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Author: Seven Seven
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Backstage received a private message from a female fan friend surnamed Zhong that recently her boyfriend was particularly cold to himself, not only did not take the initiative to chat with himself, but even when he took the initiative to chat with him, he showed a look of love and disregard, did he have changed his mind, did he not love me anymore?
It seems that not only this fan friend, I often receive a lot of questions in the background about "whether men like themselves or not, and whether men have themselves in their hearts?" "And other similar problems, especially in the process of interpersonal communication, most women in the face of feelings, may be because they care too much about this relationship, too much attention to this man, resulting in their own is always easy to be nervous, it is easy to have doubts about feelings.
Women will always worry that their other half does not love themselves enough, always want to figure out how much their men care about themselves in their hearts, always want to understand whether their men will be afraid of losing themselves, and when men are afraid of losing themselves, what kind of performance will they have?
Although many women in the relationship like to listen to men say some honey love words to themselves, to themselves to say some sweet words, but to tell the truth women are not stupid, and finally can touch their hearts is definitely the man's sincerity, men love women to show the most real and sincere emotions, and men put into action against women.
After all, no matter how good a man loves a woman, no matter how much sweet words he says to women, but all of them are just lip service, and they have not put any practical action into women, then women will feel in their hearts that this man does not really like himself, and he is not sincere with himself.
As it is said in the book "Brother Biao's Copy", it is better to say ten thousand good sentences than to do a real thing! In the final analysis, in the process of intersex intercourse, a man who really loves women and is sincere to women will prove his love with his own practical actions, and will also want to protect and pamper women, and is more worried and afraid that women will be hurt by this.
So, what are the manifestations of men who truly love women, and what are the actions that are afraid of losing women? Generally speaking, when a man is more afraid of "losing a woman", the more he can't help but treat women like this, and he must know how to cherish!
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What happened to you?
Whenever a woman encounters something annoying or wronged, when looking for a man to talk and cry, crying and sobbing to the man, the man who loves the woman deeply will feel very anxious, and because he is worried about the woman, he will keep asking the woman "Tell me what's wrong", or "What happened to you", or "Why are you like this?" ”
However, at this moment, when a woman's emotions come up, when she can't say anything to the man, or when she is unwilling to say anything, then the man can only let the woman vent her emotions first, and then hold the woman in her arms with one hand, comfort the woman well, and ask the woman very gently, "What's wrong with you", but if the woman herself is not willing to say the specific reason, of course, the man will not necessarily force the woman to say it.
After all, loving a person is like this, will respect each other, will also be considered by each other, more for the sake of each other, even if men very much want to enter the woman's inner world, but if women are not willing, or not ready, then men will choose to silently accompany the woman's side, waiting for one day women are willing to take the initiative to tell men, all they have.
Where are you?
In real life, when a man hears something bad happening to a woman, or what wrongs she has suffered, he will feel that the woman is afraid of being alone, and he will immediately ask the woman: "Where are you?" He even said to the woman, "I will come to you right away", because men love women deeply and are worried about women in their hearts, so they are willing to abandon the things they are dealing with and immediately run to women to accompany and protect women.
Women should understand at this time that men like this really love themselves, and their hearts are really concerned about themselves, men do not want their beloved women to be hurt or wronged, and they are also worried that they are afraid that women will feel afraid of themselves, so men hope that they can do when women need themselves, they can immediately rush to the woman's side, accompany women, guard women, and give women a sense of security.
In the final analysis, men are deeply in love with women, really have women in their hearts, and are more afraid of losing women, so men hope that they can always accompany women, give women the shoulders to rely on, let women get used to their own existence, rely on their own existence, and thus can't do without themselves.
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Don't be afraid, I'm here
Whenever a woman encounters something she can't handle, or encounters some difficulties that she can't solve, at this time women often feel that they have no master, when they are overwhelmed, women send messages or call men, ask men for help, men will be very gentle to say to women "Don't be afraid, wait for me, I will arrive in a moment", and will be willing to immediately put down all the things or work on their hands, and immediately come to the woman's side to help women solve problems.
