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Some people say that men and women who are in love are most likely to miss a person in their hearts, and it is also the easiest to worry about a person, especially for two men and women who are in love, "missing" is a very common thing.
As described in the Book of Poetry: A day is not seen, like three autumns. Even if it is only a day of not seeing, for two people who love each other, it is as long as three autumns apart. It should be known that in the process of intersex exchanges, the reason why one person will miss another person, all the thoughts are all derived from the "love" and "affection" for this person.
It is precisely because of the deep love for this person, so the heart will not help but miss this person, especially for women who have more heavy feelings, once they fall in love with a man, have true feelings for men, and have men in their hearts, then in this relationship, women will naturally become very missive of each other, and even think about men.
However, not all female friends will choose to use the method of pestering men when they miss a man madly in their hearts, after all, sometimes in the relationship, pestering a person not only shows that the feelings between the two people are not so balanced, but also easily provokes the other party to hate and dislike themselves more.
Therefore, in the process of interpersonal communication, when a woman misses men very much in her heart and is particularly worried about men, she will involuntarily look through the chat records of the two of you, and will also think carefully and ponder the messages sent by men to themselves, recall the words that men have said in their ears, and their faces will unconsciously burst into a sweet smile, which cannot be hidden.
You know, when a woman misses a man madly in her heart, then the woman may not be able to help but take the initiative to contact the man, call or send a message to the man, but usually only say a simple "what are you doing", in addition, the woman will never say more to the man on behalf of the thoughts.
But men should understand that it is not that women do not like men, nor that women do not miss men, but that women are more shy and reserved, embarrassed to express their thoughts of men too bluntly, and women want to get men's active response, whenever this time men know how to reply to women a sentence "I am thinking of you", to put it bluntly, it is equivalent to giving women a reassuring pill and giving women a full sense of security.
If the man is just busy with work or other things, then the woman will also be very reasonable, very interesting, will not always pestering the man, but will choose to silently wait for the man to finish the things at hand, in fact, often this time the woman has not left the phone, on the phone repeatedly look over the two of you before the chat history, has been waiting for the man to finish to reply to themselves.
You know, when a woman misses a man madly, she doesn't contact the man very often and will "do it this way"!
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Will try to find a suitable reason to meet with you
In the relationship, when a person is madly missing another person in his heart, he will very much want to see each other, want to see the face of his mind, so he will often find some suitable reasons or excuses to meet this person, so that two people can not only be together, can see each other, but also will not disturb each other.
This is the same for both men and women, and it is even more so for women, if a girl misses men very much in her heart, thinks about men, and worries about her stomach, even women want to see men all the time, even when dreaming, they will dream of men, but women will not always pestering men, nor will they deliberately disturb men.
Because women love men deeply, but also understand men very much, they are very sensible about men, and they are very distressed about men, so they are not willing to entangle men too much, nor are they willing to bother men, worried about fearing that it will affect men's work.
But because women really miss men very much, women will find ways to find a suitable excuse or reason to find a man, so as to meet men, so that women can see men, can chat with men, hold hands together, and even two people can press the road together, so that women feel very satisfied and happy in their hearts.
In fact, to tell the truth, most women in real life really don't want much at all, as long as men can truly love themselves and be sincere with themselves, then women are still very willing to treat men with the same feelings, and they will be willing to wait for men all the time, and they will be willing to think about men and read men in their hearts, so that for women, it is also a great happiness.
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Will keep flipping through the chat history of the two of you
If a woman likes a man, is emotional about a man, and is thinking crazy about a man in her heart, then a woman will remember every word that a man has said to herself, and will often silently look through her chat records with men in secret, and see every message and every sentence sent by men to herself.
To know that sometimes "missing" is can't help but be involuntari, when a woman is thinking about a man in her heart, she will not necessarily entangle a man, nor will she necessarily bother a man, but a woman will keep looking through the chat records of the two of you, looking at the messages sent by men to themselves one by one, seeing the happy and sweet details of the two people getting along in the past, the corners of the mouth will unconsciously begin to rise, as if drinking honey, sweet to the heart.
