Lead:
Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are contradictory, on the one hand, because the mother-in-law has no sense of boundaries, and on the other hand, because the man's unconditional tolerance has given the mother-in-law unlimited courage.
01
The first time, Zhang Liang took his girlfriend to see his parents, and the girlfriend carried large and small gifts, but Zhang Liang's parents were flat-faced.
Four people, only 3 bowls of dishes.
The atmosphere was a little awkward, but fortunately the mother-in-law did not produce any moths.
Sent away girlfriend.
Zhang Liang was a little dissatisfied with this, said a few words, his father immediately jumped up, pointed at him and scolded, he could only not say a word.
02
The second time, the girlfriend was a little reluctant to come, but could not stand Zhang Liang's warm invitation, or went.
This time, she bought fruit milk.
Similarly, the mother-in-law still only cooked 3 bowls of dishes, not enthusiastic and not cold.
The girlfriend finished the meal very culturedly and dispersed without joy.
After sending his girlfriend away, he proposed to his mother again, and as soon as her mother slammed the door, the protest was again ineffective.
03
The third time, the girlfriend was a little reluctant to go.
He repeatedly promised that he would never let his girlfriend be wronged.
This time, there are still only 3 bowls of dishes on the table, even worse than the last time.
Zhang Liang was completely out of control.
He told his mother that this was his girlfriend, why did he disrespect her so much, and if it was like this next time, he would never take his girlfriend home in the future.
The father slapped the table and scolded him for being filial.
The mother wiped her tears and told him that he was not.
He resolutely left with his girlfriend.
04
The fourth time, his mother called him and asked him to bring his girlfriend to the door, repeatedly promising that he would not treat his girlfriend badly.
This time.
Zhang prepared a table full of dishes for his mother. He also wrapped a big red envelope for Zhang Liang's girlfriend.
Even when he left, he prepared fruit for her intimately and let him bring it back to eat.
05
The essence of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the power struggle.
Many mothers-in-law like to give their daughters-in-law a chance to get off the horse, so that the daughter-in-law can clearly recognize who is in charge of this family.
But marriage is one person from each family.
Let them form a new family, not one side for the other, and seek perfection.
If at this time, the man is silent, he may have escaped a war, but in the end there are countless problems waiting for him.
A man must let his parents understand that he has grown up, that his parents should not interfere in his life, and that the process of conveying it may be painful or soft-hearted because of his parents' statements.
But men have to understand.
The pain now is for the sake of having a pleasant relationship in the future, and parents, like children, will act on the face of the face and will test your bottom line according to your attitude.
Whether you want to hurt or hurt again is between your thoughts.