The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth remains in the heart
In a relationship, we always like to hear sweet words from the other half, and for the other half's accusations and harshness, we will find ten thousand reasons to refute.
However, there is a cruel truth, in love, the person who often says sweet words to you is not seen is the person who is liking you and wants to live with you, he just cares about the relationship with you at this stage, flattering and flattering to you, so that you will trust him more and more, without reservation.
However, the partner who can correct your shortcomings in love and persuade you to change your bad habits in time, they are doing their best to make long-term plans, for a better life in the future, and will do their best to make you a perfect person.
Whether you are right or wrong, whether you love you or not, is clear at a glance.
In fact, true love has traces to follow, in addition, if you have experienced these things together, then it means that you two are true love.
1. Overcome difficulties together and have not been separated
Although there is a saying that husband and wife are originally birds of the same forest, they fly separately when the great trouble comes.
For those couples who fly separately, they have never been true love, and when they encounter difficulties, they are still inseparable from each other and can hold together to make a fire, for them, the other party is the most precious wealth in their lives.
For couples, this is also the case, only after experiencing many ups and downs, still regard the other party as their most solid dependence, no matter what, they have not given up, this love is the true meaning of love.
The feelings between lovers will be sublimated with experience, from the beginning of the like to love, and then from love to dependence, and finally to both sides who can not be separated from whom.
Therefore, after experiencing many difficulties, couples who have not been separated are the real love between them.
2. Experience the trivialities of life together
In fact, in a marriage, where there are so many wind and snow nights, it is more of an inexhaustible housework and the trivialities of daily life.
Don't underestimate these, how many marriages and families have failed in this day-to-day, countless daily trifles, and how many couples who have been unswerving and vowed to grow old with white heads have finally turned against each other because of these, and eventually become passers-by.
Only after going through the big and small things in life, the taste of personal experience, will tell yourself whether the other party is really the person who is really suitable for himself.
If a couple has suffered from the trivialities of life but still regards each other as their lifelong partners, this kind of love is the true meaning of love.
3. Have seen each other's parents together
If the couple has met the experience of both parents, then it means that this love has laid a solid foundation.
Although in today's era, the freedom of love has been deeply rooted in people's hearts, but it is only limited to love, if the two are ready to spend a lifetime together, then meeting each other's parents has become an indispensable part.
No matter how strong the relationship between the couple is, or how we will never be separated, but the lack of parental recognition also lacks the greatest security.
Therefore, after having the experience of meeting both parents together, when two people encounter conflicts, they will not mention breaking up without moving, at least they will have some concerns.
Moreover, since you have decided to meet your parents, it means that you are ready to spend your life with each other, this is not true love, what will it be?
Conclusion: True love is extremely strong and difficult to be affected by external factors, and only after two people have experienced these three things will their feelings for each other be sublimated, called true love.