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Backstage received a private message from a male fan friend who said that the family recently introduced a blind date to themselves, and the two people have been chatting for a while, but people like themselves or not, do they want to develop deeply with themselves, what kind of attitude they hold, have not been able to understand, and finally asked me, how can I see whether a woman likes to like herself, is it good to chase?
In fact, like the problems encountered by this fan friend, in real life is a very common problem, especially when two strange men and women introduce each other to each other, after adding contact information between each other, one of the two people will always take the initiative to initiate a topic first, in order to chat with each other, talk, especially when a male friend likes the girl, the girl moved his heart, after having a good feeling, he will want to know whether the other party also likes himself, is it also interesting to himself, Do you want to be with yourself too?
Then men will like to use some tentative tone, some tentative questions, to test the hearts of other girls, through the words and deeds of other girls, some of their own behavior, try to find an answer, from which to make a judgment, whether other girls also like themselves, whether they are also interested in their own things, whether they are also interesting to themselves.
Just as the so-called, women chase male compartment yarn, male chase female across the mountain, think about it, in the feelings, when a girl likes a boy, want to pursue each other will always be easier, but when a boy, like a girl, want to pursue each other when it will be relatively not so easy, especially in real life many single boys, when he falls in love with a girl, looks at each other, has each other in his heart, wants to pursue each other, is not not not knowing how to pursue each other, It just doesn't work on a method.
Even if boys want to use some tentative methods for girls, they want to test the girl's heart once, and eventually they will understand the meaning of the wrong girl, resulting in many boys who always spend a lot of their energy and use a lot of methods, but they can't catch up with the girl they like, and they are not with the girl they like.
To know the truth, girls are really not difficult to chase, the most important thing is that you have not found a right way, find a suitable way, especially some girls who look like they have a relatively high and cold personality, in fact, it is very easy to catch up, but most of the boys do not dare to go forward to chase, do not dare to take the initiative to other girls.
After all, in the process of intersex communication, want to know whether a girl likes boys or not, whether she is interested in herself, whether she has a good feeling for herself, not just to see how girls have a good attitude toward boys, some girls are more kind and good-hearted, and it is also very good to treat some ordinary friends of the opposite sex around them, but that is only the good between friends, not the so-called good between male and female friends.
So in the relationship, how should boys judge whether a girl likes or dislikes herself, and whether it is good or not? As long as the boy learns to use the following 3 words to test the girl, see how the girl reacts to herself, basically have a number in his heart, you can see it clearly.
In the end, boys want to judge whether a girl is good or not to chase, whether it is good or not to "pick up", in fact, it is very simple, a woman is not good or not "chase", to her three words "I invite you", look at her reaction, it is clear.
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Do I invite you?
Although it is said that in the process of interpersonal communication, whether it is a man and a woman going on a blind date or going out to play together, it is a more gentlemanly and polite behavior for a man to invite a woman to dinner or watch a movie, but if a girl does not like you, there is no meaning to the man, and even the impression of the man is not good at all, that is, the heart will be particularly disgusted with the man, then needless to say, even if the boy says to invite the girl to dinner, the girl will still directly refuse the boy's invitation.
Especially in the hearts of many girls, they will think that "eating people's mouths is short, taking people's hands soft", like this kind of behavior is not very good, unless it is the man they like, is the object of their own further development, otherwise they will directly reject each other, because girls still do not want to owe each other's affection, nor do they want to be looked down upon by the other party, as long as it is someone they do not like, they will directly refuse your invitation.
We can see from this point that we want to know whether a girl is good or not to chase, good or not to "pry", from these three words "I invite you" can be seen, after all, I have to say, there will still be many girls, is not able to resist the boy's hospitality, as long as they hear that the other party wants to invite themselves to dinner, or drink milk tea, or watch a movie, will not hesitate to nod their heads and agree to each other.
So if you want to know whether a girl is good or not to chase, it depends on whether the girl is not easy to be moved by the boy's invitation, a girl who is easier to chase, better at "flirting", generally will not refuse the boy's invitation, especially when the boy says "I invite you" to the girl, the girl will feel very happy, and will also be moved, so that she will nod her head and agree to eat with each other, or drink milk tea, or watch a movie.
However, if it is a girl who is not easy to chase, then she will be very good at rejecting each other, and even sometimes no matter how the boy attracts the girl, how he wants to seduce or the girl, how high-end the girl is to go to the restaurant, how expensive the Western food is, the girl will not feel moved at all, nor will she show that she wants to go, and will not directly agree to the boy's invitation.
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Let's talk?
When men and women first begin to meet, or when boys are with a girl who is not very familiar with each other, boys often feel poor and do not know how to initiate a chat or how to get the girl's favor.
Especially for those girls who look particularly cold on the outside and have a somewhat inaccessible personality, they often don't know what to say, and they often feel helpless about it, even if they want to talk to each other, they don't know what topic to start from, and they don't know where to start.
