Text/Good Pregnant Sister
Yesterday, at dinner, my old lady opened a family conflict mediation channel as usual. I glanced up and glanced up, only to see the eye-catching and eye-catching headline in the lower left corner, "Tenants Who Can't Be Driven Away."
Hey, this is estimated to be a dog blood plot that seizes the family property. Sure enough, following the reporter's camera, I first saw a middle-aged woman who cried and almost fainted to the ground.
Upon questioning by the mediator, it was learned that she had a house of more than fifty square meters. At the beginning, due to her brother's difficulties, her father had always advised her to be a sister, to help her brother, and let her give the house to her brother's family.
Therefore, without consulting her husband, she made the decision to let her brother move in.
During this period, she experienced a lot of things, and she and her husband also had conflicts over the house.
Until later, she was unable to repay the mortgage, so she planned to sell the house in 2018. As a result, the younger brother did not agree to move away, and has been dragging on until now.
And she has received several subpoenas from the court, and when she wakes up all day, she feels that she can't survive and can't work with peace of mind. In the end, I had no choice but to ask the media for help.
Looking at his daughter's miserable appearance, the old father sat next to him helplessly, sighing all the time, "They all blame me and hurt her miserably."
Her brother, on the other hand, said that he was upset with his sister and father, but coldly offered to let his sister transfer the house to him. He came to figure out a way.
Due to the fear of meat buns hitting the dog, the sister did not agree. He said coldly, "It is okay to move away, but you have to pay more than 300,000 yuan for decoration."
Sigh, what a lion's mouth. After living in my sister's house for ten years, it is likely that I did not even pay the rent, but I wanted to beat a rake.
Although at the end of the show, the woman's brother is emotionally affectionate and willing to move out of the rental house. But when she thought that she had brought up her brother since she was a child, but she was forced to almost live, she felt sighing.
In addition to lamenting that it is not easy to test humanity in the face of interests, I once again feel that if I meet parents who are confused, I will really make my children get along like enemies, and it is difficult to live well.
Too eccentric, the more filial the more unpopular
As the saying goes, "the palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are all meat", but some unclear parents are biased in favor of a certain child when they are young.
And what is puzzling is that no matter how much the baby who is favored grows up, even if it is not filial piety to the old, it is still a treasure in their eyes.
Not only do they pay for their own pension to subsidize, but they also rightfully let other children pay for it, or unconditionally help the favored children. If rejected, they will kidnap with morality and affection, and even cry and scold "inhumanity, filial piety."
Usually, if there is any good thing, first think of the child who is favored. But when they encounter a bad thing that needs to contribute money, they rush to find other children.
Alas, because they are not welcomed, all the efforts of the other children are deserved, and even not good. And what is even more uncomfortable is that some parents who are too eccentric can't see other children doing well.
When encountering such parents, even the most filial children will be chilled. Not only are they reluctant to go home again, but their relationship with the favored child will be particularly stiff.
Likes to stir up dissension and manipulate right and wrong
There is an old man who provokes trouble, and the family really can't be harmonious. You just said something to her, turned your face and immediately told the other child. In their name, they are all their own children, and there are things that cannot be hidden.
But in fact, sometimes it may be angry words, or small things like sesame green beans, there is no contradiction at all. As a result, everyone was not happy with such a provocation.
In addition, they are particularly fond of complaining to their children. If the child is uncomfortable after listening to it, he must want to stand up for them. As a result, brothers and sisters will ignore each other, and even hate each other.
Finally, why does home hurt? You give the child hatred but delusional love from him; you give the child pain, but you vainly want to get gratitude from him.
As a parent, you must be clear. Even if you can't do a bowl of water, please put a warm background on your child's life, so that their growth will be full of upward confidence and motivation.
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