I will miss you and remember to follow me at the top
Author: Seven Seven
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After reading such a sentence, the so-called "soul mate" is like a pair created in heaven and earth, a love fate specially created for ourselves in the dark, this person just appears in our lives, which will make us feel that we are a very good person, and we also willingly choose to protect the ta wholeheartedly, from the heart to protect the ta, this feeling of mutual attraction, probably is the true sense of the soul mate fit.
Yes, I think so, in fact, in real life, including me, many people's hearts are very eager to meet their soul mate in this life, the kind of feelings that can be snuggled up to each other, and the hearts can communicate and rely on each other, which is the love that really makes everyone envious.
And in the process of intersex intercourse, in addition to the initial role of the love hormone impulse is to make the two of you want to know and understand each other, once the two people have been together for a long time, only people with similar souls and spiritual frequencies can soothe the wounds in their hearts.
However, we all know that true love is hard to find, people like this who can be each other's soul mates are even more unattainable, and even some people, even if they exhaust their lives, may not be able to have the opportunity to meet them, so to be able to meet the following 3 conditions, to be able to find people who give you these 3 feelings, are quite lucky, meet to cherish ah!
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The two of you can see each other's strengths and appreciate each other;
Backstage once had a fan friend named Miss Zhao sent me a private message saying that I used to believe in love at first sight, and at that time I always felt that I couldn't see it at first glance, and I didn't like people, I'm afraid it would be difficult to like it in the future, which is probably what many people often say about "life and death at a glance".
However, as you get older and more mature, you will slowly understand a truth, in fact, a person's inner life is more important than the appearance, after all, a relationship wants to be long-lasting, in the end, it still needs to communicate between two people's hearts and hearts.
Indeed, there may be many people in the relationship who are initially attracted to the person's appearance, but with the in-depth interaction and contact between the two people, they will naturally be attracted to the person's inner or be fascinated by the unique personality charm of the person. No wonder it is said that the feelings between men and women begin with the five senses, trapped in the three views, loyal to the interesting soul, in the end, only two people can see each other's advantages, mutual appreciation can make your relationship go on for a long time.
As the poet Wu Guijun wrote in "Like a Person": "Liking a person begins with appearance, falling into talent, loyalty to character, obsession with the flesh, fascination with sound, and drunkenness by affection."
No matter what other people think, or what the outside world thinks, the two of you are still the most compatible and perfect partner in each other's eyes, women know how to sympathize with men's hard work outside, will gently care about men, and men also know how to find women's advantages, know the difficulty behind considerate women.
Even if women do not trim their edges because of their family care, and because of the birth of children, they lead to out-of-shape, but men understand the pain and understand all the difficulties of women, and feel that women are still the gentle and beautiful appearance they fell in love with.
No matter how long you have been together, the two can still see each other's advantages, the shining points in their bodies, know how to understand each other, appreciate each other, such feelings are the most precious and warm. No matter how many faults and shortcomings you have in the eyes of others, they are the only treasures in your hearts between you and each other.
Because he understands you, can understand you, and knows all the good in you. As Xu Shidong of the Qing Dynasty said in the "Notes on Yanyu Lou": Life is enough to know oneself, and Si Shi should regard it with the same heart. Also good. Life in the world, as long as you can find a confidant is enough, this life I will treat him as myself, this is probably the feeling that love should have for people, but also the most beautiful look of love.
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He can see through all your worries and grievances at a glance;
Know a girl Zhang Ke, once liked such a man, two or three years older than her, the two people were shocked by each other when they first met, as if they were struggling to find out for so many years in the world, and suddenly appeared in front of them to meet all their requirements for the other half and meet their ideal lover.
Zhang Ke's original words are that when you see each other for the first time, you feel that this person is so familiar in your heart, as if you and ta have known each other for a long time, the other party understands himself so well, two people can always talk to the same place, the other party can also accurately understand all their moods and feelings, even if there is only a small look, the other party can be very keen to find their own body is different, you can feel your deliberately hidden heart, you can penetrate your own heart, understand what you did not say.
Even if Zhang Ke and the man do not meet often, nor do they chat often, no matter how long the time has passed, it will not affect the feelings of the two people, and they do not feel any strangeness between each other, and each time they can always accurately understand the meaning that Ke'er wants to express, saying that the views that Ke'er wants to convey, the two people are so in tune, the soul is so compatible, and even when every chat is about to end, each other is very attached to each other, and they are still unfinished.
Zhang Ke also said that the other party can always easily see through their own hearts, see through the vulnerability and loneliness hidden in their hearts, but also know how to respect themselves, protect their self-esteem, know that all their persistence is derived from pride, in the eyes of men Zhang is not that character of the wind and fire, looks like a stupid girl with no heart and no lungs, but a superficially strong but fragile, but also easy to be hurt "Ke'er", until now only that man has called Zhang Ke "Ke'er", which is exclusive to Ta's nickname for Zhang Ke.
Although zhang ke and the man have never really been together because of worldly reasons and because of all kinds of helplessness, in Zhang Ke's heart, it seems that he has lost a hundred times, a thousand times, or even ten thousand times, that is, the feeling of true love.
After all, the so-called soul mate, even if the two people are not together, but they can still give themselves a little warmth and strength when they encounter setbacks or difficulties, they can constantly encourage and motivate themselves in their hearts, and there is such a person in the distance who understands themselves so well and appreciates all their unknown beauty, which is also a good comfort.
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Two people are very relaxed together and feel that the world is yours;
Maybe in this world, in addition to your parents, brothers and sisters, girlfriends and friends, you only dare to really show your truest appearance in front of that person, only when you stay with each other is your state is the most comfortable and relaxed, in front of that person you can not wear a social mask, the other party can also remove all the disguises on the body, two people can return to the most original and simple appearance.
Even if you don't do anything particularly vigorous, don't say anything, just hold hands together, hug each other, kiss each other very usually, you will feel special warmth, very beautiful! As the poem "Before the Door" describes, "The grass is bearing its seeds, the wind is shaking its leaves, and we, standing without speaking, are very beautiful..."
That is to say, in the relationship, when you meet your own right person and meet your soul mate, it feels like a dry traveler walking in the desert has met a bend of clear spring water, you are destined to be born with a special tacit understanding, and each other is a soul fit.
Obviously, the two talents have just met, but the tacit understanding is as if they have known each other for many years, as if you have met in your past life, not only is it effortless to talk and chat, but also as long as there is a look in the eyes between the two people, they can know what is going on in each other's hearts, there is no need to say much, you can understand and accurately get what the other person wants to express, this is the beautiful moment when men and women really have a sharp heart between each other.
Xu Zhimo once said: "I will visit my only partner in the vast sea of people; I am fortunate to have it; no, I am destined." ”
So, if you also meet someone like the one mentioned above, and you have these three same feelings with each other, then there is no doubt that two people are soul mates to each other.
If you are lucky enough to meet such a person, then you must cherish each other well, and believe that you will have a happy ending. Knowing that soul mates are not always available, not everyone can be so lucky.
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