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The small partner in the group sent a video, a couple of lovers quarreling on the street, the girl has been crying and yelling over there, what was said in the front video is not clear, the back probably said, I know what is wronged, I also know what is loved, I give you the opportunity again and again, but this time I am really tired.
After saying this, the girl squatted and cried, but the boy didn't say anything, and his hand was always in his pocket and stood silently in place.
The friend said: "I really don't know what this girl thinks, the boy is so cold, it is not appropriate to break up, ah, in front of everyone," why do you have to make yourself so embarrassed by you." ”
In fact, if the girl really wants to break up, she may not complain so much, let alone stay in the same place after venting.
Especially after saying the phrase "I'm really tired", I think she should hope to give the boy a chance, and crouching in place should hope that the boy can pull her up and hug her.
It's just that the boy's indifference has explained everything, the reason why he didn't turn around and walk away directly, I think he was just thinking about how to end it with dignity, after all, there are so many passers-by.
Otherwise, what man would be willing to let his beloved woman cry like this and be indifferent.
The friend said: "That girl is nothing to be pitiful, the dignity is not needed, maybe when she has cried enough, so aggrieved that she does not even have tears, she should learn to let go." ”
Maybe, letting go always takes a process, a process of killing likes.
A few years ago, there was such a sentence in the "Beijing Women's Illustrated Book": "Feelings are really different from work, not one plus one is equal to two, planting melons to get melons and beans to get beans, not to mention that hard work will definitely have gains." ”
In the TV series, Zhang Chao is depicting the future life with Chen Ke, but Chen Ke will easily lose a person who loves her because of a job opportunity.
This is the most helpless place in the relationship, once one party is brewing separation, it means that the relationship has begun to count down.
The relationship between light and dark in feelings never needs to be judged, only when the personnel is the clearest, just as when you face the sun and the moon, which has the temperature is as clear and clear.
Therefore, if love is corrupted, there is nothing to be nostalgic about.
If you are still coveting this perverted relationship, then you have become an innocent victim, after all, it is your obsession and greed that make you so embarrassed, which is why your friends will say that the girl is not worthy of pity.
Feelings are never wishful thinking, no matter how well they do, after all, it is a matter of two people.
Not everyone in this world is lucky enough to meet true love at once, and most of us have to go through some heartache that love can't help, and go around to find a good person.
From the way you already feel from his alienated eyes that you will no longer be retained, a little free to let go is the choice that an adult should really make.
A lifetime is short and short, long is also long, all the two people who are suitable are mostly accommodating and changing each other, if a person wants to let go in advance, then it is doomed not to be the right person, if a person chooses to ignore, why give up dignity to maintain bitterly.
In the relationship, the most valuable thing is that from the eyes of the other party, you can see your own appearance, and it is a better look, but the dizzy love, don't say it is your appearance, maybe the other party will not even give you your shadow. And you must also know that habit is not necessarily like, dependence is not necessarily still love, do not from their own imagination, to explore the way he loves you.
I think the so-called true love must be a "special treatment" for that person, so special that you don't want to cry, don't want you to be sad, don't want you to blow cold wind, don't want you to frown, if not, you should have more self-knowledge, each of them is okay, no longer contact.
Feelings are like this, without loss, you will still grow, but without loss, you cannot mature.
We should all learn how to face separation, to face the fact that some people have to leave, and to agree that you spend most of your life alone.
When all the obsessions are digested little by little by time, until, later, anyone mentions that name again and you will no longer mind, you will understand that while you say goodbye to that person, it is also the beginning of a new life.
That lukewarm feeling, not worth anyone to consume their residual warmth, the future is very long, I wish we can all meet the person who can make us worry about it all the time, contact at any time, you should leave more of your love, give this person the person who loves you firmly.
Use a small amount of aspirin as an analgesic for your mind.
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