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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
A woman's name for the opposite sex actually implies her true thoughts about you in her heart, and the woman who is willing to develop a relationship with you will definitely call you different from others.
Therefore, how a woman calls you is a proof of whether she loves or not, although it looks inconspicuous, it is the truest embodiment.
When men interact with women, they may wish to observe more how women call you, and if the name of you is unique and ambiguous, you can basically judge that she likes you.
For example, a common one is that women like to call a man "brother", and she calls you like this, in fact, there are many deep meanings.
Some men do not understand, do not respond to women in time, and will naturally miss love. And some men are more intelligent, can see the woman's mind from this title, bold pursuit, naturally can successfully chase women.
So, men have to figure out what a woman calls a name and avoid missing out on women who like you.
Generally speaking, when chatting, women call you "brother", to put it bluntly, waiting for you to pick up, she will have these three thoughts about you:
First, I want to develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend with you
Gender interaction, if a woman calls your brother, the most common idea is to develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend with you.
In fact, women especially long for a man who can understand her in their hearts, when she is happy, you can accompany her to be happy, when she is in a bad mood, you can also solve her worries.
Therefore, she will deliberately tempt you, constantly calling your brother, hoping to close the distance between each other and become closer to your relationship as soon as possible.
Women expect to be girlfriends with you, the relationship is both greater than friendship and less than love, this atmosphere is what women most desire.
Because, once you accept being her brother, it means that she can coddle in front of you, can get your comfort, but does not worry about the relationship between each other will cross the line.
Maintain the friendship between male and female girlfriends, so that women can not only feel at ease, but also feel the warmth between friends of the opposite sex.
Friend Miss Luo made a male girlfriend, the two people were colleagues at the beginning, working together, and later they both felt that they were very close to each other, and the relationship further developed.
Miss Luo used to call his name, and then she inadvertently called his brother, and every time she went to look for him, she would call out kindly: "Brother, I am here." ”
When the man saw Miss Luo calling himself like this, his heart was naturally very warm, so he boldly came to stir her.
In this way, when chatting, Miss Luo called him "brother", and he also called Miss Luo "sister", and the relationship between the two sides quickly surpassed friendship.
Gradually, the two sides became girlfriends of men and women, understood each other, got along very happily, and achieved a pure friendship that had nothing to do with the wind and moon.
Therefore, a woman calling your brother is not a casual call, but implies a certain idea of hers, expecting you to take the initiative to seduce and want to become a girlfriend of men and women with you.
Second, I want to fall in love with you
Women like a person, and will not express it directly, afraid of rejection, more afraid of being disappointed.
Therefore, when she meets a man who is in her heart, she generally does not rush to show it, but through some hints, to test men.
At this time, the title of you is likely to be a direct test and verification to see if you are interested in her.
For example, when a woman interacts with you, she will intentionally call your brother and judge whether she can be with you by observing your reaction.
In itself, in front of the man she likes, she does not dare to easily confess. Because, women are very reserved and shy, if you reject, she will feel sad, very undignified.
So she will call your brother affectionately, no matter how you respond, she will not feel that she has lost face.
In fact, women call the opposite sex brother, the most direct idea is to want to fall in love with you.
However, they are too reserved to say it, so they have to give you hints to let you take the initiative to seduce her.
Otherwise, how can a woman casually call your brother, women know how to avoid suspicion, if they don't like you in their hearts, she would like to keep a distance from you.
Only if a woman wants to have feelings for you and fall in love as soon as possible, she will not wait to get closer to you and make the relationship intimate.
Therefore, when men and women chat, they may wish to pay more attention, if women keep calling your brother, most of them like you very much.
At this time, you take the initiative for her and boldly break through the window paper, which can basically capture the woman's heart.
Third, I want to play ambiguous with you
Women call a brother of the opposite sex, and there is also an idea that they are not willing to be lonely and want to play ambiguous with you.
This situation, unlike the above two, is that the woman is involved in the true feelings, either to become a confidant with you or to become a couple with you.
However, in this case, most of the time, women only want to maintain an ambiguous relationship with you and will not invest in true feelings.
When they interact with the opposite sex, they may be a "brother" to everyone, and they enjoy the ambiguous emotions between the opposite sex.
Therefore, when they are chatting, they will like to call your brother, both want to play ambiguous with you and want to get your help.
Such a woman, especially knows how to please men, always finds ways to stimulate men's desire for protection, nothing more than waiting for you to seduce her.
In the end, she gets substantial benefits from it, both emotionally and materially.
Friend Mr. Zhang met such a woman, she is particularly simple on the surface, long hair, slender figure, pure appearance, at a glance can stimulate the man's desire to protect.
Soon after Mr. Zhang and she met, she sweetly called his brother when chatting, very kind and enthusiastic, which made Mr. Zhang feel sweet in his heart.
However, Mr. Zhang later found out that she always asked him for help when she had difficulties, and he was not good enough to refuse, after all, the other party called his brother, how to help this beautiful and pure sister.
However, the number of such times is more, and Mr. Zhang is also vigilant, because not only time has been invested, but also a lot of economic costs have been invested, and the taste has changed somewhat.
In the end, Mr. Zhang gradually snubbed her and did not want to continue to be ambiguous with her, so he took the initiative to break off contact.
Therefore, men should not feel ethereal because women sweetly call you a brother, and if they are not cautious, there will be risks.
After all, this kind of woman has no true feelings, just wants to be ambiguous with you and accept your benefits.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
To sum up, when you are in a relationship between the sexes, women call you "brother", and generally have these three thoughts about you:
I want to develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend with you, I want to fall in love with you, and I want to play ambiguous with you.
When a man interacts with a woman, when he encounters a woman who calls you an older brother, it is best to observe according to her attitude to see which kind she belongs to, and to avoid blindly giving.
If you really want to develop a relationship with you, you may wish to seize the opportunity, as long as you pay sincerely, the two people will soon fall in love.
However, if a woman only wants to be ambiguous with you and hopes to get benefits from you, then you should not blindly associate with each other, so as not to regret it in the future.
The woman's title, often also implies her behavior, is the embodiment of the true thoughts of the heart, the value is not worth the interaction, it needs to depend on the specific situation.
I hope that men in reality must understand the true intentions of women and learn to choose, so as not to be blind in feelings.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.