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In this life, people seek and seek, nothing more than to get a true heart.
I want to meet such a person, be liked by him, spoiled by him, loved by him, and become his thoughts and worries all the time.
Perhaps, you also loved to miss a few people, and after paying your heart, you were deceived, and finally you were scaled all over your body and got full of scars.
You choose to leave, still with a beautiful yearning for love, and want to find someone who treats you sincerely.
In fact, in feelings, true love is not rhetoric, but real action and protection.
If you want to know what a man thinks of you, don't look at what he says, look at how he does.
If a man is willing to do these things for you, then he must love you very much.
01 Follow your nature and change yourself
In the movie "Soul Breaks the Blue Bridge", there is a line like this:
"Everything I do, I try to change myself, is for you."
Indeed, men who truly love you will change themselves according to your nature and your preferences.
You like to eat spicy, he will also try to accompany you to eat spicy; you like to go shopping, he will accompany you to go shopping; you like to travel, he will also take time to take you to where you want to go.
After being with him, you seem to be more and more like, in fact, it is his accommodation and run-in with you.
He is not willing to let you be wronged, so he will respect your personality and preferences, follow you in many things, silently change some of his small habits, and slowly integrate into your life.
He is always following your nature and changing for you bit by bit, in fact, because he loves you deeply in his heart.
02 Put away your temper and be gentle with you
Someone said:
"True love is willing to let go of all your temper and pride for you, patiently and gently care for you, and tolerate everything about you." 」
There is no doubt about this.
The person who truly loves you will put away his temper for you, give you gentleness, and be considerate to you.
He will restrain his temper, even if he has a conflict with you, he will take care of your feelings, let you, and take the initiative to bow his head for you.
With him, what you feel is more of his pampering for you, his tenderness towards you.
He is not willing to make you sad, always let you, gentle and meticulous to you, coax you to be happy, is to hope that you can feel happy in this relationship.
He put away his temper and was always gentle with you, in fact, because he loved you deeply in his heart.
03 Give up your freedom and give you peace of mind
As Fromm said:
"Loving someone is not just an emotion, it is a decision, a judgment, a commitment, a responsibility."
Indeed, the person who truly loves you will give up their freedom and take responsibility for you, just so that you can feel at ease.
Perhaps, before being with you, he was free and made a lot of friends of the opposite sex; until he fell in love with you and was with you, he voluntarily gave up this freedom.
He will take the initiative to keep a good distance from other members of the opposite sex for you, accompany you whenever he has free time, and concentrate on you, preferring only you alone.
With him, you can feel this dedication and determination, with a full sense of security.
He will not let you think wildly, and he will not let you suffer from gains and losses, and will be devoted to you and make you feel at ease.
He gave up his freedom just to reassure you, but in fact, because he loved you deeply in his heart and regarded you as very important.
Love requires action.
People who really love you may not say many words that love you, but they will certainly do a lot of things that love you.
He follows your nature and changes for you, that is a favor for you; he puts away his temper and is gentle with you, that is an accommodation for you; he gives up his freedom and gives you a concentration, which is a favor for you.
If you also meet such a man who pampers you, accommodates you, and favors you, please know how to cherish it and don't lose the man who loves you the most.
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