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Romain Rolland said in michelangelo's biography: "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, to recognize the truth of life and still love it." "This hero may not have been born.
How about concretizing life and turning it into marriage? It is still universal: after recognizing the truth of marriage, still love it, such a person can also be called a hero, right? But as mortals, the crown of "heroes" may be too heavy.
"The Perfect Companion", the name is very ironic. There is no perfection in this world. You can only find the greatest balance in the imperfection. That's all, but it's "chicken feathers + dog blood" everywhere.
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Chen Shan vs Sun Lei, Lin Qingkun vs Wu Min. These two couples seem to be misplaced in marriage. On the surface, Chen Shan and Lin Qingkun are more like intimate partners. Sun Lei and Wu Min do have a lot of problems to communicate. They all have no clear concept of "husband and wife", and the problem intensifies between trances. "Divorce" has become an unavoidable topic, is their relationship really so bad? Is it true that their feelings cannot be repaired? Of course, it's not. The point is, they all go into the misunderstanding of marriage.
Couples who can survive, even if they "do a day as a monk and hit the clock for a day", can still maintain the dignity of marriage. Couples who can't get by directly choose divorce.
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Couples who can't get by, what marital misunderstandings have they entered?
First of all, it's "you don't love me enough."
Not just women, men also need to feel secure. This sense of security always makes you particularly flustered. Even if the other party is very good to you, you still feel that this is a superficial effort. Actually, he doesn't love you that much, or even doesn't love you.
Such a wrong consciousness is the most likely to lead to saying the wrong thing and doing the wrong thing. The other party will also feel that you are so greedy and so unsatisfied. So difficult to accommodate, how to call love you? Have a good material life, and you want to be spiritually fit. With a spiritual fit, you feel that your material life is not ideal.
In short, the other party will do everything possible to be good to you. You are not satisfied. Over time, everyone will be discouraged. Marriage cannot withstand such a toss.
Second, it's "Your love is not what I want." ”
This is even more fatal, as someone asks you: "You say you need to feel secure, what is security?" "You can't say it. Others can't be nice to you, and the kind of love you want is the best. So what are the specific requirements? When you ask, you get angry again: "I want everything, is it interesting?" ”
The whole thing, you become an unreasonable guy. "Your love is not what I want", you are either reluctant to say what you want? You either have what other people do to you and you don't like it. OMG, top not smooth.
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In "Perfect Partner", Wang Yaoqing has a line like this: "We are fighting in the front, and you are helping each other in the rear, which is also very good." "It's not good at all, and mutual help in life is not the same as relying on each other in marriage."
The misunderstanding of marriage, you have to get out on your own. Looking at other people's families, they all seem to be very happy. However, "every family has a difficult scripture", and everyone's hearts must be united and the goal must be the same. Otherwise, divorce is just two simple words. But for each other, it will be the beginning of different lives.
Wrong or right? Like fish drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
END。
"Perfect Partner" is actually to tell you: where there is a perfect partner, but it can still be a loving marriage.
As long as you cherish and support together, you are the most perfect partner for each other. Don't forget your original heart, love has the most beautiful look...
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