Chasing girls and chatting with them, we are all in order to close the relationship, but many boys do not even choose the basic topic, always ask girls some questions over and over again, resulting in a long time of relationship without any progress. Below, Xiaobian will recommend some chats with girls to quickly close the relationship topic and help everyone get the girl you like.
1. Talk to girls about three views and love attitudes
Chatting with three views and love attitude is easy to resonate with girls, and it is also very conducive to relationship development.
But such a topic is also easy for girls to talk about some emotional experiences in the past. This is actually not conducive to the development of the relationship.
Because, although many girls have broken up with their ex for a long time, they still haven't forgotten the last relationship, at this time, if you talk about her ex, you can easily become her emotional trash can, she is used as a tool to dump negative emotions, and the chat content may also revolve around the girl and her ex-boyfriend, and you have nothing to do with it.
Therefore, when we talk about the topic of three views and love attitudes in girls, it is best to avoid talking about her ex, even if we talk about it, don't dwell too much or think of comforting each other, that is useless, we must guide the topic to ourselves, such as:
F: My ex-boyfriend was so scummy, obviously I was so good to her
M: When you meet someone who is not ladylike, you don't need to be sad for that kind of person
F: I think I'm pretty good to him, and I don't want anything
M: I think the basis of good love is mutual understanding, three views and harmony, I have talked about one between .......
Here the girl has been talking about her ex-boyfriend, and there is no intention of ending, here we need to forcibly change the topic, to talk to the girl about the three views and love attitude, the purpose is to transfer the topic from the girl and her ex-boyfriend to you and the girl, to establish effective communication, quickly close the distance.
2, talk to girls about some little secrets
Everyone has their own little secrets, and they generally don't easily tell others.
But when we chat with girls, we can first guide girls to tell her little secrets by sharing their own little secrets, such as having a crush on a girl in elementary school, skipping class in junior high school and being punished by the teacher, etc.
If you can do this, then at the relationship level, you and your sister have become more intimate people, with a sentence "This is the secret of the two of us in the future" is to add an ambiguous atmosphere to the relationship, and the girl will not help but be moved by you.
3. Talk to girls about marriage
Most single girls are eager for marriage, and the topic of marriage is very conducive to relationship escalation.
Therefore, it is a good choice to talk to girls about when to get married, of course, not to let you ask people directly, but from the side to understand, you can talk to girls about the recent marriage of many friends, guide the topic of marriage, of course, do not show that you want to get married, especially before there is no clear girl's intentions, because that is a bit of a forced marriage feeling, which is very stressful for girls.
Talking to girls about marriage is still based on the future wedding plan, planning when to get married, and the process of planning the wedding.
You must know that girls are emotional creatures, especially when they first start to fall in love, boys may only want to think about when to hold hands, while girls think in their hearts about how to live in the future, where to hold weddings and other details of things.
Here we are rendering the beauty of future marriage for girls in advance, bringing girls into the scene of your marriage, thereby stimulating the potential desire to marry in the hearts of girls, and treating you as her marriage object, although it is only a hypothetical scene, but it also allows girls to plant the seeds of love in their hearts and deepen their impression of you.