Discuss: In addition to the relationship between the opposite sex, will there be a relationship of confidant and friend? One thing is certain, there are indeed confidants and friends between the opposite sex besides husband and wife, which cannot be denied.
In theory, it is only the companionship of the spirit and the soul, and there is also a feeling and love between the confidants of the opposite sex, but both confidants of the opposite sex must understand that all feelings and love must be limited to the spirit, and must not enter each other's living space, let alone interfere in each other's family life.
What is a confidant of the opposite sex? What is the scope of the two confidants? Confidant is not a husband and wife, not a lover, confidants and two parties are easier to get along with than husband and wife, because there is no entanglement of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, confidant is easier to integrate than lover's feelings, because there is no material and interest entangled, so it is not easy to be fortunate to meet.
There are very few real friends of the opposite sex, and it is too unrealistic. Especially in the case of men and women of similar ages, except between husband and wife and brother and sister, it is impossible to have friends of the opposite sex who are truly confidants, and it is pure friendship.
In this regard, we must first understand a truth, the friendship relationship between the opposite sex is a certain distance, and it is impossible to become a confidant friend who talks about everything and does not have any estrangement. This situation should not have existed in the first place, and there can be no true confidants of the opposite sex. The ancients said well that men and women are not intimate, which is not an absolute feudal ideology, which contains profound philosophies.
In real life, in addition to the relationship between the opposite sex, there will definitely be a relationship of confidant and friend! There are many factors that form this kind of cordial and pure red-blue confidant relationship, but most of them are the kind of special friendships formed in the daily work for the common cause!
The male and female policemen who handle cases together, the kind of love that suffers and shares, life and death, and rely on each other, that love, who dares to say that this kind of red and blue confidant relationship is not pure? There are also workshop workers who get along day and night, inseparable workplace tablemates, long-term love, it is easy to form a confidant and friend relationship between the opposite sex in addition to the relationship between husband and wife!
Real life rush. It is difficult for men and women to meet each other. But it does not negate the absence of existence. There are many points of consensus at the level of thinking, in terms of ideological concepts, hobbies and other aspects. It is easy to produce confidants. Communication between each other is more of a discussion. Even if it involves emotional issues. It is also a rational treatment. Tacitly agree with each other. When alone, there is a magnetic field that draws in each other's thoughts. Completely immersed in sweet thoughts. Occasionally send a question to a few simple chats. That's enough. The pattern is high with each other. High taste. The realm is high. Will not indulge in confidants and lovers. Sensibility and rationality are very well controlled.