Liu Si and Tang Candy received their marriage licenses at the local Civil Affairs Bureau on July 4 this year. However, on the day of the marriage license received on July 4, Tang Candy blocked the phone number of her legal husband, QQ and WeChat and other contact information, and since that day, Liu Si has not been able to find Tang Candy. Liu Si thought did not understand why on the first day of receiving the license, Tang Candy had to cut off all his contact information and let himself find no one. When Liu Si recalled some memories of the past with Tang Candy, Liu Si felt that he had been deceived and fell into Tang Candy's marriage scam. Why is it a marriage scam? Let's take a look.
Liu Si recalled the scene when the two first met. At a party on May 19, Liu Si met Tang Candy, who has a cheerful and optimistic personality. At that time, Liu Si and Tang Candy had known each other for 5 or 6 days, but because of the frequent chats, they had some understanding of some of the situations on both sides. Tang Candy's mother suggested that since both parties have friendship, they should settle the marriage as soon as possible. So the two Liu Si and Tang Candy, who had just fallen in love, got engaged. The Liu family gave Tang Candy a bride price of 10,999. Tang Candy also made Liu Si forcibly buy more than 16,000 pieces of jewelry. The dowry and the three gold were given, and Liu Si thought that he would soon be able to marry Tang Candy as a bride. But what Liu didn't think about was that Tang Candy disappeared after receiving the dowry and three golds. Tang Candy would not tell Liu Si his whereabouts, and in the end he could not even get through the phone, and Tang Candy also colluded with his mother to prevent her from telling Liu Si his whereabouts. Tang Candy also posted some ambiguous copywriting in the circle of friends. The ambiguous text message in the circle of friends is not sending her husband Liu Si, and Tang Candy will not send photos out.
Liu Si was very angry when he saw Tang Candy's behavior, and wanted to go to the Tang family to retire, but for several months, Liu Si could not even contact Tang Candy, and even tang candy's face had not been seen, let alone the matter of retiring. On May 12, an angry Liu Si appealed to the court and demanded that the Tang family return the dowry money. Because Liu Si could not contact Tang Candy, the appeal could go to Tang Candy through the court and let Tang Candy come forward on his own. Before the trial on July 28, Tang Candy, who Liu Si had been unable to contact, appeared and took the initiative to propose to Liu Si to get married and get a marriage license. Tang Candy said that he had figured it out, figured it out, and when he reached the age of marriage, Tang Candy's mother also came to join in, Liu Si was soft for a while, and saw Tang Candy's attitude of admitting mistakes, so he agreed to Tang Candy to receive a marriage license. So on July 4, Liu Si and Tang Candy received a marriage license. After receiving the marriage license, Liu Si withdrew his appeal against Tang Candy. Because the law stipulates that after receiving a marriage license, there is no refund of the dowry money. However, after Liu Si withdrew the lawsuit, Tang Candy's attitude changed drastically by one hundred and eighty degrees, and Tang Candy and Liu Si made it clear that they and Liu Si only got the marriage license for Liu Si to revoke the appeal, so that there would be no trouble, and Tang Candy also said that he could not manage what he wanted to do in the future. In the end, did Tang Candy get a marriage license with Liu Si for the bride price money?
Liu Si took the reporter to a house under Tang Candy's name. But Liu Si only knew that Tang Candy lived here, and where the specific house was, Liu Si did not know, because he had not entered Tang Candy's house. And Liu Si has only been here once. Tang Candy's mother's birthday, Liu Si took Tang Candy's family out to eat a meal, after returning from eating, Tang Candy's father wanted Liu Si to go up to the house and sit down, but was strongly prevented by Tang Candy and Tang Candy's mother, and liu Si was not allowed to go to Tang Candy's house. If there were no secrets in the house, why would Tang Candy and his mother be so strongly opposed to Liu Si going to the house to have a look. And Liu Si has not even been to Tang Candy's home, and why rush to get married, Liu Si's understanding of Tang Candy is second only to Tang Candy's personality, and he does not know anything about Tang Candy's family. Looking back now, Liu Si felt that everything was wrong.
The next day, Liu Si took the love group to a hotel's foot bath city, and Liu Si said that Tang Candy worked here. In Foot Bath City, Tang Candy's colleagues said that the two had no substantial relationship after marriage because of Liu Si's own problems. Tang Candy saw it, watched from a distance, and had no intention of coming over for consultation. Tang Candy's colleagues all know about the two of them, and they have been to the public security bureau many times. Tang Candy also said that he could go to the court to solve the problem, but Liu Si was unwilling. But Liu Si said that I had gone to the court to ask for a divorce, but Tang Candy refused to divorce on the grounds that there was still affection between the two. The reporter asked the two to talk face to face, but Tang Candy asked to go to court to talk. At first, Liu Si appealed to the court to demand that Tang Candy return the dowry money, but Tang Candy made a request for marriage. Now Liu Si has asked for a divorce, but Tang Candy has been asking to go to court. It is difficult not to understand that Tang Candy took the initiative to ask for marriage in order not to pay back the dowry money. Since he took the initiative to ask for marriage, why did Tang Candy not live with Liu Si after getting married, and broke off the relationship?
