In modern society, "leftover women" has become a common phenomenon, such women are not rejecting marriage or fearing marriage, but because they have not met the right person, or because of the pressure of their own life and work, there is no time to consider marriage. Leftover women are not undesirable, but leftover women who have not been in love, and men must be cautious about marrying.
It is not terrible that a woman has not been in love in the past, it is terrible that she has not tasted love after the age of marriage, and such a woman either has special requirements for love in her heart, or has a special hobby in her physiology.
Although "leftover women" are also called "holy women", if a woman has never been in love, then she will be more demanding on men in all aspects, and the following story may make us realize the special points of this kind of woman.
Li Ling is 38 years old this year, she is also a real "leftover girl", in the past when others were crazy for love, she was working hard for her studies and work. At that time, she rejected the pursuit of all men, and when she started to want to fall in love with her career, she found that the excellent men around her had already become other people's husbands.
Her first requirement for the marriage partner who has not been in love is that she has not been in love like herself, although her friends have introduced several blind dates, but when it comes to these, it will be very disappointing to her. In this way, she met no less than ten men before she turned 38, but none of them met his requirements.
All the men I met on blind dates were either physically unsatisfactory or financially and mentally up to her taste, so she is still single at the age of 38.
Through Li Ling's story, we can know that those leftover women who have never been in love, once they want to fall in love and get married, they will have various harsh requirements for themselves and others. And when any man faces such a woman, if he wants to marry her home, he must have a hundred times stronger advantages than ordinary people. Because such women often have the following three characteristics, many ordinary men can not do, to meet their requirements.
One: such a woman will be very emotional, care about you, you must be dedicated and serious
For any leftover woman who has not been in love, she will not choose to settle on the road of her feelings, but will pay more attention to each other's feelings and care more about men's love for themselves. After all, such a woman will give her all when she identifies a man, and there will be various harsh requirements when choosing a man.
And the most important point is that men will pay more attention to men's feelings for themselves, because they will give everything, so they must require men to be dedicated to themselves. In the process of falling in love, once they find that men have any intention of being unfaithful to themselves, they will decisively refuse. And in marriage, if the man can't do it and always centers on her, then the marriage between them will not be happy.
Therefore, before marrying such a woman, the first question to consider is whether you can bear such affection, if you can't do it, don't easily provoke each other.
Two: such a woman, who has no experience in love, may not "flirt"
Any leftover woman, if she has not been in love, the man will feel that he lacks some passion and interest when he pursues her. Maybe do not understand romance, is the most direct performance of this kind of woman, in the process of getting along with this kind of woman, men must be the most sincere, a joke of yours, may hurt each other's feelings, such a woman is not to understand what "flirting" means.
In the process of getting along with this kind of woman, men must be able to keep loneliness and endure loneliness, after all, such a woman cannot give you the enthusiasm and stimulation that love should have. She will take every word of your life to heart, even if it is a joke, she will take it seriously. If you don't want your love and marriage to lack passion and fun, then don't bother such a woman easily.
Three: Such a woman, very pursuit of life, is not generally able to control
In our lives, the reason why there are such leftover women who have not been in love is likely to show that this kind of woman has her own pursuit, whether financially or spiritually, they have their own ideals and ambitions. In life, it will not depend on any man, to put it simply, this kind of woman is what we often call a strong woman.
What strong women mean to a man can be imagined, and it is not easy to control them. Therefore, when a man chooses such a woman as the marriage partner, he needs to consider whether he can achieve the same aura as such a woman and still be able to enter her eyes.
Although "leftover women" will not make all men respect and stay away, for those leftover women who have not been in love, as a man, you should consider it carefully. In particular, consider whether you can accept this kind of woman to behave in these three ways, do not let your efforts become a futile effort, and do not let love become a kind of harm to each other.