Text: Xi Xihuan
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There is truth and falsehood in love, even if many people are no longer willing to face it, they have to carefully observe each other's intentions, some people's hypocrisy is disguised, but let people with simple hearts mistakenly think that it is true and true love.
No one wants to pay wrongly in feelings, whether it is time and energy, or feelings, wrong payment means that everything they pay is meaningless, and the other party will neither cherish nor make positive feedback.
It is said that women are emotionally delicate animals, and once they fall in love with someone, they will go all out, so it is easier to lose themselves in feelings.
But in fact, this is a phenomenon that only with true love as the premise, only if a woman is truly in love with this man, she will give everything for the man without asking for anything in return, and will try her best to manage the love between her and the beloved.
And if the woman is not serious about the relationship, or does not go all out, then the man actually has feelings, because the love that is not true love will always be more or less mixed with some disappointment.
Men should understand that when they are with you, women who have these performances, do not miss it, because she is true love for you, and true love is hidden in the details and cannot be hidden.
01 does not easily mention breakups
We can often see some couples arguing and breaking up at every turn, which is not a serious matter, but once two people have contradictions and differences, when they are angry, women who are more impulsive will say break up.
Some people may say that the reason why a woman mentions a breakup is not sincere, but just wants her lover to coax her more, but the woman forgets that no matter how deep the feelings are, she can't help but frequently threaten to break up, or that if a woman mentions a breakup at every turn, then in her heart, she actually doesn't care much about this man.
Friend Xiao Xue is a very gentle girl, speaking softly, but the treatment of feelings is very persistent, so that friends around can not help but sigh, it turns out that when a woman falls into true love, it is such boldness.
Xiao Xue fell in love with a boy when she went to college, and she was already introverted and shy, but she was brave and persistent in pursuing a boy.
The boy was impressed by her persistence, and the two were finally together. By the time they graduated from college, many couples had ushered in the breakup season, but Xiao Xue and her boyfriend did not, and they stayed in the same city to work as agreed.
After joining the work, the two people are very busy, sometimes because of overtime or even a day can not see each other, but Xiao Xue will never be unreasonable to make trouble, let alone because of a little contradiction will not move to break up.
The boyfriend feels very relaxed with her, many of his friends need to coax the girlfriend, obviously it is not the man's fault, but the woman can't move to break up, want to blackmail the man to make a compromise.
Men in the society to work hard is very tired, whether it is physical or psychological, and then have to allocate energy to deal with the woman's unreasonable trouble, presumably everyone will be tired of that day.
So Xiao Xue's boyfriend has seen too many friends break up, giving him the feeling that women are not true love for their boyfriends.
Once he asked Xiao Xue why he never mentioned breaking up with himself, even when he was particularly angry, Xiao Xue laughed and said, "I am so afraid of losing you, how can I be willing to mention breaking up?" Not even on the gas head. ”
Admittedly, a woman who truly loves you is nervous that it is too late, even if you do something wrong to make her angry, she will not be willing to break up with you, because she is afraid of losing you.
02 Always take care of your feelings
We all know that men are good-looking, especially in front of the beloved women, and they often can't tolerate women making fun of their shortcomings and ridiculing them, because that seems to them to be a woman's performance of teasing herself.
A woman who really puts men in her heart will take into account men's feelings, they understand what men need psychologically, and they know how to protect men's self-esteem in front of outsiders.
Friend Sun Kai is now living happily, his wife is a woman with high emotional intelligence, in Sun Kai's words, he sometimes needs to ask his wife some questions in the interpersonal field.
Before his wife, Sun Kai talked about a girlfriend, he liked the woman very much, even if she had a bad temper, even if she was unreasonable a lot of times, Sun Kai was unconditionally tolerant.
But after the two people were together for half a year, they finally broke up, for no other reason than that the woman never cared about Sun Kai's feelings.
She would complain in front of Sun Kai in front of friends that he made less money, and would directly say that Sun Kai couldn't afford to make trouble when others were coaxing, unlike a man.
At the beginning, Sun Kai did not say anything, and privately would communicate with her, so that she could save some face for herself when there were many people, but the woman did not think so, but felt that Sun Kai's small belly and chicken intestines could not even be joked.
Over time, Sun Kai felt more and more that women did not actually love him, no matter what she said or did, she never considered his feelings, what is the point of insisting on such love?
Later, Sun Kai resolutely proposed to break up, and after meeting his later wife Zhao Lin, he finally understood what a woman's true love performance is.
What makes Sun Kai feel most relaxed is that Zhao Lin especially knows how to protect his self-esteem in front of outsiders, even if it is clear that he has made a mistake, she will never follow others to accuse him, but will privately tell him not to do it again in the future.
With such a woman for a long time, men will become more confident, Sun Kai is so, when he was with his ex-girlfriend, he was accused a lot, he was inferior and timid, and even felt that what women said was right, he really was useless.
But with a woman who knows how to take care of her feelings, men get mostly praise and affirmation, which will make them believe more and more in their charm in this relationship, and women's performance tells them that they are the best.
So if a woman is willing to protect your self-esteem and pamper your feelings in any kind of occasion, then she is undoubtedly true love for you, and you must cherish her well.
A woman's true love is priceless, and when you meet a woman who truly loves herself, a man must understand her feelings, understand her heart, and cherish her true feelings for you.
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