After receiving the marriage certificate, Liu Si proposed to divorce, and after suing Tang Candy in court, the court said that the two received a marriage license, and Tang Candy's crime of cheating marriage was not established, and the dowry money would not be refunded. So Liu Si locked Tang Candy's door and dropped his mobile phone, so as to force Tang Candy to sue Liu Si for divorce. Tang Candy also said that when the two were married, Liu Si would get married under the pressure of death, and Tang Candy said that Liu Si's personality was more extreme, nerves and sensitivity, and it was easy to do some terrible things. Liu Si said that it was Tang Candy who cheated on marriage. What exactly happened to the marriage between the two? As a result, the two have this attitude of mutual rebuttal towards each other. Tang Candy also said that he once took Liu Si to the hospital to see, learned that Liu Si has a disease, the nerves are easily sensitive, and a small thing will make Liu Si overreact. Tang Candy always wanted Liu Si to go to the court to file for divorce, but Liu Si did not appeal, so he went to Tang Candy's work place to make trouble, making trouble several times, and got Tang Candy's colleagues to know. This time, the two of them broke up unhappily. Later, Tang Candy came to a kindergarten with a love-seeking group, why did Tang Candy come to the kindergarten?
Tang Candy saw his son in the kindergarten, and Tang Candy's mouth never closed, smiling happily. It turned out that this child's Tang Candy was born out of wedlock and was conceived before, and he had always been with him, but Tang Candy knew that he could not marry into the Liu family alone with the child, so Tang Candy could only bear to give the child to the child's father, Peng De. Just when the child's father Peng De came to pick up the child and went home, he saw Tang Candy, and Peng De told reporters that Tang Candy is definitely not the kind of person who will cheat marriage, and Tang Candy is warm and cheerful. If Tang Candy wanted to cheat on marriage, how could he put up with the child to Peng De? Tang Candy really wanted to go down with Liu Si. So was there a misunderstanding between Tang Candy and Liu Si that caused the two to go farther and farther? Since Tang Candy wants to go on with Liu Si, why is Tang Candy's attitude towards Liu Si so close?
Liu Si has always said that Tang Candy is cheating on marriage, but in fact, Tang Candy has not cheated anything. Liu Si believes that Tang Candy is pregnant and has a child before marriage, and then the child may still have to be carried by himself, which will drag him down. Liu Si also said that Tang Candy has had several emotional experiences, but he has never talked about a relationship. And even if the conditions in Tang Candy's family are better than those of Liu Sijia's family, Tang Candy does not need to damage his reputation for a dowry of more than ten thousand yuan. Tang Candy said that in May, when Liu Si went to the court to sue Tang Candy, he had consulted with Tang Candy, promising that if the two were married, Liu Si would bear the child's maintenance fees. Since Liu Si and Tang Candy have reached a consensus privately, why did the two become like this after only a few days of marriage?
It turned out that after receiving the marriage license, Liu Si repented, and Liu Si was unwilling to bear the child's maintenance. Hearing Liu Si say this, Tang Candy and Liu Si quarreled. Liu Si's behavior, let Tang Sugar absolutely Liu Si deceived her, before receiving the certificate said that the good Liu Si will pay maintenance, on the day of the license to say that it is not Liu Si's own child, will not give maintenance, it is tantamount to giving a blank check, deceive Tang Sugar after receiving the certificate, will not admit it. It was also inevitable that Tang Candy would be angry and did not want to pay attention to Liu Si. It was Liu Si's behavior that made people angry. Liu Si also said that Tang Candy had just received a marriage license, and before he stepped out of the administrative building, Tang Candy asked Liu Si for money for living expenses, which made Liu Si very angry, and Liu Si did not have a little preparation, so he would say that he would not give alimony. Tang Candy said that Liu Si gave Tang Candy the warmth of a home, which made Tang Candy feel very down-to-earth. Liu Si will often take Tang Candy's son out to play, Tang Candy's son likes Liu Si very much, and Tang Candy also said that he will agree to see his son's love for Liu Si. When he received the court summons, Tang Candy was not willing to marry Liu Si, but seeing that his son liked Liu Si so much, and Liu Si also promised to give the child support, Tang Candy decided to marry Liu Si. Tang Candy said that Liu Si did not understand Tang Candy's heart and would not coax people. Tang Candy's feelings for Liu Si are also because Liu Si said that he would be good to Tang Candy and Tang Candy's son, and Tang Candy would have a good feeling for Liu Si.
