The article | a slight blue time
The image | from stills from "The Perfect Partner"
The type of emotion | love/family/workplace
I once saw a passage on the Internet that if you are a married woman, you have to take care of your children alone. The husband is almost at home, only providing a mansion and a hundred thousand living expenses that arrive on time every month.
So, can you accept such a married life?
In the comments section, I saw a large number of similar replies. Probably the meaning is that it is completely acceptable to such a husband who does not come home. As long as the monthly living expenses are in place on time, when necessary, she can even serve the little three confinement.
In the recent hit "Perfect Partner", Wu Min is a housewife who is caught in this situation.
She does not have her own career, and the whole focus of her life is around her husband and children. On the days when most of her husbands did not come home, she guarded her son alone and spent countless long nights as cold as water.
Whether it's taking care of your son's food and living, or picking up your son to school. Even when my son was sick and lying pale in his hospital bed. Wu Min also could not wait for her husband Lin Qingkun, but could only wait for his assistant.
It was hard to wait until her husband came home, and she took care of herself beautifully and fragrantly. Turning around, he found that his husband was already snoring like thunder.
In such a marriage relationship, Wu Min is unhappy and melancholy.
Therefore, she did not hesitate to threaten her husband's career, just to let Lin Qingkun go home with her.
In fact, seeing this, there must be a considerable part of the audience that does not understand. After all, who doesn't want a husband like Lin Qingkun?
As far as work is concerned, it is the perfect working partner for professionals
Actively look for solutions to the problem, rather than sit still. Knowing that Chen Shan was the key to the problem that could be solved, he did not sit still and wait for her to change her mind, but took the initiative to attack and take the initiative to find her.
Face the problem instead of shrinking back. Knowing that Chen Shan's husband does not want to see himself, he also has to intervene in the dinner time of others.
Do you mind turning a two-person meal into a three-person meal? Mind, okay, then add a vinegar fish bottle of good wine. As long as there are no security guards to drive people away, then I must complete the work task today.
At the wine table during working hours, in order not to affect work efficiency, with the help of all the props around you, such as towels to wipe your hands, to avoid drunkenness.
High efficiency, according to the clues provided by Chen Shan, a night's time, test reports, public relations releases are out.
Do things rigorously, important conversations that will definitely be recorded. Important information will be backed up before it is handed over to others for reference.
People who do things with integrity will go further. In order to guide the transport company to help him take responsibility, Party A foolishly promised 1% of the shares.
When people came to the door, and thought about playing Lai, Lin Qingkun used Chen Shan's Geng Zhi to confirm this 1% share commitment.
From the perspective of doing things, Chen Shan and Lin Qingkun did the same thing. However, the explanations blurted out by Party A are very different.
Chen Shan's explanation is that this is my job responsibility, and I am not happy with you. Outsiders asked, I just know, I just said so, I am the heroine, how can you drop me.
And Lin Qingkun knows very well that promising such things, especially involving interests, or don't promise, if you want to promise, you have to honor.
Angering each other because of untrustworthiness, the two sides tear up, delaying the timing of Party A's listing, will only lose big because of small. But keep your promise and put the other person in the same trench of interest as you. Well, for the common good, he will only want you to succeed.
But at the same time, the husband with high intelligence also has his advantage, that is, he is not easy to be seduced by green tea.
Other people couldn't do anything to Li Yu, who was stacked with smiling faces. Lin Qingkun can directly tell Li Yu that patients need to recuperate, family members need to calm down, please do not cause unnecessary commotion. Please leave now, or you will bear the consequences.
For the family, it is the husband who provides material security
A husband like Lin Qingkun is simply not too perfect. Work at the beginning of the month and leave at the end of the month. Busy all day long, only work, no time to fall into the world of other flowers, and can take home your salary on time every month.
However, for Wu Min, Lin Qingkun is not a good husband and father who is dutiful and responsible.
Perhaps, someone will play the role of Wu Min, obviously can be a pearlescent and beautiful woman, and must be a deep palace complaining woman.
All kinds of mind husbands do not come home, do not accompany themselves. Hysterical, messing around, forcing her husband into a husband who lies.
Even, the dissatisfaction with the husband is passed on to the young son.
When I was in the hospital, because I was angry with my husband, I directly hung up the video call that the father and son were having. Because he was angry that his husband had deceived himself, and the friend who was angry with his son, he lost his face in front of the child.
The emotions of parents affect children, which is why the optimistic Daughter brought out by Sun Lei is lively and cheerful. And the sensitive and melancholy Wu Min brought out the children, timid and introverted.
In marriage, no one can play all the roles alone
In this marriage relationship, Wu Min and Lin Qingkun are not the perfect partners.
Lin Qingkun insisted that the male protagonist was outside and the female protagonist was inside. It only provides good material conditions for the wife and children, but ignores the emotional needs of the wife and children.
And Wu Min is just living in the role of other people's wives, blindly asking for the tenderness and help that her husband can give to keep warm, and it is difficult to get real life satisfaction.
For Lin Qingkun, he needs to make a trade-off between career and family. Should we give our focus and attention to our wives and children?
As a wife, Wu Min, the care and love from her husband is very important. But with the help of resources at this stage, it is more important to help their own growth and self-worth.
After all, taking ten thousand steps back and giving up this marriage, Lin Qingkun may have other choices. But Wu Min, the time left for her to complain about herself is really not much.