Like a person, that is always difficult to control. It was almost an instinct, a feeling for us, a decision made for us.
Sometimes, like and appropriate, that is the same thing, we like the person, just will be very compatible with us, get along well.
But there are always times when we really like it, but in the relationship with each other, we don't feel very good, and even often just feel very painful.
Knowing that it is not appropriate, even if we still like it, we had better be rational and give up as soon as possible.
When we feel that it is not appropriate with a person, and we are not willing to give up, needless to say, it is not because of anything else, but because even if we know that it is not appropriate, we still have a feeling for that person.
But we also have to understand that when we feel that each other is inappropriate again and again, we have actually felt it, although we feel liked, but the other party is really not able to bring us a happiness.
Pain also accumulates, again and again pain, again and again disappointment, it will really continue to rise, and then one day, directly overwhelmed us can no longer bear, or even breathless.
Choosing to let go, making this decision in time, really choosing to give up, it is not easy, it will make us more uncomfortable in an instant, but from that moment on, our pain will not increase anymore, it will only begin to decrease.
Long pain is not as good as short pain, rather than letting yourself be so uncomfortable all the time, because this relationship is suffering, it is better to be directly relieved.
Too many roads, if the direction is wrong at the beginning, stopping will be progress, and the same is true for a relationship, if it is obviously not suitable, even if you work hard and insist on it, it will not make each other suitable.
Feelings that are doomed to have no results, one more journey, will only delay themselves for a period of time.
In this life, we have and only have these decades, the best years, but only those years, we really do not need to waste our time in a hopeless relationship.
Everyone's emotions are very limited, and they simply cannot be constantly breeding.
If we give the best of ourselves, the best love, all to an inappropriate person, even if we are separated in the end, it will actually cause us a lot of harm, and it will also consume our feelings to a large extent.
Giving love to the wrong person, but not being able to treat the right person well, in any case, this is not fair after all.
Free that person from your heart, leave your best self behind, and give yourself a true disposition. Then one day, until we meet the person who is really more suitable, who can make ourselves feel more comfortable and feel happier, we give all of ourselves and indulge in love with each other.
With that person, go to the road ahead, our every day will be more full of color, we will really not regret it, can enjoy the current days, and get what we want on the road of love.
On the road of life, we must know how to persevere, and do not easily let go of a suitable person. We also need to know how to give up, and we don't have to cling to it when we realize that a person is not suitable.
It is always necessary to lose one person, to have the opportunity to meet other people, to be with better people.
It's important to like it, but it's also important to be appropriate. Only like each other, can not fit each other at all, the three views are not consistent at all, completely unable to understand each other, can not do good communication, together will only be reluctant, one day, even there is no way to force.
Only if you like it and are suitable, and you can get along very happily, it will be a good time.