It was not easy to add to the girl's WeChat, opened the journey of the sister, originally began to chat well, but chatted and found that there was no topic, and finally it would lead to the emergence of cold field, so that the girl's chat enthusiasm gradually faded.
First of all, you need to know what people girls like.
When chatting with a girl, it is always the best way to do what she likes. If he likes a star, you pay attention to the dynamics of that star and talk to him more about that star. If he likes to travel, you can learn more about the beauty of the world and tell her about the beautiful mountains and rivers.
When you don't speculate, you feel too much in half a sentence, but if you talk about the girl's interest, she will talk endlessly and will also feel good about you.
Second, you can talk to the girl more about yourself.
You can talk to him about your growing environment, the interesting things you encountered along the way, your understanding of the world, so that the girl has a better understanding of you. Be careful, though, that it's definitely not that way of introducing yourself, it's very naturally interspersed with your chat.
Girls hate that way of checking the hukou, and they don't like you to introduce yourself like introducing the hukou, so be natural and don't be blunt.
Finally, you can pay more attention to how the girl is doing.
No matter how strong a girl is, in fact, she lacks love, and she hopes that someone can sincerely care about herself. So you may wish to ask her how she lived this day, whether she encountered anything special, unhappy, if the girl is willing to say, then the topic will naturally continue.
It is worth noting that when asking, the tone should be gentle, and after asking, listen carefully to what the girl says and respond appropriately, so that the girl will be willing to continue to talk to you.
Step by step for the camp of the offensive topic:
1, you take this small bag is very exquisite, where to buy? It just so happened that my sister had a birthday these two days, so why not send such a bag? (Observe her view of consumption)
2. Which movie did you watch in the latest issue? Do you think it's actually good to watch movies at home? (Paving the way for further dates)
3. What is the best thing you've ever eaten? (Learn more about her preferences)
4. What are some memorable little experiences when you were a child? (Learn about her upbringing and family relationships)
5. If you had ten days of annual leave, where would you choose to travel? (Learn about her future plans)
6, let's buy a lottery ticket, if you win five million, how do you plan to spend this money? (Understanding her view of money)
7, my brothers are going to get married next week, looking for a daughter-in-law who is several years older than him, do you think they will be happy? (Understanding her view of marriage and love)
8, my parents recently always said that they live in a nursing home when they are old, I listen to it is very uncomfortable, if your parents say so, what will you think? (That is, to show your filial piety, but also to explore her attitude towards the old man, this step to control the rhythm)
Interacting with girls, at what stage to talk about what day, at the beginning about the current social news, fashion consulting, film and television gossip, best-selling books, etc. are all safety topics.