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Not long ago, on the Internet brushed to an example of a "two-way rush to love", that is, there is a couple who are very affectionate and lovely, they like to take pictures and record videos, and then the girlfriend sends a camera to the boyfriend as a gift, and the boyfriend also just prepared the same camera to give the girlfriend a surprise, which is probably the most beautiful appearance in love.
Deeply believed, the happiest and happiest thing in this world is to meet a person you like, and this person also just likes yourself, the two of you like each other, love each other, when the two of you are close to each other, when your two hearts collide with each other, what comes out is the spark of love, the touch is the surprise of love, this is the so-called sweet and happy in love!
Although there are more than a billion people on the earth, in this vast sea of people, we can always meet a person we like, can make ourselves feel moved, and even make ourselves willing to give everything for each other, for this feeling, choose to be obsessed, love the love of a lifetime. But this beloved will not necessarily like himself equally, nor will he necessarily treat himself the same way.
So whenever you like a certain person, but this person does not like yourself, your feelings and likes can not get any response, this person not only does not love himself, has no interest in himself, but also loves to answer to himself, or even indifferent, then in the end he can only be sad, sad, disappointed, and even heart like ashes.
After all, as the saying goes, you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you can never touch a person who does not love you, no matter how much you love a person, no matter how much enthusiasm you have, you will also be ignored by the other party and thus be extinguished little by little. However, once the people you like, also like yourself, then your feelings can get the desired response, maybe the whole person can not only accept their own love, but also feedback to themselves some likes and good feelings, then they can harvest a lot of happiness and excitement, this is the two-way rush to the beauty and sweetness.
In the end, love is a matter of two people, and the beginning of a good relationship begins with two people looking at each other and starting from the sparks colliding between your two hearts. If the person you like, he doesn't like himself, has no interest in himself, and doesn't have any good feelings for himself, then you are doomed to be impossible, let alone love.
You should know that in the process of interpersonal communication, when a person likes another person, it will not necessarily be expressed directly with his mouth, but will be manifested in some of his own behavior, will take the initiative to approach each other, will care about each other, will also chat with each other, and even make some jokes, and will be more willing to protect each other and become each other's "flower protectors".
Although it is indeed more difficult to secretly like a person in your heart and secretly have a crush on each other, sometimes it is quite sweet and beautiful to think about carefully, especially when you feel that the other party also likes yourself, has a good feeling for yourself, and has a little meaning for yourself, that is, a feeling of sweetness and happiness that is difficult to describe.
Speaking of which, in the process of interacting with the opposite sex, whether the two of you like each other and whether there is still love can be seen from these three details.
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When the other party encounters something, can he think of himself for the first time?
In fact, in the relationship, when a person really falls in love with another person, he will care about the other party very much, care about the other party very much, and even be willing to help the other party anytime and anywhere, just to make the other party feel happy, of course, the same, when a person encounters things or difficulties, can he think of the person for the first time, can he have a feeling of trust and dependence on this person. Then there is no doubt that this person is nothing more than the person he loves deeply and likes in his heart.
After all, the real like in the relationship is not just simply like each other, have a good feeling for this person, interesting, but will be willing to put into practical action for the other party, such as willing to make the other party happy, do some things, you can really think about the other party, give the other party real happiness, let the ta get real happiness. Even if it is just for the other party to do something within their reach, some small things that are not enough to worry about, they will feel happy and happy from the bottom of their hearts.
On the contrary, if a person does not like himself, does not have himself in his heart, cannot remember to have himself, does not take himself seriously at all, even if he encounters some problems or difficulties, the person he thinks of at the first time will not be his own, even if the other party knows that he is willing to help him and can help him solve the problem, but even if he is not willing to find himself, or he cannot remember to have his own person, because he does not believe in himself, he does not regard himself as a person he can rely on.
However, a person who really loves himself deeply, has himself in his heart, no matter what things or difficulties he encounters, will think of himself for the first time, and will want to find his own help, especially when there are some accidents around a person, when in times of crisis, then his brain will appear blank, temporarily losing the ability to think and deal with problems, the person who can think of it at that time must be the person he loves the most, so only this person is the person he trusts the most.
Friends, you must know that a person who really encounters things and can think of himself for the first time is a person who really loves himself deeply, it is precisely because he likes himself and believes in himself, so he will rely on himself, and even the subconscious in his brain will automatically classify himself as the first important contact, whenever he encounters difficulties or things, he will automatically regard himself as a reliance, or equivalent to a hero who can protect himself, so once he encounters trouble or things, he will definitely think of himself for the first time , will also be the first time to find themselves to help.
Especially when the other party knows the importance of their own, but also know that every time they will be willing to give them some help, can give the other party some warmth and trust, you can make the other party believe in themselves more and more, feel more happy and happy, more dependent on themselves, and feel satisfied in their hearts, so you must know that from the time when a person encounters things or difficulties, you can be willing to take the initiative to find yourself to help, you can know whether this person also likes himself.
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When you take the initiative to contact the other party, can the other party reply to you as soon as possible?
Some people say that liking this emotion can bring two people closer together. How to say it, in the relationship, when you like a person, the heart is really loaded with each other, want to be with each other, you will not help but think of each other, you will not be able to help but often contact each other, want to care about each other, want to know what the other party is doing, even if it is just a simple chat, talking, will feel very happy and sweet.
