Marriage is a major event in life, it is solemn, sacred, inviolable, inviolable.
Choosing marriage is choosing responsibility, and walking into marriage is walking into responsibility. It is not a child's play, it is not a family, it is a real life, it needs to be tired in pots and pans, it needs to be run-in in quarrels, it needs to be inclusive, it needs to be understood, it needs to be paid.
In marriage, selfishness is not allowed, personality is abandoned, selfishness will make the other party cold, and personality will make the other party disgusted.
Mr. Wu, 41, was recently angry and incomprehensible, and his wife, who had lived with him for 6 years, left him without warning with his 6-year-old daughter, leaving only a letter.
The wife said in the letter that she thanked him for taking care of her for 6 years, hoping that he would take good care of himself, and that the words were that he had left on his own, not to go to her, and the most critical potential meaning was: The time has come.
Mr. Wu felt incredible, neither quarrelsome nor angry, which left for no reason, and a sentence that time had come, leaving him confused.
Finally, Mr. Wu thought of his wife's ex-husband, who had told him 6 years ago that her ex-husband had lived with him after being imprisoned for his crimes, and that the two had set up a banquet and received a marriage license.
Although there are small quarrels after marriage, there is no big contradiction, and the family of three is still warm and harmonious.
The sudden departure of his wife, Mr. Wu guessed, his wife must have gone to her ex-husband's house.
Mr. Wu found his wife's ex-husband, Mr. Liu, and sure enough, the wife was at his home, and in the theory of the three, Mr. Liu said that he was the legal husband, and took out a marriage certificate to prove it.
Mr. Wu was dumbfounded, he and his wife also have a legal marriage license, how, is it that the wife legally married two people.
The two men were arguing, accusing each other of having a false marriage certificate, and showing that they were the wife's real husband.
The wife, who was watching from the sidelines, finally spoke, admitting that both marriage certificates were true, but the date of birth of the two books was 3 years apart. Then, the wife complained to Mr. Wu, 6 years ago, let him pay 2,000 yuan, he went to divorce his ex-husband, because he was unwilling to come out, and did not do it.
The wife also said that leaving Mr. Wu was her later decision, because he was too stingy, only 500 yuan per month for himself and his daughter to live, and he was too grumpy, and if he was not careful, he would be angry, and he did not want to be patient anymore, nor did he want to be angry again.
I chose my ex-husband because I still have old feelings, the two people are free love, the ex-husband is very good to himself, and now that he is out of prison, he is willing to accept himself who has been married to others for 6 years, and he also promised to raise the children born with others together.
So the wife left a farewell letter for Mr. Wu. Bid farewell to Mr. Wu and run to her ex-husband's house.
Later, Mr. Wu contacted his wife alone, promised to correct his mistakes in the future, and doubled his kindness to his wife, and after a lot of promises, his wife still refused his kindness and decided to divorce.
After further consultation, Mr. Wu wanted to get the custody of his daughter, and he could let his wife take care of him for the time being, and the ex-husband also generously said that Mr. Wu's daughter was also his daughter, and he would take good care of it, and he would personally send his daughter to Mr. Wu's home on holidays to reunite them.
Digression: Finally, Mr. Wu woke up and said that he had been a stand-in for 6 years.
For 6 years, I did not change back to my wife's sincerity, and I did not change back to a happy marriage.
Some people say that the wife's motives are not pure, her heart is thinking of old feelings, her feet are stepping on new love, and this marriage of two boats with her feet on her feet must result in a family rejoicing and a family of sorrow.
So, whether men and women treat marriage, they must be cautious and must be frank, you say?
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