will have to go to your in-laws' house to live, especially those daughters who are married far away, which is also the eternal concern of parents.
As a distantly married daughter, I have not returned to my hometown for two years because of the epidemic. Whenever the old man calls, he always tells his thoughts about us. There are also some difficulties in their lives, in addition to giving a part of the money, other help is powerless. The elderly are getting older, arm pain, leg pain, high blood pressure, poor sleep quality, many small problems can only be faced by themselves, as a daughter, can not be taken care of around.
Even if she is not far from married, her daughter will go to live in her in-laws' house, which is our long tradition. As a father-in-law and mother-in-law, as long as they are able to live on their own, they are not willing to leave their homes. Therefore, not being able to live with a daughter is a psychological preparation for parents who have a daughter.
Daughters have to face the obstacle of childbearing, and parents are even more distressed.
We see that in front of the obstetrics department of many hospitals, the parents of the man and the woman are waiting outside for the mother to give birth. Some people say that it can be seen from a person's performance that it is the mother-in-law or the mother-in-law. At the moment when the door of the delivery room was opened, the mother-in-law was most concerned about the grandson, and went to coax the child happily, and the mother's mother, most wanted to see if her daughter was safe and sound, and her face was full of pain for her daughter.
Most women will have children after marriage, which is also a major event related to life and health. So, parents who have daughters worry more. If there is something wrong with a daughter, the elderly parents are the saddest people.
The daughter has a mother-in-law contradiction, and the parents are not at ease.
I have a girlfriend who has gone to live in her mother's house since she got married, and the child was also brought up by her mother. Because there was a little conflict between the in-laws and the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law said: "This is the house I bought, it is my home, you give me a roll!" "After the fight, she came back to her mother's house and didn't go back.
Daughters and mothers-in-law live under the same roof, and most of them will have mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions. It is a thing of the past to have a daughter without buying a house, after all, the house that the man bought before marriage has nothing to do with the woman. If the daughter does not have a house of her own after marriage, she will have no bottom in living in the in-laws' home. Therefore, many parents who are distressed about their daughters, worried that their daughters will be angry, either take their daughters home to live, or buy a house for their daughters directly.
The daughter is intimate and filial, which is the favorite of her parents and mothers. Sons also have the benefit of sons, they are strong, brave, not afraid of wind and rain. Parents must educate their children well, and they can enjoy the happiness of the second half of their lives.