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Text/Luo Xiaoke
Starring Gao Yuanyuan, Zhang Luyi, Wang Zhen'er, Wang Yaoqing and others, the urban emotional drama "Perfect Partner" is becoming more and more exciting, which tells the story of two couples who face a balance between career and marriage after marriage.
Wang Zhen'er plays the role of Wu Min, she is a full-time mother who takes care of the family and children, and her life has never been carefree, but her husband Lin Qingkun is the domineering president of the investment banking industry, and the time and energy of usually taking care of the family are not much, and the two get along after marriage.
Although Wu Min is very personable and unpleasant, the identity of "full-time mother" has set off extensive discussion among netizens, and the role is very empathetic, and it is too pretentious to be spat on.
In fact, the daily life with children is not easier and more comfortable than working, and the life of a full-time mother has always been bittersweet and self-aware, requiring the ultimate careful patience and love. It is not easy to take care of three meals a day to experience the cycle of four seasons, and few people can balance the left hand holding the baby and the right hand to move the bricks, but why is a full-time mother like Wu Min not worthy of sympathy?
Remember the beautiful and beautiful heroine Gu Jia of "Thirty Only"? She is also a full-time wife's senior appearance configuration, but she has received all the praise, with the phrase "up to the hall and down to the kitchen" to describe it too appropriately, always coexisting in appearance and ability, is a real show of wisdom in the "independent woman", obviously more pleasing than Wu Min, who is in love with the brain and neurotic!
Female number two Wu Min chose to marry after graduation, usually take care of the family life is very hard and lonely, she is always on the verge of collapse, has always lacked pattern and vision, always when Lin Qingkun is busy with work, deliberately create trouble and find fault for each other.
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In fact, marriage is originally a cooperation and division of labor, some people outside the main will always have someone to the lord inside, the party who makes money does not have an absolute right to speak, and the party who takes care of the family is not sitting on its own success, only using the theory of value to measure is simple and rude.
Husband and wife need to be evenly matched, need to be right in the door, and more need to tolerate and support each other, and it is not enough to rely on one person's cultivation and achievements. Lin Qingkun can run across the workplace because his wife Wu Min is taking care of him and making him worry-free, he does not understand and understand his wife's difficulties, which is the root of the marriage crisis.
And the female elite Chen Shan in the workplace also has her own troubles and worries, the economic level she is the "economic pillar" of the family, but still have to balance between career and family, the economic pressure is far above the full-time mother Wu Min.
Although Wu Min is insecure in her heart, she is at least carefree in terms of economy, never needs to worry about chai rice oil and salt, lives in a spacious and bright mansion, and has free time and financial freedom.
But she felt that she was not happy enough, because her husband Lin Qingkun devoted himself to work, and gave very little emotional feedback and comfort. After repeated arguments, Wu Min filed for divorce, and the two re-examined each other's position in the marital relationship.
In the finale, Wu Min and Lin Qingkun are finally reconciled, they also know more about understanding and respecting each other's difficulties, marriage has always been the practice of two people, not a haven for one person.
If you become a stay-at-home mother because of the reality of the need, you must also try to accept this identity, after all, the mentality determines the fate, happiness is never because of how much money is made, more of a choice. Stay-at-home moms also deserve respect and need to be understood, and you can manage your emotions and manage your future life.
Just as Wu Min later realized Lin Qingkun's responsibility, and Lin Qingkun also understood Wu Min's difficulty, marriage gradually became bitter, in fact, across thousands of mountains and rivers, there is nothing more beautiful and happy than the ordinary life of three meals and four seasons. Happiness is not far away, it may be right in front of your eyes, as long as you can understand how to find the glimmer in the subtleties.
Dear relatives, what do you think of the TV series "Perfect Partner" starring Gao Yuanyuan, Zhang Luyi, Wang Zhen'er, Wang Yaoqing and so on? Welcome to leave a message!
Author: Luo Xiaoke, a mother married to Taiwan, writes everything in Taiwan, obsessed with various film critics and drama reviews. Don't forget your original intention, you have to be consistent.