Text: Xi Xihuan
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We all hope that our life can go smoothly, less encounter some wind and rain, more noble people to help, but life is equal, no one's life will be smooth, there will always be one or that ups and downs and difficulties, and when you are in the trough, it is the most test of a person's mentality, because how you face setbacks determines when you will come out of the trough.
There is a saying that when people are unlucky, they drink cold water and plug their teeth. Although it is a bit exaggerated, people who have really gone through bad luck often experience it most deeply, and the more unpleasant it is, it seems that everything is against themselves, and everything is not smooth.
Even if you have been very careful and cautious, there will still be unexpected situations, which will make your mood worse and your emotions will easily become out of control.
At this time, we naturally hope that we will have good luck, everything will become smooth, less troublesome, more surprises in life.
In fact, when a person wants to make good luck, there will be signs, if you look closely, you will find that when these changes occur in your body, it is good luck coming, steal the fun!
01 No matter what happens, I am optimistic
There is such a group of people, who are naturally very pessimistic, even if this thing does not really happen, but he seems to have determined that it will happen, and he has even thought about how he will be hurt.
To use an old saying, this may be unfounded, you are always worried about what has not yet happened, and you invisibly waste a lot of time and energy on unnecessary things.
People's energy is limited, if you are too pessimistic, look at the problem always think of the bad side, not only will miss a lot of the original beauty, but also is not conducive to solving the actual problems.
On the other hand, if you always look at the problem you are facing from an optimistic point of view, even if the problem is difficult, it may become easy to solve because of your optimistic attitude, and even if you do not get a practical solution, your optimism will make you get out of the negative emotions as soon as possible.
Friend Xiao Ying is a natural optimist, she looks ordinary, not talented, but her popularity is particularly good, because Xiao Ying's personality is very good, never complain about the difficulties she encounters.
The reason why many people are willing to get along with her is because they feel a sense of relaxation from her, even if Xiao Ying herself cannot help others solve any problems, but as long as she feels her optimism, her bored mood will be much better.
Shortly after joining the work, Xiao Ying's father had a car accident, her mother was in a hurry, she also fell ill, as an only child, Xiao Ying was temporarily tired, both to run to the hospital to take care of her father, but also to take care of her mother at home, and she could not take too long off at work.
If you change to an ordinary person, you may have had an emotional breakdown, but Xiao Ying did not, at the beginning she was indeed very anxious, anxious, but soon she comforted herself that her father had a car accident, but the rescue saved her life in time, the doctor said that as long as it is well raised, there will be no sequelae; the mother's illness is to see that the father is in a hurry, wait until the father raises the body, the mother will be better, as for her own work, Xiao Ying thinks that she is a young man, and staying up for a few nights can do a good job in advance, which is not a difficult thing.
Therefore, relying on such optimism, Xiao Ying survived the most difficult period of time, and when her parents were better, she did not delay too much work, and she finally breathed a sigh of relief.
In fact, life is like this, when you feel that your life is too bad to be bad, maybe it is at the lowest point of the trough, at this time you need to quit anxiety and complaining, but with an optimistic attitude to look at everything you face, so that you will rebound faster and start to make good luck.
02 Stay calm and composed
When I was young, I could always listen to my father say that no matter what happened, don't be anxious, don't cry, because that won't solve the problem, but will make you confused, lose your mind, and make more wrong decisions.
People who can really continue to walk good luck tend to remain calm and calm when they encounter problems, and will use the fastest time to calm down their emotions, so that they can really see through the problem and come up with a more accurate response.
My cousin has been impatient since he was a child, every time something is too urgent, things have not yet become very bad, but he has been out of proportion, but also because of his recklessness, several times ran into disasters, and even once almost affected the entrance exam.
A friend of the cousin is different, he has a particularly calm personality, sometimes the cousin feels that his eyebrows are burning, but the friend still looks unhurried and never panics.
The final outcome of many things also proves that the more impatient, the more prone to error, the easier it is to let people's thinking drill into the tip of the horn, and finally make wrong judgments.
I remember seeing a saying on the Internet that the more calm and calm people are, the greater the achievements in the future.
Some people may feel that this statement is too absolute, but character determines fate, and what kind of character is, determines what kind of mentality and angle to use when encountering problems.
People who are always impulsive and reckless when things happen, often can't hold their breath, and when they have achieved a little achievement, they can't wait to publicize it around, so that others can easily know how capable he really is; when they encounter some difficult things, they can't hide their emotions, even if they can easily solve the problem, he will be in a hurry, but let people take advantage of the loophole, and the original small problem finally evolved into a serious problem.
In fact, you have to understand that no matter how big the problem is, no matter how anxious and helpless you are at this moment, all the negative emotions will not help you solve the problem, but will make your situation worse and worse.
And the best "good medicine" is actually time, if you have a way to solve, then seriously try to make up for it, to solve, if you really can't find a good way to solve, then it is better to leave it to time, with the passage of time, the pressure you feel will slowly dissipate, and all your bad luck will eventually pass.
So, if you let your rhythm slow down, if you learn to reduce stress on yourself, learn to control emotions, and be able to be more calm and calm when facing problems, then you will find that the original good luck is actually on your side.
We all hope to have more good luck in our lives, but we forget that good luck is actually up to us.
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