The film tells the story of Army Captain Roy who meets marla, a ballerina, during a short vacation, after which the two fall in love and are engaged to each other for life.
The outbreak of war made them miss the opportunity to get married. Soon, the male protagonist was mistakenly put on the list of dead due to injury and loss of documents, and the female protagonist thought that the male protagonist had sacrificed a grief-stricken illness.
Later, the heroine was forced by life to fall into red dust. After the end of the war, the female protagonist and the male protagonist unexpectedly encountered tragedies and joys, and finally in order to preserve the honor of the other family, they committed suicide on the bridge where they first met each other the day before the wedding.
After learning the truth, the male protagonist was miserable, but he still did not regret his original intention, and there was no other woman since then, which was lamentable.
The cruelty of war and the prejudices of the world buried a life-and-death love. If there is no war, then the male protagonist Roy can marry the female protagonist Mara smoothly and live a happy and happy life.
If there is no mendi and worldly prejudice, Roy and Mara are reunited, and they can still continue the frontier and taste the sweetness of love again.
However, the reality is harsh, the war is merciless, and the secular prejudices are equally terrible. As the saying goes, "all mouths shovel gold, accumulate and destroy bones", it is the latter who buried the life of the heroine Mara.
If the heroine is stronger and stronger, will she be able to face the world without fear of people's words, and bravely continue their happiness with the male protagonist Roy?
If you were faced with the deep love of your lover and the prejudices of the world, how would you choose? Do you stick with your loved ones or do you choose to leave?
If it was me, I would choose to leave when I was young, because at that time I was timid and cowardly and did not dare to face it, and I could only choose to escape, which was doomed to lose my former lover. And now, I won't easily choose to leave.
I will show my heart to my lover and choose according to their attitude. If he and I are in touch with each other, love each other, and can bravely face worldly prejudices and pressures, then we will be together, and if we can't, we can only choose to break up.
Love is beautiful and intoxicating, but it is still slightly inferior to life. As the saying goes, "Stay in the green mountains, and don't be afraid of running out of firewood." As long as you live with hope, it is possible to meet people who understand you, people who love you to warm you, to accompany you, to tide over difficulties, and to share happiness.
Once, I was depressed and pessimistic, but now I don't think so. Because I have seen too many sorrows and joys through half a life, life and death, I feel that life is still the most precious.
If the female protagonist did not commit suicide, then the male protagonist is likely to insist on being with her because of love, give birth to several children, and share the joy of heaven and the love of husband and wife. And he will not end up alone, sad for a lifetime, causing irreparable tragedy.
Unfortunately, the heroine Mara did not tell her lover her thoughts, but chose to leave him to fulfill him. However, her fulfillment is not what the male protagonist Roy wants, he only wants him! If she knew, would she regret it?
We always self-righteously leave what we think is good to each other, self-righteously sacrifice ourselves for each other, but we have never asked each other whether those are what the other party wants, resulting in a lot of misunderstandings and even tragedies.
Mara did not tell Roy about her experience, her thoughts, but desperately chose what she thought was the best way to fulfill her lover, and as a result, she sacrificed herself and hurt her lover, sadly! It shows how important it is to communicate clearly!
Therefore, when you make a choice related to your lover, please ask the other party's opinion, because what you give may not be what he wants, and don't sacrifice yourself in vain, and end up hurting others.
In real life, one lover dies, and the other party is mostly sad for a year or two, and then finds a new love. If the male protagonist is also like this, the death of the female protagonist is even more meaningless.
Therefore, lovers who have lost love or encountered setbacks should still save their lives as the best policy, because time will heal all pain.
Love is gone, maybe it will come at the next intersection, life is gone, there is nothing. So there is hope in life, and there is love in life!
If you have just lost your lover, your heart is painful, your heart is sad and desperate, and you even feel that there is no point in living, this is actually quite normal. These emotions are only temporary, not one-lived.
Because I have all experienced, felt, lost, suffered, and broken my heart. After more than twenty years have passed, looking back, it has become light and breezy, and compared with life, it is just an episode.
Therefore, please love deeply, please cherish. If not, please let go, take care, and cherish your life!
Remember, things must be reversed, and when something is too bad to be bad, it can only develop in a good direction.
As long as you bravely grit your teeth and persevere, you can always usher in the next spring, no matter how fast or slow, it will eventually come.
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