It turns out that after a girl gets married, it is really possible that she will not have a home. The in-laws who can't get in, as well as the mother-in-law's house that can't go back.
In the urban emotional drama "Dear Child", when I saw the online review, I have been questioning why Xie Tianhua's sister Xie Dan does not return to her home and lives in her mother's house every day.
Seeing the author here, I can't help but feel a wave of sadness in my heart. After the daughter gets married, is the parents' home no longer her home?
The parents are still alive, after the daughter marries, this family, she can no longer stay?
In fact, it can be understood that many people do not like the reason why this sister, because she does not like Fang Yinuo, everywhere targeting this heroine.
Xie Tianhua wanted to marry Fang Yinuo and enter the door, but his parents didn't say anything. Only Xie Dan, who was the sister, jumped out to stop it.
After Xie Tianhua and Fang Yinuo got married, Xie Dan also looked at Yinuo everywhere unpleasant. Either she hated that she got up later in the morning than the elders, or that she hadn't cooked a few meals since she got married.
When the daughter brought by Fang Yinuo was sick and hospitalized, it was even more the other party Yinuo who picked his nose and picked his eyes.
Qing Ben is a beautiful person, but not a tigress.
If this is placed in an idol drama, Xie Dan is undoubtedly the vicious female partner who is spurned by thousands of people.
But in real life, Xie Dan is undoubtedly the best sister in the world.
Everyone swept the snow in front of the door, and did not care about the frost on the tiles of others
Many people must have heard this joke, saying, there was an old lady of the neighbor who lived for 108 years. There is only one reason to ask the old lady why she is so old, she never cares much.
It is difficult for a clean official to break off household chores, especially the household chores of other people's small families. Whether it's a girlfriend's or a brother's.
Many couples or couples, as soon as they quarrel, go to their girlfriends and brothers to pour bitter water. However, when the couple reconciled, they turned around and sold their girlfriends and brothers who were venting their emotions with themselves.
Once, how impassioned and indignant in front of friends. Afterwards, how excited I was to want to smoke my two big mouths.
How many people have had such a great experience of "not being human inside and out". You can talk about it in the comments section later, so that everyone is happy.
Therefore, people with a little life experience (saying more are tears) will understand. Don't meddle in this kind of couple or between couples, for your own sake, it will do you no harm.
But Xie Dan still shot.
In front of her brother and parents, she expressed her most resolute opposition.
It's just a pity that the infinite Dan Qing hand in the world can't be painted with a sad heart. Xie Dan's protective heart could not withstand the youthful regrets of Xie Tianhua's youth.
Fang Yinuo still took his daughter Hehe and married into the Xie family.
Red face and black face are suitable for each other, and you sing me on the stage
Many people will feel that since Yinuo has entered the door, Xie Dan's toughness is actually not necessary to behave so out of place.
Since they have become a family, no matter what they think in their hearts, after all, in terms of face, they should still let each other get by.
However, if you understand who Xie Tianhua and his parents are, they are. It will hurt Xie Dan, so many years are not easy.
Xie Tianhua, a good young man with integrity and kindness. Although he has never been rich and wealthy, he will not live too hard by keeping his own small business.
With his family appearance, marrying a young girl with a prosperous style is not too much of a problem.
However, he finally married Fang Yinuo, who was married twice. Behind him, he also carried the small tail of Hehe.
Xie Tianhua's father and mother accepted it without hesitation. Even after they got married, they treated their daughters-in-law better than their daughters-in-law, and treated Hehe better than their grandchildren.
Even after knowing Hehe's condition, he did not urge his son to make a break and stay away from this bottomless pit at the first time. Instead, he silently supported his son and made his own efforts behind his back.
Their kindness and tolerance for the second-married daughter-in-law has exceeded the tolerance of a normal person.
Not to mention, Xie Tianhua treated Hehe as a daughter-in-law, and his love for her was better than his own nephew.
Hehe fell ill and was hospitalized, and he took out his savings to fill the bottomless pit of treatment fees.
In order to save his daughter and need to create another child to come out, Fang Yinuo secretly went to the hotel with her ex-husband.
Xie Tianhua, who knew all this, did not make trouble, did not tear his face. Instead, he silently went to the hospital and continued to take care of the two people's own daughters in the hotel.
It was really too bullying, although in the end nothing happened, although Fang Yinuo confessed everything to Xie Tianhua afterwards.
And Xie Tianhua, he would actually be moved to the point of crying because of Fang Yinuo's confession afterwards.
Oh, the honest people of this family.
It is tolerable, and it is intolerable
Endure the calm of the wind and waves for a while, and take a step back from the sea and the sky.
Such a simple principle of doing things only applies to outsiders who are related to one side. Not suitable for frequent neighbors, friends and relatives.
Some people, just one-sided fate, will not have the opportunity to communicate with each other in the future, and they can naturally be generous.
He glared at you, kicked you, didn't get you in the car once, and took advantage of you once materially.
Some things, after the pass, do not have to be serious, do not have to worry.
But some people, you often meet, always come and go, you must let the other party know your bottom line.
Otherwise, the result will become, take a step back and make more and more angry.
Next door to Xie Tianhua's shop, there is a big aunt. Often when he was eating, he would send some of his own capers. Looking at his meals, he said that his grandson liked to eat.
Xie Tianhua, who did not want to go, often gave back some of the chicken, duck and fish meat made by his mother and sister.
But whoever orders his face, once or twice, counts. Naturally, I am not willing to often take my own vegetarian dishes in this way and exchange them for each other's meat dishes, after all, the market value is there.
But those who want to face and skin are unwilling, and are considered by the people around them to lick an old face to take advantage of the honest people.
However, this neighbor aunt did not let go of Xie Tianhua, an honest person.
She did it twice, once or twice, like the pace of the devil. As soon as it was time to eat, she came, with a caper.
Such a thing, but also the sister Xie Dan out of the horse.
Hiding a needle in a cotton wool is already equivalent to pointing at the other party's nose and scolding, and it also completely blocks the way she will continue to take advantage of her in the future.
Xie Dan's personality is not formed in a day or two. Since he was a child, Xie Tianhua has been wronged, which time is not this sister who came out for him.
And in a family, it can't all be good old people, there must always be one who comes out to sing blackface.
Fighting with the daughter-in-law's open fire is not easy for the in-laws to do. After all, there is too much time to spend with my son in the future, and it is not good to make my son embarrassed.
But Shedan was different, as a daughter who married out. She will not live in her mother's house all her life, nor will she run to her brother's brother and daughter-in-law's house every day.
Then playing the evil person in the mother's house had to be done by her.
There is such a tough daughter in the family who does not care about offending people, who wants to bully her mother's family, but also has to weigh it well.
In the face of the mother's family, who are all honest people, protecting the calves has become the most indelible mark in her life.
Heartache for Xie Dan's sister, she could have been a gentle woman like water. However, for the sake of her family, the eldest sister is like a mother, and she has to live herself as a fierce "tigress".