The TV series "Perfect Partner" is being broadcast, Chen Shan and Sun Lei are strong and weak, but they have been married for ten years, with tacit understanding, family harmony, and their daughters are lively and optimistic.
As the only sober and hard-working person in the play, you can see Chen Shan's efforts to balance family and work.
At work, she is fierce. As a securities lawyer, she is honest and courageous and never bows to anyone. In the face of the leader's doubts, she is confident and rigid.
For Lin Qingkun's doubts and ridicule, she faced hardness.
In the face of her opponent's digging and provocation, she has always spoken with strength.
Sun Lei said that she worked like a machine that did not stop working, and there was no humanity to speak of. But is that really the case? The success of Xi Fuhui's case shows that Chen Shan is not only working with reason, but more importantly, she can empathize with people, start from feelings, and resolve contradictions.
Chen Shan in life is also sober and hardworking.
She cares for her daughter, accompanies her when she is idle, and videos are used every day when she is busy. When the daughter can't see her mother, she will think of her mother and take the initiative to video, which shows that chen shan's relationship with her daughter is very deep.
Wronged at work, she also knows very well that Sun Lei is her dependence and retreat, and her weakness is only left to her family.
After pregnancy, Chen Shan took the initiative to put down all her work, turned around gracefully, and smiled. Because she knows that the strength is her own, no one can take it away.
She can take out the tenacity at work to let go of everything to raise the fetus, and she has done everything to the extreme.
She can find out the problems with her lover in time and reflect on herself.
But Sun Lei is not as high as Chen Shan, he believes that everything in work is the same, the money is not much, can support the family.
So Chen Shan also filed for divorce because she found that Sun Lei had lost herself for the sake of her family. He was also a young man, but he made great sacrifices for his family.
Although Sun Lei sacrificed his career for his family, Chen Shan also sacrificed a lot of family time for his career.
Due to frequent business trips, she missed many of her daughters' growing up time.
At the same time, I also lost a lot of time communicating with my lover.
It is said that art originates from life, so how should we balance the relationship between work and family in life? We can maximize personal value at work, but we must do what we can. Because in addition to gaining the appreciation of others, the affirmation of the family is more important. We can give time and energy to the family, but everyone is an independent individual, and you can't lose yourself because of the family, because the achievements in the work will make you the pride of the family.