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When a woman is married, she should not care too much about the appearance of the marriage partner and his property, but should care more about his character and his feelings for himself, a man with good character and understanding of Entu is worth your payment for him, and it is worth entrusting you to him for the rest of your life.
The most important thing in marriage is to choose the right person to marry, and for women, choosing a man with a sense of responsibility and knowing how to be grateful is the most important, there are many women's husbands, neither sense of responsibility, nor do they know how to be grateful, obviously she has paid a lot for her husband, and she is also filial to her in-laws, and her parents treat him as if he were his own son, but he did not put his own and his family's efforts in his heart.
But some men have their wives and fathers-in-law and mother-in-law paying for him, and their kindness to him are all in mind, and when his wife is wronged, he will stand up and speak for his wife, and he will never let his mother bully his wife, and he will not let his father-in-law and mother-in-law live alone in his hometown, but he will take them over, but his kindness to his wife and his father-in-law and mother-in-law make his mother jealous.
01. The wife does not abandon it
Li Qiang met his wife in his third year of college, and they had many courses, many things, and very little time to see each other every day, but the relationship between the two people was very stable, and in his senior year, Li Qiang went to a construction site for internship, because he was only an intern, so the treatment was average, and he was also injured at the construction site.
At that time, Li Qiang was interning with an engineer, they came to the scene to understand the situation, modify the drawings, the construction site came to a brick pulling car, accidentally hit Li Qiang, when some staff rushed To Li Qiang to the hospital, the impact is not light, need to operate immediately.
At that time, Li Qiang's parents were in his hometown, so the person who rushed to the hospital first was his wife, and the wife took out the money in her hand to pay Li Qiang for hospitalization and surgery, but it was not enough, and later Li Qiang learned that at that time, his wife borrowed money from his classmates around him, and even borrowed a lot of money from her parents.
After the operation, the doctor clearly told Li Qiang that whether he could recover depended on himself, it was possible that he would have to live on crutches for the rest of his life, or walk with a limp, in the face of such a situation, Li Qiang gave up on himself, and even proposed to break up with his wife, saying that he was already crippled, and let his wife find her happiness again.
The wife said that she would not leave Li Qiang no matter what, and at that time, the two people were just lovers, but the wife's parents came from their hometown to visit Li Qiang and let him feel at ease, and said that even if his legs could not recover, he would not force his wife to break up with him, which made Li Qiang very moved.
The school's leaders told Li Qiang's mother about this matter, and Li Qiang's mother came to the hospital from his hometown to visit him, but as soon as he arrived at the hospital, he began to blame the school leaders, blamed the staff of the construction site, and finally said to Li Qiang, "Why are you so careless?" The family is counting on you, you are going to be crippled, aren't we miserable? ”
Listening to what his mother said, Li Qiang did not mention how sad he was, his mother was not as good as his wife's parents, his wife's parents knew how to comfort him and let him rest assured of his illness, but his mother was afraid that he would become crippled and no one in the family would take care of him.
02. Dissatisfaction with the mother's behavior at the wedding
With the help of the school leaders and his wife and her parents, Li Qiang chose to actively face this suffering, and he made a decision in his heart that if he really could not recover, he must break up with his wife and could not delay his wife.
Li Qiang spent more than half a year recuperating, but walking is still a limp, he feels that he is definitely unable to recover, so he was fierce, and once again broke up with his wife, but his wife cried and did not want to break up with him, and said that she was willing to marry him immediately, and her parents also said that the feelings between the two people were true, the injury was an accident, and they agreed to marry immediately.
Li Qiang told his parents who were far away from home about his plans to get married, and his mother said to Li Qiang, "Since she is willing to marry you, you will quickly marry her into the door, you have become like this, who will be willing to marry you in the future?" ”
On the day of Li Qiang and his wife's wedding, relatives from the hometown came to their wedding, the mother only cared about eating the whole time, did not help at all, the father-in-law and mother-in-law ran before and after the reception of relatives and friends, seeing the appearance of the mother, Li Qiang did not mention how angry he was, so the day after the marriage, he sent his mother away.
03. Treat your mother-in-law as filial piety as if you were a mother
After Li Qiang married his wife, he was very filial to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, often went with his wife to visit his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and his wife did not favor one over the other, often buying clothes for his mother to buy food, and his mother's attitude towards his wife was like that, lukewarm and lukewarm, which made Li Qiang feel very embarrassed.
In the third year of Li Qiang's marriage with his wife, his father-in-law fell seriously ill, and he thought that during his injury, his father-in-law and mother-in-law helped his wife to take care of himself together, so after his father-in-law fell ill, Li Qiang and his wife did filial piety in front of the hospital bed, and his father-in-law finally failed to overcome the disease and passed away.
At that time, the mother-in-law and the wife were very vulnerable, and the wife did not trust the mother-in-law to live alone in the hometown, so Li Qiang offered to let the mother-in-law live with them, saying that he wanted to give the mother-in-law a pension.
And the mother learned that since the death of her father-in-law, her mother-in-law has lived with them, and the couple has given her mother-in-law a pension, so she ran to ask Li Qiang, "I am your mother, why do you only give your mother-in-law a pension?" ”
"You are not alone in your hometown, when did I say that I would not give you a pension?"
"I see that since you married your wife, even my mother has forgotten, and your mother-in-law is more dear than my mother-in-law, no, you also have to take me to the pension, I don't want to stay in my hometown." 」
"Do you know why I'm more intimate with my mother-in-law than with your own mother?" It's because my mother-in-law treats me like a son, but what about you? I am obviously your biological son, but when I was injured and hospitalized, you came to see me once, and what you are worried about is not whether my injury can recover? But I was worried that after I was disabled, no one would take care of the family, and when I got married, you were like a guest, eating when I came, and helping to entertain relatives? After getting married, what did my wife do to you? What did you do to her? You ask yourself, are we really not filial to you? ”
After listening to Li Qiang's words, her mother became autistic.
The wife felt that Li Qiang spoke too heavily to his mother and would hurt his mother's heart, but Li Qiang felt that his mother would be sad? For as long as he could remember, his mother was a person who only thought for herself, and even his own son had not received much love from his mother, so how could she be sad?
Li Qiang told his mother that he would send money to the family every month and would also manage the affairs of the family, but his mother could not help but let him be filial to his mother-in-law, he just wanted to treat his mother-in-law as filial piety, he must be grateful to him, his wife was single-minded to him, his mother-in-law regarded him as his own son, he should be worthy of the payment of his wife and mother-in-law.
The mother knew that she was in a bad position, and she did not dare to make unreasonable trouble with Li Qiang.
A man with a sense of responsibility, who understands en tu bao, and who loves his wife from within will not watch his wife being bullied, and will not pay attention to the suffering of her mother's family, such a man will not be right or wrong, only consider his parents, only filial piety to his parents, meet such a man, is a woman's luck.
As a man, you must remember the goodness of others to yourself, whether it is a wife or a father-in-law and mother-in-law, they are not right for your kindness, you must know how to be grateful, know how to repay their kindness to you, sometimes, relatives who are related by blood, but selfish, and some people, even if they are not related to you by blood, are willing to pay for you, but are willing to accompany you in your most difficult times.
As a mother, don't always think about the son is not filial piety to you, no matter you, you must first think about what you have paid for your son, in the son's most difficult time, you only consider that he is not able to filial piety to you, not able to take care of you, did not consider his feelings at all, in the face of your indifferent attitude, how can the son not be cold? It is understandable that he would prefer to have helped him and taken care of his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
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