Scholars have done relevant surveys, the reality is very tragic, most of the leftover women have nothing but a handful of age. Judging from the experiment of male a female b, leftover women, except for those women who insist on celibacy and resolutely do not marry no matter what the conditions of the other party, the others are all failed products in competing with women of the same class or lower class for the resources of men of the same class or upper class, which is the essence of leftover women. Therefore, the so-called women who want to marry can marry is a false proposition, and the leftover women who often see them say that they have not married out and have not met the right person, but the essence is that the class they want to marry has no one to ask them.
Don't belittle the leftover women, why don't you say that the leftover men are failures and defective products that no one wants. The reality is not so absolute, many non-celibacy women are not married, because they have not met their favorite, not without the conditions to match the opposite sex choice, many of them do not think about finding a good condition, but pay more attention to the spiritual fit. There is also a part of the fear of marriage, the heart can not pass the level, as the age slowly do not plan to get married or passive treatment of feelings, some people conditions are very good, in this process is conditional and her equivalent or better than her men are willing to approach them, but they do not want to start. I really think that the leftover women are all no one wants, don't take it for granted!
Why would rural women rather rent and live in the old and broken than get married? Because she sees more in the countryside, women have to accept unequal treatment from birth, are bullied in their husband's family, and are treated as money-losing goods in their mother's home, so she would rather be alone in the city than get married, because they know very well in their hearts that marrying men in first-tier cities > marrying foreign men who have houses in first-tier cities> foreign men who rent houses in first-tier cities > return to their hometowns to marry. The first two are a small part, and many women will prefer to be single if they can't find it.
It is not to say how the leftover women are, from the perspective of society, the social responsibility of men bear more, like some dangerous work is basically male, firefighters, soldiers, police, and running in the field, infrastructure workers are basically men, if there are no these people, women can have these good lives? Women or marriage and children are better, women are basically from is a relatively easy job, don't tell me that the times have changed, now are the era of science and technology, and then high-tech, but also need people to maintain, if people do not maintain the construction of high-tech, the brain is smart, no one to build, there is no use.
Ladies who really want to get married must be early, don't be fooled! Very simple truth, leftover women are excellent or not, regardless of whether the leftover women are excellent or not, the leftover men are basically the inferior products in your mouth that are picked by people, then you are not in your 20s and do you choose high-quality men among the men of the right age who have not been picked, do you want to pick from the leftover men in your 30s? Or do you think quality men have oedipal complexes like to be older than their teens? The marriage market is like a wet market, the fresh and delicious dishes in the morning are at your disposal, the afternoon to buy are picked by others, if you go again in the evening, it is all rotten vegetables and leaves.
Marriage is not a home and a car as the first condition for marriage, nor is it a reason to be single. At the end of the day, I still haven't met the right person. The object of marriage is that the male has the ability to bear 70 per cent of the household expenses, and the female has the ability to bear 40-50 per cent of the household expenses without the need for children. Women should not think that men have enough ability to support the family and stay at home. No one knows when the accident will come, if the man gets sick one day, the whole family will lose its financial resources! Husbands and wives must be able to support each other and love each other. The concept of marriage has changed now. Men feel that they have suffered losses, and women also feel that they have suffered losses. No one is willing to give more. If marriage can also be clearly distinguished who earns and who loses, it is not marriage, then the business is bought and sold.
The leftover women around them all look too high, 30 or more, mediocre appearance, ordinary education, income just over 10,000, let people introduce friends, a question request, are to have a residential car career has a successful age do not worse than 5 years old, height hope not to be lower than the height of her high heels, it is best not to wear glasses. That's sorry, there are 35 or so men who have a house and a car career, and the ideal type is a college student who has just graduated and has a good family. Then the surrounding leftover men look too low on themselves, there are a lot of local leftover men around, more than 30 years old, a lot of configurations are in downtown Shanghai has a small house, no car, the national unit is stable but the income is not high but also very stable, these men think that they may not be able to marry a wife in this life, saying that now the little girl requirements are quite high They have no hope.
Women without houses and cars are more demanding to find objects, otherwise after marriage, both parties have no houses and no cars, they can't afford to hire a nanny when they have children, and they can't afford to go to training classes. They may not care about the appearance of the man, but they must have good economic conditions, a house and a car, and a good family condition, so it is more difficult to find a partner. On the contrary, the standards for rich women in the family to find a partner are not necessarily high, they themselves are not short of money, lack of love, lack of spiritual partners, as long as handsome, funny, good character, can coax her to be happy, even if the man's income is average, they may also accept.
Marriage is not necessarily happy, a person may not be able to be dashing, a person whether married or not married, the troubles that should come sooner or later will come, it is not important to marry or not, the key is that they like it, everyone has the right to choose, good or bad who can say clearly? As long as there is no regret in the future, do not complain about their own choices, many people feel that their lives are not good after marriage and the whole world complains, there are also many people who are lonely and lonely because of their own singleness, it is really not necessary, it is not easy to live, a little more understanding, a little less hostility, you will live very easily