Think about it too, like a person is not hidden, but also can not hide, you can chat with their favorite people, two people free to joke, and even tell their own heart words, that is equivalent to a great happiness and happiness, and chat with people who do not like themselves, may not be how hard they try to open the topic, the other party does not have much interest, the other party may not like their own contact, not only will deliberately not reply to their own messages, but also sometimes feel that they are very annoying, He will also resent himself because of this, and his attitude towards himself is very cold and alienated, as if he has nothing to say to himself.
Therefore, when you take the initiative to contact each other, can this person reply to himself at the first time, can he reply to himself in time, can he have endless words with himself, and even include when the other party receives his own message, is he very happy, extremely excited and other performances, you can see whether this person likes himself or not?
No wonder there were no articles saying before that looking at the speed at which a person replies to their messages, you can see where a degree of interest in yourself and a degree of liking go. Imagine that when he sends a message to the other party, this person is very happy and excited when he receives his own message, and he will feel ecstatic, and even according to the joy in his heart, he will definitely reply to his message directly, because he will be worried that he is afraid that he will wait in a hurry, and even ignore himself.
And in the process of the two of you chatting, not only do you take the initiative to open the topic, the other party will occasionally open the topic, you will also like to chat with yourself, it seems that you have a stomach to say, as soon as you open your mouth, you will talk non-stop, whether it is about some interesting and interesting things around you, or about the past, emotional experience, the secrets hidden in the heart for a long time are willing to share with yourself without any reservations, talking to yourself endlessly, the two of you can often chat and chat until very late, Even the kind that doesn't want to sleep in the middle of the night.
In the final analysis, in the process of interpersonal communication, when a person likes another person, it is a feeling that cannot be hidden and cannot be hidden, even if the two words "like" are not put on the mouth, and the sentence "I like you" is not spoken, but the person's behavior, attitude towards himself, and the hidden meaning of the words in the chat process cannot be concealed, that is, true love will look like ah!
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When you give a gift to the other person, can the other party collect it as a treasure?
We all know that in the process of interpersonal communication, whether it is a gift or a surprise is an indispensable thing, but when a person likes another person, has a good feeling for this person, has a meaning, when giving this person a gift or surprise, this person is not willing to accept it, and is willing to collect it as a treasure, value very precious things, and even willing to take the initiative to give back their gifts or surprises, in fact, it can be seen whether they like themselves?
After all, sometimes, whether it is a gift or a surprise, it is the most direct way to express feelings in love, and it is also the best sustenance for expressing love, what kind of emotions one person holds for another person, through gifts or surprises, can be passed on to let the other party know. Especially when you really fall in love with someone, then you will have the impulse to send something to others, just to lend the other party a gift or surprise way, in order to express your love, but also to test whether this person likes himself, what kind of feelings he holds for himself?
After all, people who really like themselves, once they receive their own gifts or surprises, they will feel very happy, and the heart is even more unable to hide the surprise, and even feel very touched, full of happiness, but people who do not like themselves, no matter what gifts they send, the other party will not be happy, nor will there be any interest, even if they send how good, how expensive things, in the eyes of the other party are not worth mentioning, can not raise any interest, will directly refuse, ignore their own good intentions, When nothing happened.
In fact, love or not love is very obvious, like and dislike is also very different, really like their own people, may be in the heart of the heart early in the heart look forward to their gifts or surprises, because gifts or surprises can represent a person's likes, is can represent a person's heart, through their own gifts or surprises, the other party is able to understand their own feelings, understand that they hold different emotions for ta, so once the other party receives their own gifts or surprises, they will feel very happy and moved, It will also be carefully collected and protected as a treasure.
Regardless of whether their own gift or surprise is worth much, but for people who like themselves, it will be a very valuable treasure, in the eyes of the other party is equivalent to something worth thousands of dollars, because this gift or surprise, hidden in their own love and heart for Ta, and when Ta receives his own surprise or gift, he will also want to send a gift or surprise to himself, want to pass on his liking and heart to himself, and will be willing to carefully prepare a surprise or gift for himself. Dedicated to yourself.
Because in everyone's eyes, receiving a gift or surprise from someone they like is equivalent to a kind of happiness, and giving gifts or surprises to people they like is the same as happiness, although it seems to be a very simple detail on the surface to give gifts or surprises, in the eyes of others, they may not feel anything, nor can they see any clues, but the men and women who are in love understand the deep meaning of this gift or surprise.
I like a passage that Yi Shu said: so deep, but it is difficult to say. It turns out that if you really love someone, your heart is sour, but you will not be able to speak. Sweet words, mostly to irrelevant people.
All in all, in the process of interpersonal communication, for two people who like each other, it is easier to feel the affection and love between each other, but it may be because of shyness and shyness, so that they are embarrassed to break through this layer of window paper, after all, you and I know that when a person likes another person, and this person also just likes himself, it is a very happy and rare thing, that kind of heartfelt feeling of happiness and satisfaction, will definitely make their hearts surging and full of excitement and boiling.
In the end, in the vast sea of people can have the privilege of meeting people who like each other, we must cherish each other, since we say that we like people, but also like ourselves, then do not hesitate, may wish to be bold, take more initiative, strive to pursue others, turn this into their own righteous people, this is the real great sweetness and happiness, do not miss people who like themselves, do not leave any regrets for themselves, and do not miss the love from the difficult.
May every "you" who just happen to be reading the article be able to meet the person you like, may the person who just likes it also like yourself, may all your lovers be able to eventually become dependents, your love can blossom and bear fruit, hold the hand together, and grow old with your children, accompany this life, good luck!
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