The marriage market is now polarized, with women in cities far more suitable for women than men who are in a position to marry, and fewer of them meet their mate selection requirements.
Therefore, the problem of leftover women in many big cities is very serious, they want to find a partner, but they can't find a suitable object, and they are not willing to lower their mate selection standards.
Some people say that now more men and fewer women do not worry about marrying, if there is no requirement, it is true that women do not worry about marriage, but many women not only have requirements, but also the requirements are not low.
Therefore, women are not worried about marriage, which is simply a lie, they ignore the requirements of the first half, and only remember that the second half of women are not worried about marriage.
Compared with the problem of leftover women in the city, rural women are a different state of life, such as the short videos of rural blind dates that we often see.
A girl said that she wanted to go on a blind date, the boys in the nearby ten miles and eight villages, and even the boys in the county town would drive to the blind date, and it was not the kind of deep understanding, or everyone met and chatted casually, and there was no difference between hr recruitment and employees.
In the countryside, not only women who marry for the first time, women who marry for the second time are more popular, even if they have children, there are many men rushing to get it, including some men who are married for the first time, why is this so?
For example, the video that is quite controversial among netizens, a man ran far away to go on a blind date, and as a result, he waited outside for half a day, and even the woman did not see the ground, only to hear the people around him say that he looked very white.
There is a serious imbalance between men and women in rural areas
At present, there are very few people who cultivate land in the countryside, and many families and children go out to work, after all, the income of part-time work is much higher than the income of farming.
As soon as young people graduate, they basically go to the city to work, and men have the pressure to start a family, the pressure to buy a house, and the pressure to support their parents.
If they can't get ahead in the big city, they will generally choose to retreat to other small cities, or simply return to their hometown to find another way.
Generally 3 to 5 years, the longer one may be seven or eight years, basically can understand whether they can settle in a city, if not, then men will basically choose to leave the city.
But women are different, although now many women have also bought their own houses, but they do not have the pressure to buy a house, and the countryside generally requires boys to support their parents, and girls do not ask girls to support their parents after marrying out.
Therefore, as long as girls can earn money to support themselves, they can always stay in the big city, the men who can't go down go back, and the women who can't go down and can't mix up stay in the big city and gradually become the "nail households" in the big city.
In fact, many of them have a fluke mentality, in case they meet a man with good conditions in the city one day, their waiting for so many years before is worth it.
But the reality is that over time, this possibility becomes increasingly negligible.
Women generally do not come back when they go out, men can't mix outside and will return to their rural hometowns, originally many rural areas are more men and less women, and now the gap is even greater.
Since the marriage market is a market, then follow the rules of the market, in the case of more men and fewer women, and in the case of many more men than women, women are naturally very popular.
Moreover, the standard of mate selection for men in rural areas is relatively low, and many people's requirements for marriage partners are a woman, so even divorced women are very popular.
And the second-married woman has experienced a marriage and is hurt by feelings, this kind of person often cherishes the marriage more, plus knows how to please men.
This is not to say that it is a second marriage, even if it is 3 marriages and 4 marriages, there are many people rushing to get it, and now many people in the countryside are also open-minded, and they do not ask for any inheritance, as long as there is a person as a companion.
In the final analysis, the popularity of rural women is still the dividend of more men and fewer women.
In the past, many people preferred sons to daughters, and must have a boy, which is now that many people's concepts have changed, they think that girls are also very good, and I believe that in more than ten years, it will be easy for men to find objects.