As the saying goes: "Bedside quarrels and bedside". In life, there will be 80% or 90% of couples who will talk about divorce when they quarrel.
But many couples are often "addicted" and do not really want to divorce, but some couples are really divorced after a quarrel.
Parents were married for 20 years and divorced after a quarrel, and the girl turned out 7 divorce certificates and marriage certificates
On the Internet, a girl posted 7 divorce certificates and marriage certificates of her parents, and the marriage certificates and divorce certificates of Hongtongtong, arranged together, which really amazed many netizens.
In general, many people only hold a marriage certificate, or a marriage certificate, a divorce certificate, and then two marriage certificates, a divorce certificate, while the girl's parents take 7 marriage certificates, 7 divorce certificates, a total of 14 documents.
The girl said: Her parents have been married for 20 years, during this period, as long as the parents have a quarrel, they say that they want to divorce, and it is not just lip service, the two people really ran to the Civil Affairs Bureau to prove the divorce.
The reasons for divorce are also similar, most of them are trivial matters, two people quarreled and quarreled until the Civil Affairs Bureau divorced, but in the end, after the two people were emotionally stable, they would also remarry at the Civil Affairs Bureau.
In this way, divorced every two years, and then reunited; divorced again, reunited, going around, the two people divorced a total of 7 times.
The girl explained: The reason why parents are easy to quarrel is because the mother is from the northeast and the father is from Tianjin, the personality is different, and there are many places that need to be run-in in life. However, despite being divorced so many times, the couple is still very affectionate.
Multiple divorces and remarriages are not just a matter of marital feelings
Many netizens have been amused after seeing the video content. Some netizens joked: Is this to gather 7 books to summon the dragon? Some netizens also said: Such a situation is inseparable, or do not leave again, the key is that it is inseparable.
The girl said: The most recent remarriage was in 2017, so far the two parents have not filed for divorce again, perhaps the parents really after 20 years of running-in, the two people can live forever.
Although such behavior looks very funny, some netizens also believe that the practice of divorce and remarriage many times is really inappropriate, typical of "treating marriage as a child's play".
Away from and reunited, up to 7 times, it is really not to attach importance to marriage, when in love, it is understandable to divide and merge, everything has not been settled, but after deciding to get married, we must pay attention to standing up, less than the last resort, can not be easily divorced.
It is not that you cannot divorce after marriage, and divorce and remarriage many times, obviously did not consider clearly, such an attitude towards feelings and family, is really not advocated.
Divorce after a quarrel, do you really want to leave?
Those who put "divorce" on their lips when they quarrel are often sure that the other party will not leave them, so they will say this sentence unscrupulously, and it is also because although the divorce has been said many times, it has not really been implemented once.
Just like the parents of the girl above, they divorced 7 times, but finally reconciled as before, which means that when they divorced, they did not really want to leave, but those who made up their minds to divorce would not turn over and over like this.
There is no quarrel between husband and wife, do not always put the word divorce on the lips, it seems to be a joke, but sometimes it will hurt the feelings of the husband and wife. If it is really impossible to get along, then it is best to get together and disperse, don't always be separated, no one can do without anyone.
Kojima would like to say:
Marriage is based on love, and no matter what the reason, multiple divorces and remarriages, is a "marriage as a child's play" attitude, such a person, first of all, the concept of life is not correct, although parents will eventually be together, but it will have a very unfavorable effect on the next generation.
In life, playing is a very common situation in the life of husband and wife, but I hope that parents will not joke about divorce, which is not only not conducive to family happiness, but also greatly reduces their personality.