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Ling married her boyfriend of many years on October 10.
Originally, the two planned to hold a wedding during New Year's Day, but due to the epidemic situation, it was strictly forbidden to hold wedding banquets and other gathering activities, so they temporarily cancelled the wedding and waited until when the wedding could be held.
But the wedding was not held, Ling did not want to go to the in-laws' house for the New Year, anyway, there was an opportunity to go to the in-laws' house for the New Year.
But Ling's husband did not think so, he thought that he had obtained the certificate, Ling was a member of his family, and he had to celebrate the New Year at his house.
For this reason, the two argued endlessly, saying that the public was justified and the mother said that the mother was reasonable.
In the end, Ling's husband, persuaded by his family, agreed to Ling's New Year at her mother's house.
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In the case of "Ling", there are girls who experience it every year, and whether to spend the New Year on which side, the two can negotiate.
If the consultation fails, it depends on who is more generous and who understands whom.
From the woman's point of view, I very much understand why she wants to celebrate the New Year in her mother's house, after all, because of the customs, I can't go back to my mother's house for the New Year in the future, this is the last time in my mother's house for the New Year, how the man must support it.
If, in the future, you can take turns to go to your in-laws' house and your mother's house for the New Year, then the woman will not have to spend the New Year at her mother's house this year.
Moreover, the fact that there is no wine, in the eyes of some people, means that the two are not officially announced to all relatives and friends that the two are married, and it is not convenient to go to the in-laws' house for the New Year.
At this time, the man may wish to be more generous, let the woman celebrate the New Year at her mother's house, and then take the woman to the house for a reunion dinner after the New Year.
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From the man's point of view, he finally married his daughter-in-law home, and as a result, because he did not have a wedding, he was no longer in his own home for the New Year, and his face was very "faceless".
Understand the man's mood, but there is really no need to force the woman to be at her own home for the New Year this year.
Compared with "face" and "daughter-in-law", daughter-in-law is still more important.
Externally, the man can completely explain why he did not celebrate the New Year at his home this year on the grounds that "the daughter-in-law is reluctant to give up his parents".
If the families of both men and women are close together, then they can get together for the New Year, or have a reunion dinner at your house at noon and a reunion dinner at my house in the evening, so that everyone is happy.
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