Ge Meixia and Anjie are not from good backgrounds, a big lady of a capitalist, the daughter of a fisherman.
They used to be primary school teachers on the island.
They used to drink coffee and chat in the courtyard.
In their later years, they lived together in a military compound.
Since Jiang Yafei married Wang Haiyang, Ge Meixia and Anjie eventually became relatives.
Thinking of that year, An Xin once advised An Jie to stay away from Ge Meixia. But the reason is that Ge Meixia's origin is not good, afraid of having an impact on Jiang Defu.
For this reason, Anjie and Anxin also had a big fight.
Why did two people with similar experiences end up not becoming true close friends, but have been maintaining the friendship of "plastic sister flowers"?
The reason for this is not because of Ge Meixia's external conditions, but because Anjie does not look at her character at all.
Ge Meixia approached Anjie for a purpose.
First:
Ge Meixia first met Anjie at the well, because Anjie wore a "strange costume" to fetch water, which caused the children to laugh.
Ge Meixia, who appeared at this time, not only helped Anjie drive away the coaxing child, but also helped Anjie to draw water out of the well.
At that time, Anjie's difference, Ge Meixia saw it in her eyes and remembered it in her heart.
Anjie's dress, Ge Meixia likes; Anjie is ostracized and ridiculed, Ge Meixia has experienced.
Therefore, Ge Meixia simply wanted to help Anjie.
This is the fate between people, and it is mostly beautiful in the beginning.
acquaintance:
The two really met at school, and Ge Meixia directly praised Anjie for having a "femininity", a different femininity.
This kind of praise, Anjie is very useful.
Unlike the cynicism of her neighbors, or the discussion behind her back, Ge Meixia's praise comes from sincere envy.
This time, Ge Meixia deliberately approached Anjie because she was Commander Jiang's wife.
Ge Meixia, the daughter of a fisherman, can have a military family member as a friend, which is beneficial to herself and harmless.
Therefore, Ge Meixia showed kindness to Anjie at school.
Later, Ge Meixia has also been carefully clinging to Anjie, which can be understood from the details of Ge Meixia's fish delivery.
The fish must be freshly caught before it is given to Anjie. That's what Ge Meixia thinks and does.
Moreover, for her own careful thinking, Ge Meixia generously admitted it, and Anjie also gladly accepted it.
Making friends can be for mutual need.
Ge Meixia wants to make Anjie a friend, because of her identity, because of her upbringing, and because she can show herself different life situations.
Therefore, Ge Meixia needs Anjie as a friend.
Ge Meixia can talk to Anjie about life outside of chai rice oil and salt, and can enjoy coffee together in a leisurely afternoon.
Therefore, Anjie also needs Ge Meixia as a friend.
Therefore, even if Ge Meixia approached Anjie, she already had a bit of selfish calculation in her heart, but it did not affect the friendship between the two, and Anjie did not mind.
Things are clustered in groups, and people are grouped.
As long as the two are comfortable with each other, it is the most important premise for becoming friends.
Ge Meixia has hidden and deceived Anjie.
First, talk to Lao Ding about friends.
The news that Ge Meixia and Lao Ding talked about friends was told to Anjie by Jiang Defu.
For this, Anjie was very angry. For the sake of Jiang Dehua's infatuation, for the sake of Lao Ding's treachery, but also for Ge Meixia's concealment.
Therefore, Jiang Defu gave the reason that "because Jiang Dehua is your sister-in-law, Teacher Ge is embarrassed", and this reason Anjie voluntarily accepted.
Second, use Anjie and Jiang Defu to complete their marriage.
After Ge Meixia and Wang Zhenbiao secretly interacted, in order to make their marriage logical.
Wang Zhenbiao then directed a scene in which Jiang Defu and AnJie were matchmakers.
As a result, just a few words made Anjie see the fact that Ge Meixia had already colluded with Wang Zhenbiao.
As a result, this time, Anjie's demeaning of Ge Meixia was not only in character.
Because, in Anjie's view, Ge Meixia's IQ is not on the same level as her.
If you say, Ge Meixia's above behavior is something that Anjie can tolerate.
The fact that Ge Meixia brought Teacher Xia to Anjie's house was the most disdainful of Anjie.
In the process of getting along between the two, Teacher Ge has no bottom line.
Ge Meixia knew that Teacher Xia's portrait of Anjie had already made rumors spread on the island.
However, because Ge Meixia had a good feeling for Teacher Xia, she specially invited Teacher Xia to Anjie's house for coffee.
By doing so, Anjie was very unhappy.
Therefore, when Teacher Xia talked about the source of the coffee, Anjie's expression was dismissive, and Ge Meixia's expression was envious.
In the end, it was Jiang Defu who was angry and directly drove Teacher Xia out of the island, only to stop the harm of gossip to Anjie.
And Ge Meixia, as Anjie's friend, does not consider the reputation of the other party, which is really difficult to identify.
Sima Qian:
The hustle and bustle of the world is all profit, and the world is all profitable.
There can be needs between friends, and this need can also be mixed with such interests. But don't trample on each other's dignity and invade each other's lives, this is the bottom line.
Similar experiences make them friends, and the gap in thinking ability makes them drift apart.
The fates of Ge Meixia and Anjie are very similar, but they are very different. As a result, they have a gap in their thinking power.
Ge Meixia has been ostracized on the island, and even at the height of the struggle, She meixia once went from being a teacher to a worker who picks up dung.
Therefore, Ge Meixia has been carefully maintaining her relationship with the people around her, looking for a ladder that can help her change her destiny.
On the other hand, Anjie, because of the protection of Jiang Defu, has been embracing the world with joy and joy, waiting for a true friendship.
It can be said that the relationship between Anjie and Ge Meixia was unequal from the beginning, and it was impossible to last.
Therefore, Ge Meixia eventually attracted Wang Zhenbiao, who was also calculating and selfish, and the two of them were very happy.
Because, Wang Zhenbiao and Ge Meixia both feel that if they calculate first, and their feelings are secondary, they can get happiness.
Therefore, later, when Wang Haiyang and Jiang Yafei began to fall in love to receive the certificate, Ge Meixia and Wang Zhenbiao actively ignored the feelings of Anjie and Jiang Defu, and only finally informed the two.
Anjie used his life's experience to live with his heart and find beauty.
So, when I returned to the island again, Anjie was happy, and even more happy.
Ge Meixia used half a life's experience to break through the confinement and change her life.
Therefore, when she returned to the island again, Ge Meixia was lost and stubborn.
Different situations have created different personalities, produced different thinking abilities, and achieved different lives.
Therefore, the superficial relationship between Ge Meixia and Anjie is getting closer and closer, and they have become relatives, but the relationship in their hearts is getting farther and farther away, and it is not surprising that they cannot become true confidants.
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