Someone said: "A person's top way of health - to enrich themselves." ”
However, few people tell you how to be rich and when to start.
The famous writer Mu Xin said: "After I was fifty years old, I learned the taste of being a human being. ”
When you are in your twenties and thirties, you need to work hard to break out of the world, and when you are in your forties, the pressure of life is very large, taking care of children, mortgages, car loans, even if you want to do something, you can't help yourself.
By the age of fifty, most of the children have grown up, they are also facing retirement, the economic conditions are much better, and the time is quite relaxed.
A hundred years of life, fifty years old is the middle, take a breath, and then go, it is better.
Therefore, enriching yourself, from this time on, should be just right.
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Beginning at the age of fifty, he streamlined his friends, left three or five confidants, and raised feelings.
How many people know each other all over the world?
Most of the social networking is to pave the way for "career success". In the social arena, everyone understands that if you lose your interests, you should not continue, but everyone still speaks enthusiastically and desperately tries to hide their true thoughts.
No one knows, tomorrow and accidents, which one comes first. Perhaps, when the accident comes, it is necessary to ask for someone. Therefore, it is always right to establish an emotional card in advance.
"Fifty know the destiny of heaven", your value has come to an end, life is basically fixed, where to go, you know best. Therefore, according to the future development of life, selective dating, better.
Stay away from the dinner and wine bureau, fade out of the circle that is no longer needed, and spend more time with your family, you are a "good parent, good elder". The emotions between family members, which accompany you for a lifetime, need to be maintained with care.
If you have a chance and meet a confidant, it is a blessing, and you can come and go often in the future.
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From the age of fifty, he insisted on exercising, lived a regular life, and nourished his body.
I have seen the saying: "Health management refers to a process of comprehensive management of health risk factors for individuals or groups of people." ”
When people reach middle age, many are in a sub-healthy state, often feeling tired, but they must support a home, so it is common to ignore the practice of health.
As the old saying goes, "The river never stops, and life goes on." ”
To get a healthy body back, you have to move yourself, your thoughts, your hands and feet, your eyes and nose... All have to move.
Let go of all worries, and no longer pay attention to the position in the workplace, you will live into a state of "this world is good", overtime will naturally not be your turn. For your children, let go, and you will be freed from the shackles.
Every day, instead of going to work immediately, you go for a few laps and go to the park to take a deep breath; after work, don't respond to the news in the work group, you can go for a walk to listen to the wind, watch the sunset, and your life has a romantic element.
Traveling with your wife is also a good choice. Once, you lamented that when I have time, I don't have money; when I have money, I don't have time. Now, you can take a walk-and-go trip.
Only when you are in good health can you grow old and be happy.
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Since the age of fifty, he has advocated simplicity, made life full of poetry, and cultivated morality and wisdom.
The Yellow Emperor's Inner Classic says: "Eat and drink moderately, live regularly, and do not work in vain." ”
A truly happy life is not to eat and drink from the sea, not to be busy all the time, but to live a simple and regular life.
Only when the days are simple can we have a poetic understanding, and can we appreciate the situation of coarse tea and light rice, sunrise and sunset.
An old colleague of mine, at the age of fifty-five, took a back seat. He insisted on practicing calligraphy every day, and also joined the calligraphy and painting class, and his life was simple, and there were fewer things to break.
Last year, he renovated his old house, and his own calligraphy and paintings hung on the walls, and he felt very satisfied. He said: "When people are old, the fallen leaves return to their roots, which is the most beautiful return." ”
In fact, many elderly people have made their complex lives simple, and the elegant side of life is reflected. And what is rare is that he maintains a kind heart, warms others with his own words and deeds, and arouses the yearning of many people.
Fifty-year-olds should re-plan their lives and learn to clean up the bits and pieces of life, and what is worth preserving is hobbies, morality, wisdom, and three meals a day.
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From the age of fifty, I looked down on gains and losses, loosened the shackles of life, and nourished my soul.
For many periods, it is impossible to return to heaven. Even with the efforts of two generations, it is impossible to complete.
For example, a family going to space tourism, such a dream, for ordinary people, is a wild idea.
People must see society and themselves clearly, and give themselves a precise positioning, otherwise you will be controlled by the desires of the heart, and at any time, as soon as you open your mouth, you will say "I am too difficult."
In times of peace, our lives are already very happy, but we ask for too many things and lose happiness.
Zeng Guofan once said: "There is a fixed number of gains and losses, and those who ask for more than they can't get, and even if they want to get, it is also the fate that they deserve." Enron is suffering, not necessarily foremost, from the camp of many camps. ”
If it is yours, you will just avoid it and will come to you; if it is not yours, it will be held desperately and it will be lost. It is better to let go, let the departing leave, let the coming come. Even if you have a handful of money in front of you, if it's not yours, don't ask for it and avoid getting into trouble.
Only by opening the palm of your hand will you touch the warmth of the spring breeze and touch any corner of the world.
Man, after clearing the dirt in the soul and enjoying everything cleanly, can we have the best future.
05
In the "Cai Gen Tan", it is written: "Pi is rich and I am benevolent, Pi Jue is righteous, and a gentleman is not imprisoned by the king." ”
Others are rich and powerful, I have benevolence and morality, and this is what a true gentleman does. If you can think that way and do it, then you will continue to get better.
In the second half, get rid of the trap of desire, leave the lively scene, the spirit is noble, the soul is rich, better than anything.
Busy and busy for half a lifetime, everything is coming to an end, start a new journey, and be kind to yourself.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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