Author | Su Xin
The other day, I wrote a review of "Parental Love."
Some readers asked in the background: Does Anjie really love Jiang Defu?
Let's take a look.
Jiang Defu fell in love with Anjie at first sight in the dance hall, and he asked the principal and his wife to be the introducer, and the principal's two sons were also happy to see him succeed, so they arranged for the two of them to meet at home.
At first, Anjie did not look up to Jiang Defu, although he was already the leader of the regiment at that time, but his education level was low, and he could not get into Anjie's eyes.
However, Jiang Defu did not shrink back, and he tried everything he could to pursue the person he loved. The opportunity to make their relationship grow by leaps and bounds soon came, and Anjie's nephew had encephalitis and needed penicillin treatment, which was rare in ordinary hospitals at that time, and only the military hospital could get it. Jiang Defu ran to the dean, asked for medicine, and cured the child's illness.
At that moment, Jiang Defu was simply a big hero from the sky for the Anjie family, the whole body was full of aura, and the relationship between the two developed smoothly to marriage with the assistance of Anjie's family.
But at this time, there was another episode, because of Anjie's origin problem, the army did not approve Jiang Defu's marriage application, and wanted to hold the beauty unless he took off his military uniform.
Between his career and Anjie, Jiang Defu chose Anjie, and as long as he could marry Anjie, he would rather return to his hometown to work as a farmer.
This incident laid a good foundation for their feelings, but at this time, Anjie was not yet in love with Jiang Defu, at most he just liked and moved, if Jiang Defu really went to farm, I can guarantee that Anjie would definitely not go with him.
On the eve of their marriage, Anjie had such a conversation with her sister Anxin.
Anxin: Why do you look like you're getting married? Listless.
Anjie: I don't know what's going on, my heart is a mess, I'm very annoyed.
An Xin: Are you unwilling?
Anjie: Yes, maybe I used to think too much about love and too romantic, always thinking of a tall and handsome man standing in front of me, wearing a white suit and a red tie, looking at me with affection in the moonlight, and whispering in my ear, Miss Ann, I love you!
You see, this is the ideal husband in Anjie's heart, and Jiang Defu doesn't seem to be involved at all.
Anjie's choice at that time was nothing more than a compromise and a trade-off. She was a lady of the capitalist, and the circumstances were very unfriendly to her at the time, and she needed to find a capable man to protect herself. Jiang Defu is exactly such a person, he is a senior officer in the army, and the future is immeasurable, marrying him, not only can she live a good life, but her family will also follow.
After marriage, Anjie followed Jiang Defu to the island, afraid that she was too tired, Jiang Defu took his sister Dehua from his hometown and helped his sister-in-law watch the children do housework, and Anjie became a teacher.
When she went to the island to see her sister's family, she saw that her sister and brother-in-law, who had once been so decent, were living in a terrible state, and because she was married to Jiang Defu, she was lucky to avoid these things, and she was full of admiration for Jiang Defu in her heart.
Once, when the Red Guards discovered that Anjie was keeping her old costume and high heels and wanted to take her to the fight, Jiang Defu blocked the front with a stick and scared the people away.
Also, in that era of material scarcity, Anjie did not live a poor life, the children were hungry, she arrogantly bought ten packs of peach crisps at once, which ordinary people did not dare to think, and often ate braised meat or something, she never worried about money.
Love needs love, but marriage needs grace, and it is these graces that forge an unbreakable feeling.
Jiang Defu protected her for a lifetime of stability, gave her a good material life, and she slowly changed from initial unwillingness to dependence, trust, and willingness.
Ten thousand steps back, if Jiang Defu really returned to the countryside, even if Anjie's brain was hot and followed him, that little feeling would soon become a chicken feather, originally not two people in a world, most likely they would go their separate ways.
A few days ago, a female reader told me that she and her boyfriend of eight years had separated. They are college classmates, long-distance love, she ignored the opposition of her family, came to the city where her boyfriend was to find a job, and the boyfriend started his own business, hoping to earn more money, buy a house and a car as soon as possible, and marry his sweetheart.
But after so many years, the boyfriend has repeatedly failed to start a business, not only did not earn money but also owed a lot of debt, and even a decent gift was not bought for his girlfriend. The girl found that the relationship between her and her boyfriend was not only not deepening, but becoming weaker and weaker, and she did not love him anymore, so she proposed to break up and return to her parents.
People always think that love can overcome many things, and in the end, they find that not only can not overcome everything, but also be consumed by everything, on the contrary, love needs more grace, righteousness, and material to escort it for a long time.
Later, Wang Zhenbiao's wife died, and he ostensibly let Anjie and Jiang Defu act as matchmakers and wanted to marry Teacher Ge, but the clever Anjie found that in fact, the two of them had long been together in private, just to look good on their faces, and the two quickly married.
Teacher Ge's greatest wish is to find a man like Jiang Defu who can protect her, so whether it is Lao Ding or Wang Zhenbiao, it is not much different from her.
Love has its snobbery, but also its universal truth, and we ordinary people, most of us, like them, choose the person after weighing.
Some people may feel that such a marriage has shortcomings, in fact, whose marriage is 360 degrees without dead angles?
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