Filial piety, the scripture of heaven, the righteousness of the earth, and the deeds of the people
Filial piety is a matter of natural righteousness and practiced by all people
Therefore, the ancients also said: Filial piety is the first
Modern children's living conditions are better
The way of filial piety is compared to ancient times
Something has changed dramatically
Every child wants to make their parents' lives better
Think of your parents in a variety of ways
This mood is understandable
But some people have gone into a misunderstanding
Fall into the embarrassing situation of filial piety
Not only did it not help the elderly, but it caused bad consequences
Puming has always passed on the concept of filial piety to all students
In the matter of filial piety, it is also necessary to learn systematically
The following filial piety misunderstandings, we must pay attention to
Myth 1: Giving money is filial piety
Some children, in order to show filial piety, send a lot of money and gifts to their parents, feel that their parents have money in their hands, can buy what they want to buy, and can eat what they want to eat, that is filial piety.
In fact, money, money, money can not replace companionship, in the current social conditions, parents are basically not worried about eating and wearing, children give a lot of money every New Year's Holiday, but they can't see each other several times a year, and even the New Year does not go home, leaving parents with only a long period of loneliness.
How many parents really care about money?
Myth 2:
Listening to your parents is filial piety
"There is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure", the old people are "people who come over", they have a rich resume in life, and it is always right to listen to the words of the old man. Many people make their parents happy, let themselves also appear sensible, the parents' arrangements are obedient, parents say that they will go on a blind date, parents let them get married, parents say that the work is not suitable for the mood to resign, against the heart to listen to various arrangements, the final pain is actually their own.
There is a saying in the disciple rules: "If you have had it, you will make it even more." Listen to your parents, but correct some wrong remarks or requirements that are not suitable for your children.
Myth 3:
Don't let your parents do anything
Filial piety means not letting parents do anything, not letting parents worry about anything.
It sounds like it's quite right, but in fact, pampering and doing nothing is the lowest energy state. Hiring a babysitter for parents and spending money to allow them to enjoy their old age is a misconception.
Sometimes, do not let the parents worry, do not let the parents do things, is a manifestation of isolating the parents, there are many ways to live in old age, appropriate to do a little housework, or with the elderly to discuss some chores at home, to guide them to feel happy, more important than what to let them do.
Myth 4:
In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, blindly take sides
There are more and more cases of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living in the same room, and it is inevitable that there will be stumbling, and the children will have to make some statements at this time. If the son or daughter blindly sided with the parents for filial piety and accused the other half of the fault, the parents may be comfortable at the moment, but the greater crisis may also be buried. There may be greater family conflicts and even family breakdown.
In the daily relationship handling of the family
It doesn't have to be right and wrong
Home and everything will be happy
In the current society, the aging is serious, and the elderly are becoming more and more numerous
Our words and deeds to the elderly
It affects the children's words and deeds in the future
Teacher Pu Mingjiang once said
Filial piety begins with education as a child
Only by establishing the concept of filial piety from an early age
Emphasis is placed on the education of filial piety
Only when you become an adult can you understand the true meaning of filial piety
Truly into the hearts of parents