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Tong Hua once wrote such a sentence: There are many kinds of encounters in the world, the most beautiful, is to meet you in my most beautiful years, time in every second of bloom and flow become precious and eternal. Yes, deeply believed, in this world's happiest thing is that the one he likes in his heart, ta just likes himself, two people like each other, love each other, when the two hearts of two people collide with each other, the spark of love is rubbed out, the collision is the sweetness of love, is the surprise of happiness.

We all know that there are billions of people in our world, there will always be an encounter in the vast sea of people to make them emotional, there is always a person who makes him feel excited, and even makes him willing to give his whole for the beloved Ta, and love this person for a lifetime, never separated.

Although the ideal is beautiful, but the reality is cruel, we like the person, but not necessarily like themselves, when their own initiative, their own likes can not get the other party half a response, like the person indifferent to themselves, without any interest, their hearts often get is frustrated and desperate, more will feel discouraged, after all, no matter how much they love this person, no matter how much enthusiasm for ta is good, for a long time can not get half a response, no matter how good the expectations will be poured out little by little.

However, when you like a person, this person just likes yourself, naturally their own initiative, their own likes can get the response they want, the other party not only feels their love, accept their own heart, but also reveal their own likes and good feelings, then their hearts of course get is the joy and touch of happiness, get is the sweetness and beauty of love.

After all, the really beautiful and sweet love in the world begins with two people liking each other, from the two hearts of two people colliding together, if only their own wishful thinking, they like that person and don't like themselves, they don't have any meaning to themselves, so what else to like, what love?

You should know that in the process of heterosexual interaction, when a person really likes another person, has each other in his heart, and has true feelings for him, he will not necessarily express his like and love directly, but will choose to show his own behavior, for example, he will give each other warmth and care, he will also work hard to take the initiative to approach each other, and he will chat with each other, make some jokes, and want to become each other's flower protectors, and can protect each other in a bright way.

Especially whenever you like a person and are secretly crushing each other in your heart, although you will occasionally feel some hardship, but in fact, it is quite beautiful to think about such memories, especially when you feel that the Ta you like is also fond of yourself, that is an indescribable happiness and surprise, but also a kind of long-lost sweetness and happiness.

Therefore, in the process of heterosexual communication, two people together, if you can take the initiative to "share" these things, it is to love the right person, indicating that you are sincere to ta, and ta is also true love for you. Only a love like this that is truly opposite to each other will be beautiful and long-lasting.

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Share troubles with each other;

You must know that in the relationship, to really like a person from the bottom of your heart, not only to have a good feeling for this person, but also to be willing to put into action for your beloved, to really do something for your beloved, to really help each other, to be willing to solve any problems and difficulties for your beloved, to really give each other happiness and warmth, to give each other dependence and happiness.

Especially when the person you like encounters something or difficulty in his daily life, he will be eager to fly to the other party's side immediately to help the other party solve problems and troubles, help the other party to overcome dangers, and survive any difficulties in life. Because of this, for the sake of their beloved, to be able to pay practical actions, to be able to do their own meager efforts, that is a kind of happiness and happiness.

So whenever the person you like encounters something or difficulty, you are willing to help each other anytime and anywhere, solve difficulties and things, and whenever your loved one encounters something or difficulty, can you think of yourself at the first time, whether you will believe in yourself in your heart, and will have a sense of trust and dependence on yourself, the same is actually a kind of performance of liking yourself!

And do not love themselves, not interesting to themselves, not interested in themselves, not only do not have their own hearts, but also can not remember to have their own person, whenever they encounter any difficulties or problems, they will not think of themselves at the first time, may think of helping the person will not be themselves, even if the other party knows that they are willing to help Ta solve difficulties or things, but this person just can't remember himself, and he is not willing to find himself, tell himself to know, to put it bluntly, he does not believe in himself, There is no sense of dependence or trust in oneself. On the contrary, people who also love themselves deeply will trust themselves, will also rely on themselves, and will put themselves into their hearts, once they encounter things or difficulties, they will be the first time to find themselves for help, because this person just likes themselves, so once something happens in danger, there is actually only a blank in the brain, only remember themselves!

