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People are older, their earning power is declining, their physical functions are also declining, and they have to face the fear of death. The older people are most afraid of loneliness. Loneliness will affect the physical and mental health of the elderly, and now many elderly friends will choose to remarry or partner to live a life. With a companion, life is comfortable.
Old age is already the sunset moment of life, no one wants to end up alone, and I am the same. My wife has been dead for many years, my daughter is married, and I have tasted loneliness. I want to find a new wife, someone to rely on and enjoy a good life.
I know that it is not easy to find a close partner in my later years, and I have made enough efforts to find a wife, and I will not find someone to settle down because I am anxious. I have the best wishes, with all my sincerity, and only wait for the right person to appear.
Tell me about my specific situation. My name is He Suqin, and I am 52 years old. In the early years, I ran a supermarket with my husband. At that time, there were still very few large supermarkets, and our customers were plentiful and made a lot of money. The times are developing rapidly, modern supermarkets have sprung up like mushrooms, our living space is getting smaller and smaller, and finally we can't support the closure.
Skinny camels are bigger than horses, and we've made a lot of money running supermarkets over the years. After the supermarket closed, we no longer had the ambition to start a business, but we were in our forties and retired earlier. After inspection, we joined a promising convenience store, which was opened on the street outside our community and had a door
Make a living
, close to home, we are already satisfied.
My husband likes to travel, but I don't like to go far. Sometimes he would leave the convenience store to me and go out with friends on his own. He often sent back some photos of the tour, with great views, good food, and he had a big smile. I used to tell him to be safe outside, but who would have thought? He was able to go hiking in the mountains, but he lost contact on a rainy day, and when he found it again, he could not be saved.
The pain of a woman's widowhood can only be understood if she has experienced it. My spirit is completely broken, let alone take care of the convenience store, I can't even take care of my own life. At that time, my daughter was pregnant, and according to the custom, she could not come back to represent filial piety, and my daughter was worried that I would not be able to come back to accompany me. After my daughter's enlightenment, I decided to pick myself up again. My husband is an optimistic and cheerful person, and if he were there, he wouldn't want to see me as a negative and decadent person.
I picked up the spirit to continue to run a convenience store and live a good life. The matter of my husband made me understand that things are uncertain, and no one knows which tomorrow or accident will come first. I don't want to waste time, but cherish the time to live a colorful old age, so as not to come to the world in vain, and to live my husband's share together.
I actually like to travel, I don't like to go out is to find trouble. To travel in advance to do a good job, but also to book tickets in advance to book hotels, etc., going out of the place is not familiar with life is also a reason for my concern. There is a saying in my husband's lifetime that we will always find various reasons for why we are slow to start. If you really like it, go right, don't care so much.
I asked the manager to help me run the convenience store, and I embarked on the journey alone for the first time. Walking on the road, the mood is indeed different from at home, there is novelty, there is happiness, and all the troubles will be forgotten. I'm getting more and more touristic and can't stop at all. I met like-minded Big Brother Lee on my travels.
Brother Li is five years older than me, he is a small business on his own, free time, likes to travel, drives without a problem, and has been to many places. We talked a lot, and we wanted to have multiple companions on the road, but we just walked together. Brother Li is cheerful, and along the way I have been taken care of by him, and I have a lot less trouble.
People say that Lijiang is a place of sexual encounters, and I think there are more sexual encounters during the trip. There is no sexual encounter between me and Brother Li, but we are really opposite. In the days spent with Brother Li, he was gentle and considerate to me, thinking about me in everything, and warming my lonely heart. I was interested in him, he had affection for me, and we were naturally together.
In my opinion, two people together are to get a license, and to communicate without the purpose of marriage is to play hooliganism. Talking about lifelong events, I asked Brother Li when to get the certificate, who knew that Brother Li did not have a surprise expression, but instead swallowed. Brother Li said that he was no longer happy to get a license now, and now people are popular to live together.
I was not happy, "You refuse to get a license from me, are you watching out for me?" Rest assured, I have a house and money, and I have no other purpose. If it's not because of this, then you're not serious about me. Do you just want to play with me? Are those vows you said to me a fake? “
Brother Li explained, "Don't misunderstand what I mean, I am sincere with you, there is no half a lie. It's just that my children don't agree with me to get a license, and if I insist on marrying you, they're going to break off relations with me. You don't want to be separated from you, can you understand my difficulties? Speaking of the feelings between us, the heavens and the earth can be learned, according to the need for a marriage certificate to prove anything. “
After listening to the reason for Brother Li, I sighed. He has his own grievances, and he can't get the blessing of his children, and even if we get a marriage license, we won't be happy. After weighing it up, I gave in and agreed to live with Brother Li. We didn't have an easy journey along the way, and I believe he was genuine to me, and even without a marriage license, our relationship was indestructible.
Under the sincere attitude of Brother Li, I promised to live with him. Brother Li still cares about me very much, and usually helps to do housework, and our little life is quite harmonious. Just when it comes to money, Brother Li's attitude becomes very tough. Every month when I get living expenses, Brother Li is reluctant, he said that he has my own savings and convenience store income, his business has encountered difficulties, the living expenses given are less and less, and finally directly let me pay all the living expenses
I felt unfair in my heart, Angry, thinking that after all, it was two mouths, I couldn't live too carefully, and I had the conditions to pay a little more. It wasn't until something happened later that made me see the true face of Brother Li. My daughter was diagnosed with cancer during a medical examination, which was a thunderbolt on a sunny day. Fortunately in the unfortunate, because it was discovered early, it is still early, and if you actively cooperate with treatment, you still have a chance to recover.
I'm just this one daughter, and I'm sure I'm going to save her. The son-in-law's family conditions are ordinary, and surgery plus chemotherapy is a lot of money. I took out 600,000 yuan of savings, hoping that Brother Li could help again. Unexpectedly, Brother Li refused, and the quarrel was urgent, and he actually said, "She is not my daughter, why let me pay for it." In a word, it completely chilled my heart.
I remembered that I had been with him for a year, and when I came across money, he was like an iron rooster. He couldn't count on anything other than the trivial things between husband and wife who could help. This incident completely broke our feelings, and since he was afraid that I would affect him, I would break up with him. My daughter will do my best to save her, and our lives will get better and better without him.