Accustomed to listening to the mother's words, often called a good child, but if a man already has his own marriage, everything is still habitually listening to the mother's words, this kind of man has a unified name: ma bao man. Parents' advice can be listened to, but if they listen to their parents in everything and have no opinions of their own, such men can easily turn themselves into appendages of their parents.
Since two people have formed a family, they must learn to think for each other's empathy, if they only listen to the advice of their parents, but completely ignore the feelings of the other half, then this marriage will not last long.
Chen Shan grew up in a single-parent family, extremely lack of love, while Wang Qiang is gentle and considerate, so that Chen Shan feels love, the two people after half a year of interaction, they decided to enter the marriage.
Chen Shan's family conditions are not very good, so her mother-in-law always thinks that Chen Shan has climbed her own home. Since Chen Shan entered the door, her mother-in-law did not do any housework, and became a hand-throwing treasurer, pushing everything to Chen Shan.
Sometimes, Chen Shan left work late and still needed to clean up the housework. The whole person was almost tired and paralyzed, and he hoped that Wang Qiang could make decisions for himself, but Wang Qiang said timidly, This is my mother's idea, and I have no way.
Every time Chen Shan returned to her mother's house, her mother-in-law would always look through Chen Shan's bag, afraid that Chen Shan would bring her own valuable things back to her mother's house. Chen Shan bought a dress for her mother, but her mother-in-law hated that Chen Shan spent too much money and did not know how to save money. Asking Chen Shan to hand in her salary card, Chen Shan was naturally unhappy, but her mother-in-law said that she would help you save money.
Chen Shan thought that his salary card should not be given to his mother-in-law, so he wanted to find Wang Qiang to theorize, but Wang Qiang said. Mom is not an outsider, she wants to give her, anyway, it is to help us save. However, once the salary card is handed in, Chen Shan needs to ask her mother-in-law for a penny, which will be very inconvenient. Chen Shan said that he would not agree to anything, but Wang Qiang thought that Chen Shan was rebelling against his mother, which was an act of filial piety, and in a fit of anger, he slapped Chen Shan.
Chen Shan is busy at work, and it is late at night when she returns home from work every day. Colleagues in the class were worried that Chen Shan was not safe alone, so they would send her downstairs to the community. I didn't think that my mother-in-law knew about this matter, and she thought that Chen Shan had some unseemly relationship with her colleagues, and told her son about this matter.
Chen Shan thought that Wang Qiang would definitely understand himself and would never listen to his mother-in-law's words, but he did not know that Wang Qiang had already made up a big drama in his heart, and he thought that Chen Shan had put a hat on himself. Without waiting for Chen Shan to explain, he punched and kicked her.
After this incident happened, when Chen Shan saw her mother-in-law and Wang Qiang together, her heart would feel very uncomfortable, she was worried that her mother-in-law would plant stolen goods for herself, and after less than a year of marriage, Chen Shan understood that this mother treasure man was really not saved.
As the head of the family, men must have their own opinions, must not be soft on the ears, listen to the rumors of others, even if their parents are not, must have their own judgment. Only men who are upright can be respected by the people around them and bring happiness to their other half.