Text: Guardian of emotions
Use the simplest words to write about the warmth and cold of the world and heal the lonely heart.
If you confess to you crazy at the beginning, you may leave after spending some time together.
So no matter what a person says to you, you can't be sure that he won't fail you, that he won't do anything that is sorry for you and makes you feel hopeless.
It's not about making you completely disbelieve, and you can believe it for the time being while he's making a promise to you, waiting for him to deliver, but not spending all your time and energy on him.
You must understand that he may be responsible for you, always love you with his heart, and cannot change his heart, take back his love, no longer accept you, no longer willing, no longer gentle.
Whether he will change or not, can not be 100% certain, need to observe more when communicating.
The future and the accident do not know which comes first, you never know, whether the man will suddenly leave, completely disconnected from you, you can never be sure.
This means that determining a relationship does not mean not separating for a lifetime.
In a relationship, you must think that he will marry you as your wife, which is your strongest backing, but also think that he will forget his original intention and no longer guard you.
Any kind of ending, you have to think about, but also to accept.
When you get his love, you respond appropriately, when he doesn't love you anymore, you have to choose to let go, don't think that he can't bear to leave you, he will still hurt you.
In the intersex exchange, the man's "three not to give in" is to no longer love, be ready to leave, you must be clear, but also let go as soon as possible, rather than trying to impress his heart.
No matter what the quarrel is, it will not choose to back down
Love will accommodate, it will hardly turn your face, it will not make you think wildly.
People who truly love you will first consider you, even if things will cause a lot of harm to themselves, they will also protect you and prevent you from feeling uneasy.
For him, giving you satisfaction and happiness is the most important thing.
Whether you should give in or not, whether you should compromise or not, he will take care of you, rather than thinking about his feelings, his future, and how it affects himself.
When a man becomes no longer budging and everything that happens has to be won or lost, you don't understand that he doesn't love you anymore, and believe it's true, rather than thinking it's a dream.
Love can be taken back at any time, and anyone who has changed their attitude towards you is no longer loving you, and you must accept the facts and die.
Stick to your ideas and stop making sacrifices for you silently
Two people in the hot love period, will have this feeling: the other party is willing to do everything for themselves, the relationship will be stable, no one will leave anyone behind.
Loving each other and being loved by each other, you will feel that the ending is beautiful.
Love each other, are willing to give, there is no idea of separation, of course, think that they can spend the rest of their lives together, never break up, and have a special status for a lifetime.
But the human heart is fickle, and it is not up to you to decide whether or not the hearts of others are in you.
If he is willing to love you, he will treat you wholeheartedly, let you feel his preference for you, he does not want to love you, he does not want to accompany you anymore.
That being the case, it can't be imagined that he will continue to love you.
He only thinks from his own point of view, he makes you feel sad, then you have to stay away from him, and you can no longer think that he will still love you as much as before.
As long as you don't go well, you will not be accommodated at all
The word "breakup" can sting people's hearts, but anyone who has love in their hearts can think of this problem, it is impossible to open their mouths and close their mouths to break up, and they will not say similar words like breakups.
Understand that it is not easy to be together, will take it seriously, and adopt each other's thinking.
That is to say, a man who loves you will think about you everywhere, and most of the time he can make you feel that he has you in his heart, and he wants to be with you well.
Love is heartache, will use multiple angles to think about problems, do not love do not care.
When a man puts a breakup on his lips, whether it is an argument or something he encounters, it shows that he does not want to live with you, and you should die.
In the face of such a person, we should realize that this relationship is exhausted, it is useless to keep it, and you should leave as soon as possible to get out of it as soon as possible.
Emotional Message:
The person you get along with may initially love you and then not love you anymore.
In the process of interpersonal communication, you should observe the changes in the other party, do not think that the other party loved you in the first place, said a lot of sweet words, made a lot of promises, and will always love you.
As time changed, he may get tired, get tired, and want to break up.
Seeing that the other person has changed, not being as tolerant of you as before, understanding you, turning the other cheek with you from time to time, proposing to break up, that is, not wanting to be with you.
His heart has changed, and you don't have to love him anymore, because sooner or later both of you will break up.
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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.