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In feelings, being identified by one person is the expectation of many people.
I want to meet such a person, be liked by him, cherished by him, pampered by him, and from then on, one house, two people, three meals, and four seasons to spend the rest of my life together.
Perhaps, before you met love, you did not believe that you could be firmly chosen by a person; until you met him later, you began to expect everything.
As Mr. Yang Dai once said:
"Meeting a very good lover is really a gift, and only those who really like you will feel that you are particularly good in their hearts." 」
Indeed, true love is a kind of inner identification.
Because he loves you, he will let you go in everything and accommodate you; he will give you favoritism and spoil you; he wants to marry you and take responsibility.
In fact, men who identify with you will emit these signals.
01 Everything is left to you, that is a kind of accommodation
As the writer Su Xin said:
"In this world, no one is stupid, someone confesses for you, someone hides for you, someone supports you unconditionally, just because of affection." 」
Indeed, the man who truly loves you will let you go of everything, accommodate you, and put you first.
He will be very concerned about your feelings, tolerate your little temper, even if it is two people quarreling, he will be the first time to give in to you, try their best to make you happy.
It is said: to see if a person really loves you, not to see how romantic he is to you on weekdays, but to see if he will accommodate you when he quarrels.
The man who really recognizes you will not win or lose with you, and in his heart, you are more important than winning or losing.
He lets you do everything, always accommodates you, in fact, he recognizes you in his heart.
02 Give preference to you, that is a kind of spoiling
A particularly envious sentence:
"Since I chose you, I will only hurt you, give you all my preferences, I will only love you alone, you don't think too much, as long as you don't abandon me, I will always accompany you, hurt you and spoil you and love you." 」
Indeed, men who truly identify with you will treat you as an exception, give you unique preferences, and spoil you.
He will not let you think wildly, will take the initiative to keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex, give you preferences, and make you feel full of security.
In fact, a good relationship is not to move you at once, but to spoil you with a long stream of fine water.
The person who really identifies you will not weigh the pros and cons with you, and in his heart, you are more important than gain and loss.
He gives his preference to you, always spoils you, in fact, he recognizes you in his heart.
03 Wanting to marry you, that's a responsibility
I saw a particularly heart-warming sentence:
"The reason why I want to marry you is that I hope to shield you from the wind and rain, carry the burden of life for you, and let you eat three meals and be carefree." 」
I have always felt that a man's greatest determination of a woman is to marry you home, to avoid your upheaval and displacement, to avoid you falling apart, and to avoid you having no branches to rely on.
He won't let you suffer, he won't make you think wildly, he will marry you home, give you an identity, and let you stand by his side.
In the relationship, the person who really identifies you will be responsible for you and take responsibility for you.
He wants to marry you, that is a responsibility, in fact, in the heart of you, feel that you are very important.
In this world, the most precious thing is a sincerity and a determination.
Such love, like finding a needle in a haystack, is very difficult to find.
To let you do everything is an accommodation; to give favor to you is a spoiling; to want to marry you is a responsibility.
The rest of your life is very long, if you also meet such a man who identifies you and gives you his heart, cherish it!
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