Even if men do this, they may have a certain impact on their work, or will cause relatively large difficulties in their careers, but at the moment, men just can't take care of so much, and they only want to pounce on women, and just want to rush to women's side as soon as possible.
You should know that in the relationship, a man who really likes female friends, puts female friends on his heart, and is more sincere about female friends, then the feelings for female friends are like the song "Don't Rest Assured" sings: "Don't worry about it, I can't wait I can be present...".
Because people's feelings are sometimes uncontrollable, but also can't help it, so men in front of their beloved women, it is very difficult to use their own "reason" to control the action, will always be their own feelings pulled and affected.
Therefore, men will think of women for the first time, and will also be worried and considered by women, and men will also use the most beneficial and useful methods for women to help women solve this problem or things, which is enough to show that men are sincere with women, and they are willing to stand up for women as soon as they have something to deal with, and they will also be willing to accompany women all the time, and they are willing to do anything for women, as long as women can be happy and can feel happy.
I will prove how much I love you with practical actions
In feelings, when a man likes a woman, has a ta in his heart, and is sincere and sincere to a woman, he will put into his own practical actions to prove to the woman how much he loves women. Especially when men want to show women their determination to love women deeply, then men will be willing to use their own practical actions to prove, after all, no matter how good the mouth sounds, it is not "love", only after paying practical actions, only really doing it is "love".
Once a man loves a woman deeply, he believes in his heart that a woman will be willing to pay practical actions to reassure women, so men will be willing to tell women clearly and clearly with practical actions, let women know how much they love women, want to be with women forever, two people can accompany this life, men want to become women's righteous "men", and will not avoid talking about the relationship between two people, nor will they choose to be slimy, dare not boldly admit to liking women, and dare not directly admit the intimate relationship between two people.
Like this kind of love frankly, serious and sincere attitude towards feelings, like women is to like women, once you choose to be with women, then you will always love women, only for women wholeheartedly men, even if the two of you are together, I believe that men will not do sorry for women, will not casually mess with other members of the opposite sex, and even tangle with other members of the opposite sex, treat feelings will never drag mud and water, nor will they break the connection.
Men will not do anything to hurt women, and they will not let women feel a little uncomfortable or unhappy in their hearts. Such a man is too rare, if a woman is lucky enough to meet it, she must cherish it!
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Is this person important to you?
In fact, for a man who really loves women deeply, really cares about women in his heart, and is really nervous about women, he definitely does not like to see his beloved women get too close to other people of the opposite sex, or be too close to other opposite sexes.
Because men are sincere to women, once women are too close to other people of the opposite sex, men can't help but be jealous, and they will feel unhappy because of this, jealous of other men, and even can't help but ask women: "Is this person important to you?" ”
In fact, what a man really wants to express in his heart is whether this man is important to women, or even whether this man is already more important than himself? Is the position in a woman's heart more important than herself?
Maybe women don't understand men's minds, nor do they understand men's deep love for themselves, so they don't know how sad men are in their hearts when they say this to women, men are very afraid of getting a positive answer from women, very afraid of women saying that this man is very important to themselves, and even this man occupies a more important position in women's hearts compared to himself, so that men will not have the opportunity to love women again.
Writer Zhang Ailing once wrote a sentence that is worthy of our deep consideration: "People always feel happy when they are close to happiness, but they suffer from gains and losses when happiness is carried out." ”
Yes, I think deeply, in the process of interpersonal communication, if a man loves a woman deeply, has a woman in his heart, and is emotional for a woman, then a man will definitely use his own sincerity and his own practical actions to tell women, so that women know how much they love women, and will not always just use their mouths to say it.
Therefore, women should also understand that if a man has these performances or actions for himself, then it proves that the man is deeply in love with the woman, and he is afraid of losing the woman in his heart, and he cannot accept the woman's departure.
In the final analysis, men are sincere to women, want to grow old with women, accompany this life, want to be with women for a lifetime, spoil women well, hurt women well, and love women well. In the same way, men also hope that women can treat themselves in this way, and hope that women will always belong to themselves alone, and they can no longer tolerate the figures of others in their hearts except themselves.
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