Text/An Dongyue
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"Knowing each other is far and near, and we are still neighbors."
This sentence comes from the Tang Dynasty poet Zhang Jiuling, which is similar to Wang Bo's "Confidant in the Sea, If the End of the World Is Nearby".
Between people, the most difficult thing is to know each other and understand each other. Whether it is friendship or love, to be able to attain such a state must be a blessing cultivated in a previous life.
Time and distance have always been the biggest test of feelings. Many people have a good relationship at the beginning, the friendship is very deep, but they can get along for a long time, and slowly they are shallow, light, and scattered.
There are also many people who are often in contact when they are first separated, and there seems to be no change, but in fact, the distance between them is invisibly getting farther and farther, and one day they will lose their contact because of the loss of intersection.
People often lament that the more you grow, the more you feel lonely, why?
Because, many people who were originally traveling all the way, unconsciously drifted away, and finally lost contact, like a strange road, there were few people left around, and there was not even a real confidant, so they felt more and more lonely.
Because of loneliness, I yearn for true understanding, look forward to meeting similar souls, have similar interests with each other, and even if they are thousands of miles apart, they can also be warm to each other and accompany each other for a lifetime.
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I have always liked the saying: "People with similar souls will always meet." ”
I have also written some articles on this topic.
The souls are similar, the frequency is the same, and such two people will invariably go to a point, and then meet, know, and know each other.
Just like her and him, originally just unrelated strangers, separated by thousands of rivers and mountains, but they have similar souls, common interests and goals, so they meet in the network and become confidants.
They all love words and love to write. Through words, they enter each other's inner world and become the people who know each other best in the world.
In life, they are busy at work, do not have many friends, and never participate in useless socializing, and in the eyes of others, their lives are plain and boring. But in fact, their souls are abundant, their hearts are full, and they have never felt bored. Because in their view, it is enough for one person in the world to understand himself and understand himself.
A confidant in life is enough to comfort the wind and dust.
A confidant is a person with a similar soul; a confidant is a person who understands each other; a confidant is a person who cherishes each other.
Throughout the ages, many literati and scholars, who want to know themselves but can't, so they write down the regret of "knowing few sounds, who listens to the broken strings", and "there are fewer cups of wine for confidants, and more than half a word is not speculative", and "there is a confidant in the world, you can not hate" Long-cherished wishes...
A true confidant, even if he is far away at the end of the world, is also close to his heart. However, such a confidant can be encountered but not sought.
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Encounter is fate, and acquaintance is bliss. If there is a chance to meet, if there is a blessing to know each other, it must be the practice of a previous life.
Many people do not believe that there is a true confidant in the world because they have not met.
But I would like to say that I have not met, which can only show that I have not practiced enough, the world is so big, there are always some people who are lucky.
Just like the aforementioned them, thousands of miles apart, but they know each other, and they are warmly accompanied in a different way, and their long lives are no longer lonely and lonely.
They are far away, one heaven south, one earth north.
They are close because they have similar souls.
I believe that there are many fortunate people in the world who are as lucky as they are, and although they are separated by mountains and seas, they know each other better than anyone. They are true soul confidants, destined to meet in the same time and space.
Red dust is strange, and people come and go. Who does not want to meet a confidant and have the most rare friendship in the world. However, the fate between people has a fixed number, and what is sought may not be obtained, and what is desired may not be realized, only by encountering with fate and being at peace with encounter.
Some people are far away in the end of the world, close to the heart. It was a similar soul, a true confidant.
If you also have such a confidant, you must cherish it.
If you haven't met it yet, don't feel sorry for it. Life is just a big dream, look at the dust, and be at ease with the encounter, just fine.
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Author: An Dongyue, a freelance writer, with warm brushstrokes, writes heartfelt words, and is willing to meet you in the deepest red dust. Welcome to follow.