Love is not from people, just like Zhang Ailing's sentence: "If you like a person, you will be humble to the dust, and then blossom." ”
Even if he or she is humbled to the dust, his or her heart is still joyful.
Like a person, but also can't help it, not to ask whether the value is worth it, and finally by this love to awaken the most beautiful emotions in their hearts.
Like is happiness, is a blessing, in fact, many times, we can not measure each other's sincerity in the way and form of love, can only feel the strong affection. In addition, what is important is not the result, even if you love but can't, at least in the process of love, you have paid, been happy, and been happy.
Yes, love doesn't have to have results, but it does have to be meaningful, bringing our emotions towards true maturity.
So do you know what kind of performance a man will behave when he loves a woman? When a man has affection for a woman to the depths!
1. Possessiveness.
As there is a saying in "Zeng Boy":
"There is no generosity in love, it is precisely because of selfishness, so it will produce exclusive incomparable pleasure and the ultimate pain of loss, the so-called generosity actually does not care at all." 」
Therefore, because of the strong possessiveness, a special sense of crisis will be generated to a great extent, and every opposite sex around her will be regarded as a threat to the status of love. She is often jealous and occasionally interferes with her life, with some impersonal overbearing.
All people who think that all the opposite sex close to her are ill-intentioned, all are ill-intentioned, and in fact, they are too afraid of losing, feel that they can't afford to lose, even if it is only one in ten thousand, they want to avoid it as much as possible.
Because I like it too much, my heart will also become very sensitive, and I will torture my emotions by love, suffering from gains and losses, and thinking wildly.
2, will be inferior.
When a man really likes a woman in particular, he always feels that he is not worthy of her, and becomes timid from this inferiority, always cautious in front of her. After determining a relationship, the relationship will also give him a special motivation, and in that moment, really want to be a better person.
Focus on self-growth, career struggle, want to give her the best happiness in the world, and be more capable of guarding her, even if she never thought so.
This is all the strong desire in his heart, and he often feels guilty and sad that he has not reached the heights he desired.
Yes, what man doesn't want to be the hero of his beloved woman, even if the woman has no presets for him, but still has high demands on himself.
3. Do not ask for credit.
When a man always deliberately wants to prove his love for you, he is actually hiding the fact that he does not love you. So this kind of man's kindness to you, even if it is only a little good, will expand this good infinitely afterwards, in order to give you a psychological hint: You see how much I love you.
The man who really loves you will only pay silently behind his back, because his emotions are pure, so basically he will not overemphasize his own efforts.
Or rather, he has given you too much and doesn't need to be deliberately emphasized at all.
So you must believe that true love does not need to be proven, that is, a pure and natural emotion. Men who like to ask for credit often do not think about developing with you for a long time, and then try to achieve their goals in the shortest possible time, and then turn around to find others.
4, not enough to see.
Every time I see you, I always show the appearance of a child, and I will look at you silly, feeling that I can't see enough. You will also be tempted to have some intimate behavior with you, pinch your face, in short, you will feel that he is very childish and will never mature.
As Zhang Haochen said:
"If a man always makes his girlfriend feel his maturity, this woman may not have entered his heart at all, you know, men are teenagers until death." 」
The more childish a man is in front of you, the more it shows that you have seen his innermost content, and the exposure and performance of this innermost and deepest content is the best love for you by men.
It will even be very childish to spoil you and affirm your cuteness, in fact, these are all performances that especially affirm you in the spiritual world.
5, not perfunctory.
In this world, everyone's degree of intelligence is actually similar, just like when you take advantage of others, you think you are very smart, in fact, the other party is too lazy to calculate, so don't be smart, and in the end it is easy to lose big because of small.
The same is true in the feelings, don't feel that the other party is confused, the heart is clear. Because the feeling in the details is the most real and intuitive, unless the person is willing to deceive himself.
So the man who really loves you will not perfunctory you, but also can always keenly capture all your emotions, and then appear next to you in time when you need it.
In turn, the man who perfunctory you can actually capture your emotions, but if you say it's okay, he won't bother to ask again. It's because he doesn't care at all, or doesn't want to put too much into you, including patience, time, energy, mind, and so on. So since you said it was all right, he didn't want to get himself into trouble.
You see, love or not love is actually obvious, the kind of gentleness, patience and affection that will never be absent will make you have clear feelings and inexplicable certainty. It's like you always believe that whenever, no matter what the situation, when you need it, he won't make excuses.
A man's affection to the depths will make him a super simple, pure, naïve and naïve person, and he can no longer show his mature side.
To have a man who loves you like this, you must cherish it. In a way, since a man can have such pure emotions, then many things, such as honesty, will also have.
Love is a natural attribute of people, but love also needs a lot of things to support, not just a person, can love so seriously, love so deeply.
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