Maybe originally these boys are not very good at talking and chatting, in front of these girls with a cold and distant personality, they will become more and more nervous, and they will not know what to say, nor do they know how to coax each other to be happy, and they do not know how to do it to impress the hearts of girls, so at this time, boys are often prone to saying the wrong thing and behaving badly enough, so that the other party feels that the chat between the two people is unpleasant, leaving a bad impression on the boys, and even serious words. As a result, they will be disgusted with boys, so that they will not want to deal with boys at all.
If when boys don't know what to say, know how to say these three words to girls "chat", I believe that in real life, many girls in polite and polite will not directly reject boys, will be willing to chat with boys, but if this time people girls are particularly busy, or when the mood is not good, they may directly reject boys, and sometimes they will be angry, scold boys loudly, tell boys not to disturb themselves, directly go farther.
Then at this time the boy must understand, if the girl is this kind of attitude towards herself, then the girl is not easy to chase, or it means that at this moment the girl is not in a good mood, it is really not suitable for chatting and talking, the boy should not bother each other anymore, know how to obediently let go to the side, do not make it worse, provoke other girls to be angry, and even discount their own impression, the girls at this time are absolutely the most difficult to chase, the most difficult to "pry", you must have self-knowledge, do not seek trouble, Otherwise it is definitely yourself who suffers.
Playing together?
In real life, if a girl is very good at chasing, very good at "flirting", then when a boy invites himself to play together, such as playing games together, playing secret rooms together, playing cards together, etc., he will be very happy and willing to agree to the boy's invitation.
Therefore, you male friends, if you want to know whether a girl is good or not, whether it is good or not, when you "pry", you see that you invite each other to play games together, play card games together, play secret rooms and other entertainment together, depending on whether other girls will take care of themselves, and whether they are willing to agree to play with themselves.
If at this time, the girl herself is very bored and lonely, and there is no girlfriend or friend around, then the girl will definitely be very happy, and the heart will be very eager to play with the boy to pass the time, and the girl may not think about it, and will directly agree to the boy's request.
And when a girl is willing to play with boys, whether it is playing games or playing cards, in the process of entertainment, two people naturally chat and talk, slowly the two of you will know each other, the relationship will naturally become familiar, once the relationship between the two of you becomes better, the two people become familiar, then the boy whether he wants to know more about the girl, or wants to ask the girl out to meet and date, it will become easier, then the boy wants to chase after the girl, It's easier to capture each other's hearts.
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Like you?
Some people say that when a boy falls in love with a girl, has a girl in his heart, and wants to be with each other, the most straightforward way is to show love to other girls, as if thinking about it carefully does have a certain truth, after all, the two of you have just met, and you may not be familiar with each other.
If at this time the boy said love, it will inevitably make the girl feel very abrupt and unexpected, but also feel that the boy is not at all cautious about feelings, but also feel that the boy is so fake, obviously the two people know each other soon, just say love themselves, must want to play with themselves, but if the boy knows how to just say like to the girl, such as like to chat with the girl, like the girl's smile, like the girl's positive attitude to life and so on.
Then girls will feel that boys understand themselves well, think that boys are surprised, rather than hating and disgusting boys, especially when boys directly say "I like you" to girls, often at this time girls behave a little surprised and surprised, after all, you two have just met, boys will confess their love to themselves, girls will feel more or less happy in their hearts, and there will be some feelings of joy.
If girls also like boys, do not feel disgusted with boys, and even want to be with boys, then girls may ask boys some questions with curiosity, or reply to boys in a joking way, then it can be said that girls want to know more about boys, it is interesting to boys, and there are also ideas that want to develop a relationship with boys, then it will become much easier for boys to catch up with girls, and it will become easy to be with girls.
Modern brother Liu Yuning's "You Say Love" is sung like this: "Slowly get along, slowly together, slowly walk together, like is not something that can start and end casually." ”
All in all, in heterosexual interactions, boys want to pursue each other and want to "seduce" other girls for some girls they have just met, and it is best to start with the above 3 words. After all, as the saying goes, knowing oneself and knowing one's others is victorious, and wanting to pursue a person and understand a person's most basic psychological needs can better prescribe the right medicine, be able to better invest in what it likes, and be able to avoid making yourself really pay wrong, and even be busy in vain.
Perhaps some boys in real life will directly choose to give up girls in the face of some girls who are not easy to chase and "pick up", but some boys prefer to face difficulties, especially those who are more difficult to "pick up", the more difficult to chase girls, the more they want to capture the hearts of other girls, the more they want to chase her.
But to say a word from the heart, although the words are said like this, but it is recommended that everyone in the face of feelings, or to understand the "do what you can" these four words, to know that the feelings between men and women are mutual, strong twisted melon will never be sweet, only when the two of you are happy with each other, the love of the love is the sweetest, but also the most stable, but also can go directly to the end, even two people into the marriage hall, can be white to old, accompanied by this life!
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