-01-
People in the world always like to say that there will be a reward for giving.
However, if this sentence is used in feelings, it will most likely give you a headache.
Because, too much brainless pay, and the other party does not feel the slightest, and does not know how to be grateful, then this feeling will only give you an indescribable pain.
No matter how romantic you are when you are together, it is just a mirage; no matter how many sea vows and mountain alliances you have together, they are just the vacuousness of the mirror flower and water moon.
So, love, love soberly, not obsessively.
Especially women, women are mostly obsessed, once in love, they forget themselves, will always hear some girls in love, will give you a sentence: he is the only one.
But after being broken up, I sadly said: Being with him is the thing I regret the most in my life.
Therefore, to love someone, you must be slow, and don't give all your passion, trust, and love to each other at once.
Love is really fragile, and as long as it is let down once, it is likely to make you doubt for a lifetime.
-02-
Remember once seeing a sentence:
When you have a fixed playlist, you rarely listen to new songs.
Because new songs require you to have a process of adaptation. It's like, after a breakup, you meet a new person, and then you go into your heart and walk into his side, and you rarely love someone as much as you did in the first place.
If you love, love deeply, and if you don't love, don't be ambiguous, hurt others and hurt yourself.
And women must correctly recognize whether the person next to you at the moment really loves you, or just plays with you.
These three things can best prove that he is holding his true heart, approaching you, close to you, and loving you with his heart.
If he doesn't give it to you, then you have to seriously consider your future.
Giving you full companionship is his promise to you
I once saw a saying: love is not the end, companionship is the destination.
Deeply.
Companionship is the most affectionate confession, and this sentence is never outdated. Because companionship is the most difficult commitment one person can make to another person.
Just like the fruit on the tree, you look at it from a distance, it is beautiful and good, but if you can't reach it, you can only look at it from a distance, so much and a half, it can only be a dream.
The one who gives you companionship is the one who will deliver the fruit to you at any time.
We take a closer look at the model couples around us, and most of them are people who can give each other companionship whenever and wherever they are.
But, companionship, and to be able to be by your side, is called loving you, but you are together and can get along comfortably.
It's like two people who have been busy with work all day and come home at night, and everyone wants to lie down for a while and doesn't want to get up to cook, order takeout, and feel unhealthy. So, two people scissors and hammers, who lost who went to cook, but unfortunately you lost, began to play, the other party stood up and smiled at you dotingly, and walked into the kitchen.
The love he gives you is a concern and a surprise.
Instead of: you've been busy all day, come home, and see that he's addicted to the game, "screaming" in the game, and complaining to you: how come back so late, almost starving.
This kind of love, you still let him do what to do, he gives you not companionship, but just enjoy your care for him.
The love of companionship will make your love full of rituals, adding a lot of romance to the plain as water days.
You will also feel that the small details of your relationship are full of the sincerity he has given you.
To show you his truth is his recognition of you
The bittersweet and bittersweet of life makes many people forget their original appearance, even if they are in love, they will wear masks to face their lovers.
Some couples, when they came to the step of talking about marriage, suddenly there was a disagreement, and the love that two people had once had turned into nothing; there were also some couples, who saw each other before marriage and everything was perfect, but after marriage, they knew that this man's life was sloppy, his socks and shoes were thrown away, he was lazy and greedy, and even "Ma Bao", who was clean, tidy, diligent, steady, and sincere when he was in love, was pretended.
So, a person, you can see his true state, in order to determine whether this person is really suitable for you. Whether two people can go to the end is not only able to see each other's truth in life, but also the three views will match each other.
Wang Xiaobo once said to Li Yinhe: I give you my whole soul, along with its quirks, playing with small tempers, flashing light and dark, 1,800 kinds of bad diseases. It's so nasty, only a little good, love you.
The person who loves you is showing you everything he has, good, bad, what you appreciate, what you desire to be inclusive... He will have both his excellence and his mediocrity, both what you like and what you hate.
At the same time, he will do his best to give you the most appreciation he can.
For example, some girls, in front of the people they like, there will always be some unscrupulousness, will let go of their defenses in front of outsiders, and show their most ugly side to each other.
And the person who loves you, he will not laugh at you, and he will not dislike you, but while laughing, while accompanying you, he will take out his most true heart and let you feel the "smell of similarity" between you.
He gives you full of respect, and he gives you peace of mind
Once saw a story.
The two of them opened an ice cream shop, and there was a long queue at the reception window, and the girls said to the man while they were busy: I am too tired, I want to rest.
The man listened, finished the ice cream in hand, hung the sign that was suspended by the window, and said to everyone, I'm sorry, my wife is tired, and today it is suspended.
A lot of love, in fact, what hurts people is not how much the two people once loved and dispersed, but the woman has obviously told the man her needs, but the man still pretends not to hear, so the two people gradually drift apart.
A person who truly loves you deeply must be like the man in this story, giving you full of respect, gratitude and heartache for your efforts.
Most of the love, is not vigorous together, only plain as water life, he will let you feel, his love, is your life, the biggest backer.
Just like in "Perfect Partner", Sun Lei and Chen Shan are a little different for traditional families, Chen Shan is very ambitious, and Sun Lei silently undertakes the big and small affairs of the family and takes care of her daughter.
They will also have disputes and contradictions, but they all take care of each other's emotions, spend their best efforts to make each other feel that they care, and let us see a family, "what you need, I am in" full of love.
It can be seen that a man's respect for a woman is the deepest love he can express to you.
And a person who does not know how to respect his own woman, he will only hope that you will listen to him in everything, do everything, put him first, and even ask you to sacrifice yourself to complete his future, and even more will not maintain you in the slightest when there is a conflict between you and his family, you are the most familiar "outsider" who accompanies him.
-03-
Everyone who comes into this world is just a hurried visitor.
Some people have an encounter and then turn away; some people fall in love and then look back unforgettable; some people, ordinary encounters, but accompanied by a lifetime.
Fate is difficult to say.
Therefore, you must not be, as soon as you fall in love, you may accompany you for a lifetime; and do not think that you may not be a perfect pair when you talk frequently.
The real fit needs to be run in slowly.
How to judge whether a person really loves you?
There is no need to listen to his sweet words, no need to see his romantic confession to you, because the passion fades, you will always start to quarrel because of the chicken and dog fragments of life, and at that time, the one who still endures you, gives you respect, gives you truth, and he is willing to accompany you so "fully", just because: he loves you deeply.
Finally, may every woman who seeks in love meet the lover who is with you until death.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the deep affection of the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!