Tang Candy has two failed emotional experiences, and Tang Candy also said that a single mother, life will be centered on her son, in the face of Liu Si's feelings, Tang Candy is very calm and light inside. But for Liu Si, who has not been in love, falling in love should be like glue, so in the relationship, Liu Si will seem to be very concerned about what he can get and what he loses. Perhaps Liu Si's behavior, in Tang Candy's view, is that he has more sons, not more husbands who can share responsibilities. Tang Candy admits that his marriage has nothing to do with feelings, and that he is married just to have someone to share the financial pressure together. Tang Candy also talked to Liu Si at the beginning. Liu Si felt that a person who had never been married wanted to raise a child for a person with children, and also to help her share the mortgage and maintenance costs, Liu Si felt that it was not cost-effective, and he was very indebted. And Liu Si felt that for a woman like Tang Candy, it was not worth sharing so much for her. So Liu Si repented, and he regretted marrying Tang Candy. Tang Candy never thought of divorcing Liu Si, but Liu Si repented and kept forcing Tang Candy to apply for divorce.
Liu Si feels that he attaches great importance to feelings, Liu Si has paid feelings for Tang Candy, Tang Candy should also pay feelings for Liu Si, but Tang Candy does not have much affection for Liu Si, and has always been based on the premise of money, which makes Liu Si very depressed. Frugal Liu Si, unwilling to go shopping with Tang Candy, and does not go out with Tang Candy, because going out to play will cost money, even if going out to spend money, Liu Si is also unwilling to spend money, unwilling to spend money for Tang Candy. As a result, the number of times Liu Si and Tang Candy met was very small, and the chat became less. Tang Candy felt that Liu Si did not give Tang Candy a home. Liu Si, who has simple feelings, met Tang Candy, who is rich in emotions, one is Liu Si who runs to live a good life together, and the other is Tang Candy who thinks that someone can share the economic pressure, the original intention of the two is different, Liu Si feels that his feelings are toyed with by Tang Candy. Liu Si was not willing to raise this child with Tang Candy, after all, he was not his own son, and he did not have this responsibility and obligation to support. And Liu Si also said that he was still young and could have his own children, and he had no reason to help Tang Candy raise children. In fact, Liu Si's love for Tang Candy was not too deep. It is said that if you love a person, you will love Wu and Wu, and if Liu Si really loves Tang Candy, then he will definitely accept Tang Candy's son. Maybe Liu Si is still young and thinks more extremely. Since Liu Si is not willing to bear the maintenance fees of Tang Sugar's children, Tang Candy is bent on finding someone to share, the two concepts are not compatible, how long can the marriage between the two go?
Only three months after marriage, there was a problem between Liu Si and Tang Sugar, the relationship between the two parties could not handle, and I hoped that the families of both sides could discuss how the two should go in the future. Liu Si said that he could accept each step back from the sea and the sky, and he could also accept divorce. Liu Si said that he was very realistic and felt that he could accept it, but Tang Candy could not have too many excessive requirements for Liu Si. It is also possible to divorce, but the dowry money must be given an account, because the two have not lived together since receiving the marriage license, and in the law, it is possible to ask for a refund of the dowry money. So what does Tang Candy think?
Tang Sugar believes that if you don't live together, it is because there is no house to live in, so Liu Si and Tang Sugar do not live together, so if you want to be together, Tang Sugar's first request is to rent a house, and the second thing is the waist that promised to give the child support before marriage, Liu Si will fulfill the promise. But Liu Si was not happy, because every time Tang Candy looked for Liu Si, it was because of money, and the nature of the marriage changed. Liu Si already knew that Tang Candy had a son, and if he accepted Tang Candy, then Liu Si would have to give Tang Candy a year of 8400 child support. Liu Si said that the relationship between the two people and Tang Candy has not been handled well, and it is impossible to deal with the matter of Tang Candy's son now. Liu Si saw Tang Candy's verdict, which showed that Tang Candy had to pay 700 child support every month, which was 8400 a year. Liu Si saw the verdict, how should he decide?
Liu Si's mother said that the maintenance can be given, but the premise is that Liu Si and Tang Candy must live their lives and live a good life before they can give. It is impossible for the two to have a cold war every day, and the Liu family still has to pay maintenance. Liu Si said that marriage is a matter for two people, and he can bear half of Tang Candy's children. As long as Tang Candy can correct his attitude in the days to come, don't always use money as an excuse. Later, after joint consultation between the parents of both sides, Liu Si and Tang Candy signed an agreement. A three-month agreement to cultivate feelings. The agreement said that the two would rent a house to live together, and Tang Sugar would have half a month to go back to rent a house and live with Liu Si every month. After three months, if Liu Si and Tang Candy both feel that the marriage can continue, Liu Si will have to bear the maintenance of Tang Candy's children for half a year and 4200. Liu Si felt that it was difficult to buy Tang Candy with a smile, so Liu Si went to the flower shop and picked a bouquet of flowers for Tang Candy. Tang Candy saw Liu Si come over with flowers, shyly turned his head and smiled, Tang Candy has been smiling embarrassedly, looking very sweet. I hope that Liu Si and Tang Candy can work together to live together, slowly run into each other, and share everything in daily life together. What is everyone's opinion of this story? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area and discuss it together.