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Feelings are not all perfect, although some will be impregnable, some will be vulnerable. The difference is whether someone in the relationship will redeem it.
But unfortunately, some men, once disconnected, are no longer willing to turn back, while some men will be incomparably nostalgic for the past, and will not be able to let go of the one who was once.
Of course, not all women can get the man's retention after the disconnection, and the woman who can make the man can't put it down and can't forget it naturally has her special features.
One: Live enough to have a charm and make people reminisce for a long time
Things are clustered, people are divided into groups, and a woman with enough charm can attract men's eyes and follow them all the time. A woman who knows how to manage her charm will become a presence that men do not want to lose.
Carnegie's book "Advice for a Woman's Happy Life" says: "The flow of the wind and the vulgar, both related to the feminine charm, but there is a difference: the feminine performance is just right is the flow, and the too feminine is the vulgar.
In short, the wind is a woman's style. A woman without style, maybe a man will be extremely enthusiastic because of freshness at first, but after a long time, he will begin to feel bored.
And a woman with enough style can make men nostalgic when they are together, and after breaking off the connection, they will also let men put down their pride and take the initiative to contact, because he can't let go of you, and he can't do without you.
Therefore, as women, how to manage our charm should be a topic that we should learn all our lives.
But learning to manage your own charm is not to let you learn the ability to seduce men, and it has nothing to do with the so-called "charming man", but to make yourself more excellent in all aspects, so that you can become indispensable in the heart of men, and you will not see the existence of three autumns every day.
Becoming better can make you always occupy an active position in your feelings, and happiness can be better controlled by you.
Two: There is the sobriety and independence of the big woman
Someone online asked: Is it that most men don't like independent women?
The answer listed a bunch of women's independence on men' impacts, which will make men feel unruly, can not stimulate men's desire to protect, women's independence will make men insecure...
These answers should not be much different from what men think, but the difference is that if you are in a relationship or a husband and wife relationship, they really don't want you to be too independent.
Because of your independence, you will make them feel that they are not needed, and over time they will feel frustrated.
But the contradiction of a man is often that while he hopes that his own women are dependent on him, he will appreciate those women who are sober and independent in his heart.
What's even more incomprehensible is that when you do become independent, he may blame you for changing and feeling that you don't need him anymore, which is not a good thing.
This is where men contradict themselves.
In fact, in their hearts, when the connection is broken, the women who can make them unable to let go are often those who are sober and independent, not those who cannot live without men.
In the TV series "Perfect Partner", wu Min has changed her original crying appearance since divorcing Lin Qingkun, carrying a belief in her heart that she must prove her own value, and living soberly and independently. After she stopped looking for Lin Qingkun, Lin Qingkun was unusual, and from time to time took the initiative to appear to solve problems for her.
In fact, Lin Qingkun represents the psychology of most men. When you are together, I hope that you are a small woman, but after separation, only you who grow into a big woman can make him remember.
I have heard a saying: the best state of a woman is that there is both the affection of a small woman and the independence of a big woman.
Deeply.
A woman who is affectionate is like a treasure in a man's heart, and every time he meets, he can dig up some different surprises. And independent women are the most admirable in a man's heart, and every confrontation between you can make him feel the pain of dancing with wolves.
In the man's heart, these two kinds of women are also the most difficult to put down, no matter how many difficulties he endures, he will always be willing to guard the love between you, even if there will be points and unions in the journey, but the end will always be to hold hands, which is enough.
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