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In this life, who people will meet and who they will fall in love with are all destined.
Perhaps before this, you boasted that you were sober in the world and had never thought of handing over the rest of your life to another person; but after meeting her, you began to have expectations, fantasies, and a heart to settle down.
She is like a most beautiful flower, blooming in your heart, and the little bits and pieces of two people getting along are the traces of your love for her.
Her appearance satisfies all your fantasies about love and keeps you trapped in it.
Since then, her every word and deed, every move, can always easily affect your emotions, making it difficult for you to control.
You are happy because of her, because you are sad, and all that you have endured is willing.
Love has such a magic that it will make an originally rational person lose control.
It turns out that a man falling in love with a person is uncontrollable.
01 Can't control missing you, will contact you
I have seen such a sentence on the Internet:
"No one is going to disappear, they're just going to be in touch with the people they miss."
There is no doubt about this.
If a person loves you, they will not be able to control the thought of you, and give time and energy to connect you.
Perhaps, he is usually a person who talks less, but he will still leave his few sharing desires to you and tell you his thoughts.
When two people are together, they can meet every day without suffering from lovesickness; but once for some reason, they can't meet with you separately, then they can't control your thoughts and contact you frequently.
Because I love you, I miss you; because I miss you, I contact you frequently.
He can't control missing you, and frequently contacts you, which is actually the performance of deep love for you in his heart.
02 Can't control spending money for you, paying for you
As the Japanese writer Ritsuaki put it:
"When you really like someone, spending money is the best way to express your friendship."
Indeed, men who truly love you will be very willing to pay for you and can't help but spend money for you.
Perhaps, he is usually a more frugal person, and he feels that life is not bitter at all, but when he meets you, he begins to fear that you will be wronged and wants to give you the best everything.
He is not willing to let you suffer, so he will always lend a hand when you need it, pay for it, spend his heart to coax you to be happy, hope that you are good, and hope that you can be happy.
Love is a willing to give, he spends money for you, buys you what you like, helps you in life, in fact, the heart loves you deeply.
03 Can't control jealousy, very concerned about you
In the movie "Angel Amelie", there is a line like this:
"You never know how much you like someone unless you see him with someone else."
Indeed, to truly love someone is possessive, and he will be very concerned that you get too close to others and cannot control jealousy.
He always loves to control you, and seeing you with other members of the opposite sex will be very uncomfortable and angry with you.
In fact, he is jealous frequently, not because he is stingy, nor because he does not trust, but because he loves you too much.
He will be jealous because he loves you; he will be angry because he cares.
He often can't control jealousy, cares about you very much, in fact, he loves your performance deeply in his heart.
As the writer Canoe put it:
"Even if the world is barren, there will always be someone who will be your believer."
True love is uncontrollable.
Because she loves you, she will not be able to control missing you and connecting you; she will not be able to control spending money for you and paying for you; she will not be able to control jealousy and care about you very much.
The rest of your life is long, it is a blessing to find someone who really likes you, if you have met such a man, please cherish it.
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