In the current rural areas, there are more and more elderly leftover men, some are obviously a table of talents but still can't find an object, some are obviously rich but still single, is they high vision or simply can't find it? I don't know where to start with this question. At present, the imbalance between men and women in society is serious, and a large number of young people of the right age in rural areas cannot marry their daughters-in-law, so why are there so many elderly leftover men in rural areas?
1. Sky-high bride price
Now in many rural places, the bride price has been fried to hundreds of thousands or even hundreds of thousands, which for an ordinary rural family can not afford to marry ah, but you do not marry and others want to marry it, so those families who can not afford to pay the sky-high bride price can only watch the children getting older and older, but still can not ask the daughter-in-law, not their own choice, but the price is too expensive, really can not afford to marry.
2. The imbalance between men and women
The concept of excessive child-rearing and anti-aging has made aborted girls and baby-keeping boys the main theme of the countryside, which eventually led to a serious imbalance in the proportion of men and women in the countryside, and now, rural girls have reached a very "sought-after" degree.
The woman is becoming more and more powerful, the main body of divorce is feminine, the second marriage and the third marriage of the woman do not worry about marriage, and the woman who spends a lot of money to marry home is generally provided by the in-laws. There are more men and fewer women, resulting in women's increasingly high requirements for the man's family conditions, and men with slightly inferior abilities and poor family conditions can easily beat the bare stick.
3, the income is not high and unstable
For farmers, once they have a family, it is basically the woman's home, the man goes out to work or farm at home, and the whole family has to support themselves. However, whether it is going out to work, or farming at home, income is a relatively big problem, if you farm at home, the income is very low, although the income of going out to work is relatively high, but it is also very unstable, most people from the countryside have no skills, can only rely on selling strength to earn money, plus there is a little thing to go home, the cost of round-trip travel is also very large.
All in all, the economic pressure on single young people in rural areas is very large, and they do not have hundreds of thousands of savings, and they dare not mention marriage at all.
I sincerely wish that the leftover men will find their other half as soon as possible, and they will grow old with white heads.