After all, imagine if when a woman misses a man in her heart, she keeps calling men, keeps sending messages to men, and doesn't care what men are doing, whether they are busy with work, whether they have time to accompany themselves, anyway, they have been constantly pestering and disturbing men, so that men have been chatting and talking with themselves.
In this way, men will definitely feel disturbed by women, may be disgusted with women, or their attitude towards women is not so friendly, then women's hearts will have a sense of gap, feel snubbed by men, feel unhappy, and like this over time, men will also feel tired, then it is easier to hate women.
Therefore, in the relationship, many women even if they miss men very much in their hearts and want to chat with men very much, but they will not pestering and disturbing men, even if women do not take the initiative to talk to men, and do not say "miss" these two people to men, it does not necessarily mean that they do not miss men.
It's just that women will be worried about being afraid of disturbing men, and they are not good at expressing their feelings for men, as long as men know how to observe women carefully, and know how to pay attention to observe some details of two people getting along, in fact, although women do not say any words about missing men, women's hearts have been secretly missing men, and the feelings of missing men have not stopped.
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Will always be waiting for you to initiate contact yourself
What does it look like when one person misses another?
Faye Wong's "I Do" has such a particularly appropriate lyric in it: Missing is a very mysterious thing, like a shadow, silent and breathless haunting the bottom of the heart, blink of an eye, engulfing me in the silence, I can't resist, especially at night, oh, think you can't breathe, hate can't immediately, rush towards you, tell you loudly...
You know, when a woman loves a man deeply, has a sincere heart for a man, and is madly thinking about a man in her heart, of course, she also hopes that men can give themselves the same emotions, and hope that men are just thinking about themselves, so women will willingly wait for men to take the initiative to contact themselves.
Because missing represents "like", so when women miss men, of course, they also hope that men can have a sharp mind with themselves, and they are also thinking about themselves, but women are worried that if they take the initiative to contact men, they will not delay men's business, or disturb men's work, so they dare not take the initiative to contact men, nor do they dare to contact men casually.
But just as liking a person can't be hidden, missing someone is also impossible to hide, so whenever a woman misses a man in her heart, she just walks to the place where the two of you once went together, did what the two of you once did together, ate the food that the two of you once ate together, and so on.
In fact, women can't help but think of men in their hearts, and even can't help but want to call or send messages to men, but maybe because they are worried about disturbing men's work, or because they are thin-skinned and shy and reserved.
So in the end, women still do not take the initiative to contact men, and do not say a word to men, but women will put all these things into their minds, engraved in their hearts, and want to wait for the opportunity to meet and date men, all tell men to know, and share what they see and feel with men.
Men still have to understand that even if women are not willing to take the initiative to contact men, or do not often take the initiative to contact men, but women have been thinking about this man in their hearts, have been waiting for men to take the initiative to contact themselves, as long as women have time, women will still hold the mobile phone and do not leave their hands, have been waiting for men's news, do not miss it, remember to take the initiative for women!
Bi Shumin once wrote a sentence that I like very much: Take advantage of the sunshine, take advantage of the breeze is not noisy. While the flowers have not yet bloomed to the ripe, while they are still young. You can also walk a long, long way, and you can also tell deep and deep thoughts. Look for the paths, mountains and fields that have appeared in your dreams.
All in all, in the relationship, when a woman falls in love with a man, is emotional about a man, and is thinking crazy about a man in her heart, she will not always contact men frequently, nor will she always pestering men.
Because women understand in their hearts that "entanglement" is not really like, not really good to ta, but "possessive", but to disturb each other, so women will not do this, will give men space, will also give men time, more willing to wait for men all the time.
Often like this kind of woman who knows how to think about men and thinks for men, can make male friends love as always, let Ta care about his stomach, and let Ta always have his heart in his heart, after all, what man does not like a woman with high emotional intelligence, smart and sensible, and reasonable personality?
In fact, in the relationship, female friends should also know how to think in a different position, do not always feel that only by pestering men, only by constantly contacting men, can we keep men and keep men's hearts.
However, don't forget the old saying, the so-called, "distance produces beauty", in real life, especially when women are more entangled with men, the more desperately and frequently contact men, men will feel bored, will feel disgusted with women, and even want to escape from your women, so sometimes, two people properly separated, it is not a bad thing, but it will be a good thing, you say?
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