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I don't know if there is such a person in your heart, maybe once without saying anything, you can be disturbed at any time, but now you just lie quietly in each other's friends list, not deleted, but no longer in touch.
You will still occasionally click on each other's circle of friends, look at his recent situation, and secretly speculate about his mood and life.
But the phrase "what are you doing?" is always typed and deleted in the dialog box.
Obviously, you can naturally complain to each other before, and you can chat all day without a ride.
You will not be upset and anxious when he does not reply, and that kind of relationship makes you feel very solid and at ease.
But I don't know where to start, the frequency of your chat is getting lower and lower, and when you want to find each other, you will think twice about whether the wording is appropriate.
And when he doesn't reply, you get a little frustrated, and you think, I must have bothered him.
Adult relationships are sometimes fragile, even if they have been together for a while, even if they have confided in each other late at night, they cannot withstand the strong precipitation of time, and when there is less contact, they become silent and distant.
Just like Ashin sang in the song: "Don't bother, it's my last tenderness", I don't know how many people have heard crying.
Some relationships are destined to be farther and farther away, and it is useless to try to hold them tightly, so it is better to say goodbye with silence.
Initially did not know each other, and eventually did not recognize each other.
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I have seen a passage before, to the effect that don't get too good with anyone too quickly, and many people who see each other and hate each other in the end have ended up being old and dead.
It is better to slow down, slowly understand, slowly acquaintance, slowly familiar, slower, maybe you can accompany the ground for a longer time.
At that time, I didn't understand the meaning, and I felt that people and people got along, as long as you paid sincerely, you were very good to others, at least others would return you a point.
But later, I learned more and more that people are really different, some hearts are destined to be hot, and some feelings are doomed to be separated from the beginning of the encounter.
How many blacklists, have said goodnight to each other, how many names that do not bother and do not contact now, all hide countless nights of tossing and turning but can not say what they care about.
There is a kind of thought called not to disturb, there is a kind of love called not to contact, people who have experienced it, they all understand.
It's not that I don't care, it's not that I don't remember it anymore, but I just silently sealed this person, this name, and this feeling in the corner of my heart.
Because we all have to live our lives well in the present, it is enough for some people to meet, and the rest of our lives will be foreshadowed.
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In the movie "After Forever", it is said: "Like is wanton, but love is restraint." ”
Only if we do not see each other can we not fall in love; only if we do not know each other, we can not miss each other; only if we do not accompany each other, we can not owe each other; only if we do not pity each other, can we not remember each other.
After all, only children play the trick of crying and making trouble, adults are not painless, but mature, so even if the tears are swirling in the eye sockets, they will still slightly raise their chins and smile at you.
Can't put down how, further unqualified, step back reluctantly, it is better to be in the corner, quietly watch your joys and sorrows, give you blessings, but also for yourself to retain the last decency and dignity.
Some of the best endings of the relationship are precisely that there is no ending, and it is better to forget each other than to forget each other.
No contact, no interruption, one and two wide, may the king be well.
● End of the article Soundtrack: Zhang Xinzhe - "If You Are Happy" ●