The writer Tong Hua once said such a sentence:
"If you really love someone, even if you give her your whole world, you still worry about not giving enough, not good enough." 」
Indeed, the essence of love is to give willingly.
If you want to give you the best of everything, you will always be thinking about you in your heart.
Always worry about you, think about you everywhere, want to be a happy little princess.
The deeper a person loves you, the greater the obsession with you will be, and the more he does not want to lose you.
Therefore, in the process of getting along with you, he will also have his own careful machine, and he wants you to stay by his side willingly all the time.
Keep in mind your likes and dislikes
People are like this, the more they like a person, the more they will do to their liking.
He probably never asked you what you liked or didn't like.
However, he has always been familiar with your preferences.
He knows what you like and don't like.
In the process of getting along with you, he will never touch your "thunder point".
He rarely makes you angry, and he doesn't do anything that makes you unhappy.
He blindly accommodates you and spoils you in this way, just to make you inseparable from him.
It seems to be scheming, but it is full of his love for you.
He knows you don't like to eat coriander and he knows you're allergic to shrimp.
Therefore, every time you go out to eat and order, you will specially tell the waiter not to put coriander.
Because he likes you enough, he knows a lot about your hobbies and dressing styles.
With him, you will feel particularly worry-free.
Because he sometimes knows more about yourself than you do, and he knows yourself better.
There will always be little surprises for you
There is a sentence in "The Little Prince":
"The sense of ceremony is to make a certain day different from other days, to make a certain moment different from other times."
Indeed, the initial vigorous feelings will return to calm after a long time.
At this time, life needs some sense of ceremony to add to the atmosphere.
In this world, there is no such thing as a straight man of steel, as long as he likes you enough, he understands everything.
There's no girl who doesn't like the little surprises her boyfriend makes, and you're no exception.
So, he'll always give you a small gift every three to five minutes, or have a candlelit dinner with you on anniversaries.
The person who truly loves you, he will seize every opportunity to make you happy.
On a business trip in the field, see a beautiful scenery, he will shoot it for you, and you will say that the next time you must come again with you;
Eat delicious food outside, he will also think of you in his heart, and when he comes home, he will not forget to bring you a copy;
He will also personally walk a few streets for you when you say you want to eat dessert and go to your favorite store to buy it for you.
It seems like a very ordinary little thing, but from these small details, you can see his love for you.
With him, you will feel that life is always full of expectations and surprises.
While he is spoiling you and loving you, you will unconsciously love him more.
Arguing with you will take the initiative to get you
In "Carry Love to the End", there is a saying that goes like this:
"Every quarrel, right or wrong, should be conceded by men first;
Sometimes, women are really unreasonable, and they don't want to prove that they are right; they want the other person to let themselves.
Men who hurt women have to be angry and have their heads down. ”
Deeply.
If a man, he really loves you, then, he will not compete with you when arguing.
He will choose to take the initiative to compromise with you because he loves you.
After the quarrel, what the girl wants is actually just an attitude of the boy.
No matter whether things are right or wrong, and whether the boy's apology is out of his heart, as long as he can take the initiative to apologize, the girl will actually forgive.
But in life, there are some men who refuse to die and do not admit their mistakes.
If you have to reason with the girl, you have to prove that the girl is wrong.
At this time, where the girls can listen, they will only become more noisy and fierce in the end.
Sometimes, it is obviously a "sorry" thing, but some boys don't understand.
Of course, it wasn't that he really didn't understand, it was that he didn't want to understand.
In the end, it's not enough love, not so much care.
You must know that men who truly love you will not deliberately avoid when they encounter contradictions.
I won't be pestering you all the time.
He will take the initiative to shout stop, take the initiative to bow his head to you, and when you are not angry, he will talk to you slowly.
You see, the more men who love you, the more they will put you first, think about you everywhere, think about you, and want you to stay by your side for the rest of your life.
And this is the "careful machine" that men have for you.