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Text/Luo Xiaoke
The urban emotional drama "Perfect Partner", starring Gao Yuanyuan, Zhang Luyi, Wang Zhen'er, Wang Yaoqing, etc., is currently being broadcast, which tells the dilemma and compromise of two couples who face career and family balance after marriage.
Zhang Luyi, who once played the role of Qin Shi Huang in "Great Qin Fu", this time he incarnated as "housewife and man" Sun Lei, who has an honest and generous personality, a gentle temper and patience.
His wife, Chen Shan, is a female elite in the workplace, who usually devotes herself to her work, while he takes on the trivial and child-rearing burdens of the family.
It is said that marrying someone should marry a good man like Sun Lei, but is Sun Lei really a good husband? Although he is willing to help his wife share the housework, he lacks a pattern in his humble heart. A housewife and man like him seems to be reliable, but this trait is the fatal weakness in marriage!
The essence of love is attraction, and the essence of marriage is cooperation, and both parties need to provide the corresponding value stably, so that the relationship will be long-lasting and achieve a proper balance.
Compared with the domineering president Lin Qingkun, Sun Lei is indeed more delicate, but he lacks self-motivation and pattern, and enjoys the invisible benefits of marriage, but he is far away from the two words "perfect"!
Jumping learning and training classes, every day is Sun Lei's own efforts, Chen Shan can let go to do the work she likes, but is this really because of the other party's fulfillment and dedication? If the money Chen Shan earns cannot support the family's economy, where should Sun Lei go?
Therefore, Sun Lei's efforts for the family are based on the premise that the value of his own creation is relatively low, rather than from the heart of tolerance and consideration.
Many times, whether the other party is a stay-at-home mother or a housewife and man, the value of their role lies in the division of labor and cooperation of the family, rather than the group that is in a humble position with the palm up.
Dreams are very beautiful dreams, but the reality is particularly cruel and cold, rich people can drink enough water, poor couples but Pepsi mourn, every day to deal with chai rice oil and salt, every day to work hard to make money to make a living, this is the most heartfelt point of marriage!
In the classic novel "Six Memories of Fusheng", the married life of Yunniang and Shen Fu is very poetic and beautiful, comparable to the romance of a fairy couple, and they also know how to use the lowest cost to create the poetry and thickness of the day. But in the end, Yunniang died of illness, and Shen Fu was still embarrassed and poor, and the two were very good at "living a life", but they were not pragmatic and reliable!
Yang Lan once said that a person's growth is more important than success, you are lazy in the marriage relationship, sooner or later you have to pay it back, no one can lie down and enjoy the fruit all their lives.
Even if the money Sun Lei earns cannot be compared with Chen Shan, his pattern is relatively narrow and selfish, ostensibly paying for this small family, but in fact it is to cover up his incompetence.
A good man can fully support his wife's dream and fulfill the realization of her personal value, rather than becoming a drag and burden on the other party.
The weak are good at showing weakness, the strong are generally strong, this is the most real part of human nature, the reality is that your ability to make money is your bottom in marriage.
Both men and women, in fact, must strive to improve their own pattern, the pattern is opened, the horizon is naturally high and vast, a glory and a loss is the true meaning of marriage!
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Author: Luo Xiaoke, a mother married to Taiwan, writes everything in Taiwan, obsessed with various film critics and drama reviews. Don't forget your original intention, you have to be consistent.