You must know that officially because this person likes himself and has love for himself, he will have a sense of trust and dependence on himself, and he will subconsciously regard himself as the first object of help, think of himself as a messenger who can help him solve problems, can protect his own flower protector, and in the other party's heart is similar to treating himself as a hero-like existence, so that whenever he encounters something or difficulties, of course, he will find himself for help for help at the first time.

And the other party's heart is also very clear, you really like yourself, but also really good to yourself, but also willing to give yourself warmth and help anytime and anywhere, the other party not only feels your likes and love, but also knows your hard heart, just because of you by your side, the heart feels very touched and warm, feel very satisfied and happy. So we can judge whether a person also likes himself, whether he is also interested in himself, and whether he wants to be with himself or not, whether he is also interested in himself, and whether he also wants to be with himself.

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Share secrets between each other;

Forget which article once wrote about such a theme: a person loves you or not, just look at the contact! Indeed, especially in the process of heterosexual interaction, whenever they take the initiative to contact each other, can the other party reply to themselves at the first time, whether there are endless words when chatting and talking to themselves, and whether the other party is very happy and excited when they receive their own messages? In fact, you can see whether this person likes himself, whether he is interested in himself, and whether he has a good feeling for himself!

To know that liking will be very simple, when a person likes another person, they will desperately close the distance between the two of you, especially whenever they like a member of the opposite sex, they will inevitably be unable to help but often contact each other, want to care about each other, but also want to chat with each other, through this way to deepen each other's understanding, close the distance between each other.

And when you really love someone, when you chat with each other, you will be very happy and comfortable, you can talk freely, and even joke with each other, without any pressure, you can also tell each other your heart, that is a great comfort for yourself, a huge sweetness and happiness. On the contrary, a person who does not love himself, has no interest in himself, and has no interest in himself may not only not welcome his own active contact, but even sometimes when he receives his own information, he will feel that he disturbs Ta, feels that he is very annoying, and even deliberately does not reply to his own messages, and he has nothing to say to himself, not only is he not half happy, but he is all indifferent and alienated from himself.

After all, you and I know that people who really like themselves may look forward to their own active contact in the heart early in the morning, looking forward to their own messages and contacts, and will often hold the mobile phone without letting go, check whether they have received their own messages every few minutes, have been waiting for their own messages or replies in front of the screen, whenever they receive their own replies, they will feel very happy and happy, even before receiving their own messages or replies, in fact, they have already clicked on your chat history. Or maybe your message box has been read countless times and has been looking to see if you have your own message or reply.

Especially when the other party receives their own message or reply, the mood will feel very excited, the heart is even more excited, but also strongly hold the joy in their hearts, seconds back to their own messages or replies, worried that the phone on the other end of their own waiting for too long, afraid of waiting too anxious to ignore themselves. So sometimes, you can tell from the speed at which a person responds to their messages, whether the person likes themselves, and a degree of interest in themselves.

Then the atmosphere during the chat between the two of you is very happy and comfortable, the other party seems to have a stomach to say to themselves, often as soon as they open their mouths or ask questions, they will talk about it non-stop, whether it involves each other's family affairs, or each other's past, or even the secrets buried in the depths of their hearts, they will be willing to tell themselves without reservation. When chatting, you can feel it, this person does not treat himself as an outsider, but as his own person, and chat with himself will be very enthusiastic and attentive, from the process of talking to this chat, you can feel the other party's happy and excited mood.

In the end, you and I must understand that really liking a person is an emotion that cannot be hidden or hidden, even if you dare not directly say that I like you, I will not often put the word love on my mouth, but this person's attitude of chatting with himself, the words and secrets he says to himself, the emotions and true meaning hidden in it, in fact, can not deceive people, but also can not hide!

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Share gifts with each other;

Whether a person likes or dislikes himself, whether he is interested in himself or not, and whether he wants to develop a relationship with himself or not can be seen from the gifts he gives to the other party. How to say it, whenever you give each other a gift or surprise, the other party is not willing to accept it, and will be very happy to collect this gift or surprise as a treasure, and whether you will be willing to take the initiative to give back your surprise or gift.

In heterosexual communication, gifts or surprises are actually one of the best ways to express their emotions, and it is also a best sustenance, especially when a person likes another person, you can pass on your love and liking for Ta through gifts or surprises. So whenever you fall in love with someone, have a heart for this person, and want to be with each other, then you will have an impulse in your heart, and you want to use some kinds of excuses or names to send gifts or surprises to each other, one can take this opportunity to express your likes and love, and the other is to take this opportunity to test whether this person likes himself and is interesting to himself.

A person who really likes himself, is also interesting to himself, and has a feeling of heartbeat, whenever he receives his gift or surprise, he will naturally feel very happy, and he will also be a like and surprise that cannot be concealed, and he will smile with a smile on his face. And a person who does not like himself, has no interest in himself, is not interested in himself, no matter what gifts or surprises he sends, will not be interested, will not feel happy, even if it is an expensive thing, how good things, the other party has no interest, and even directly reject, as if it has not happened.

You know, people who really love themselves deeply, have themselves in their hearts, and want to be with themselves, may have long looked forward to their gifts and surprises in their hearts, because gifts can represent their love for Ta, and through their own gifts or surprises, they can understand their own intentions for Ta, and they can know their different feelings for Ta. Therefore, the other party is not only willing to accept their own gifts or surprises, but also very happy, full of happiness as a treasure as a serious collection.

And no matter how much the gift or surprise you give to him, no matter whether the value of the thing is valuable, for himself, it is of extraordinary significance, unique, and very precious, just as the so-called gift is light and affectionate, because this gift or surprise is sent by the loved one, and it is hidden in the beloved person's strong love. Every time you receive your own gift or surprise, the other party will also want to convey their love and love for you, so they will also carefully prepare gifts or surprises to give to themselves with gifts in return, hoping that you can understand your intentions.

After all, for two people who love each other, when receiving a gift or surprise from a loved one, it means a kind of sweetness and happiness, and when giving a gift or surprise to a loved one, it is not also a kind of sweetness and happiness. These seemingly simple details may not be seen by outsiders, but insiders who are caught in love understand very well and know the deep meaning represented in these surprises or gifts.

The famous poet Yuan Haoqing once said such a sentence: Ask what the world's situation is, and teach people to live and die.

In short, in the emotional world, especially in the heterosexual interaction, when men and women interact, we must pay attention to each other's sense of proportion at all times, grasp the distance and scale, if you two do not pay attention to good proportions, do not grasp the distance and scale, the relationship between the two of you is not handled well, then it will develop into other relationships uncontrollably.

If the two of you happen to be single to each other, and the two people like each other, and they are very suitable for each other, even if it is okay, but if you are both single, have your own family or lover, then you must not let these things happen, after all, in real life, no one can accept that their lover and others do not pay attention to proportions, and even have the above similar intimate behavior, sharing these important things together, two people are ambiguous, the relationship is unclear.

So you remember, whether it is marriage is good, love or not, everyone hopes that their lover is dedicated and loyal to their feelings, is really like themselves, and is more wholehearted to themselves, if they do not want ta to be hurt because of this, they also care about liking ta, do not want to cause other people to misunderstand, then when they usually interact with other people of the opposite sex in their daily lives, they must grasp the scale between each other, and must pay attention to the sense of proportion between each other. Know how to maintain a normal safe distance.

After all, in today's era, you can have the privilege of meeting and knowing each other and even loving each other, at the same time, two people can like each other, and treat each other sincerely is actually a very rare and valuable thing, so you must know how to cherish, cherish the feelings between each other, cherish the people around you, is the smart thing you should really do, don't because of some small misunderstandings, or unwarranted things, thus ruining your hard-won love, has been precious happiness, ah, look around!

May all the lovers in the world finally become dependents, and may every "you" who reads the article and the person he loves just love himself, and I hope that the love of two people can blossom and bear fruit smoothly, and enter the marriage hall together, hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son.

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